Is it necessary of having an affair in school days or in college ????

i did dream of having girlfriends as a kid. But i never had any affairs when i was in school. I was too shy for any relationships. But when i came to college i did have a few girlfriends. The same continued after college as well. I have a few girlfriends at work place. Then came a time when i got into a serious relationship and i married the same girl after 4 years.

Having an affair is not necessary for school life. Education should be the goal.

I think, it is more proper to be in a relationship when you are in college days than during high school days. When you are in college, you are more mature compared when you are in high school days. High school days is the most crucial stage because this is the start of adolescence. This stage is when we get curious of new things.

I had just one affair once and since i have broken up with fair i prefer to stay single at times now and i find that much better than being in love with someone. For one i don't have to pay attention 24/7 to my partner all the time and i can focus more on what i want and i would be determined to get or achieve something. Being in an affair is a responsibility and you should be sure to handle it well else it can break up more easily then you worked to make it work out. Also if you ask me girls have a lot of demands nowadays! Cheers!

An affair will only be necessary if there is mutual love between two people. It is not necessary, I think, to have relationships during your school days just so you can experience having a relationship.

well I had so many affairs that I don't remember the count ya its an amazing feeling to be in a relationship it feels good that someone who thinks that you are the most good looking person some with whom you can share your feelings ,emotions,with whom you can share every expression of your life..my first affair was when i was 5 years I guess and after that I don't remember and now I am single I am in collage and one more girl is in process of becoming my girlfriend.

If you can avoid having a romantic relationship in high school and in college, I suggest doing so because relationships aren't cheap, and the romance doesn't always last forever. I was 22, and still in college, when I began my relationship with my boyfriend. I love him, and I love being with him, but sometimes we wonder if it was all too soon and too fast. We are doing our best to take things slow, and I told him that I want my college degree, and he is fine with that, and I want him to get his college degree, and he too is working on his degree. Being in this relationship hasn't been easy because I feel like I am not devoting enough time to my boyfriend.

no. i never had an intimate relationship in college because i thought i can't handle both -- schooling and relationship. well i used to have a long distance but yeah.. considering it's long distance, it's as if i don't have one. we broke while still away from each other. anyway, not really necessary.. you don't need one to learn what you gotta learn from school. they say that having a relationship can inspire you, i don't think so.. there are a lot of things you can turn to to give yourself a little lift in times you needed it.

I think it is not necessary to have an affair in school time. But sometimes we get under this situation. But I have never faced this situation in my schooling time. I think this is also an experience to love someone. And many persons face this situation in their schooling.

Having an affair to someone have no time when it will start, in my opinion it is not necessary to have an affair in school days because I believe that they have a right time for that, in the right place and in the right person. We should prioritize first our study Im sure the love that I been waiting will surely come without setting the time for it when to come.

Have it anytime my friend, Anytime your mind is matured enough to handle it ok. Happymylotting.

I feel like it is just a matter of maturity. If you think, you are ready to have affairs, and emotionally you can handle it, then why not. But if you feel like its not the right time, then you should give considerations about it. You should think about the actions and its risk for you to be able to say, that "Okay, I can have many affairs as I want, because I am ready for it". Just be careful in the fact that diseases are fast to get into you if you will not be careful! ;)

For me, it is necessary of having an affair in college, because they have more experience in love. I know lots of us had a girlfriend or boyfriend. Some of us experience of sadness like me. Its because of my personality, but even though i am not handsome , I am very happy of who i am now. Beside my sadness, I always pray, maybe someday I will find my true love.

Hi Ashutosh It is really not a trend to have a girlfriend in school or college.But true love is something which may happen anytime.Yaa sometimes you feel alone when you see some of friends are managing a girlfriend of pleasure or whatever.This is a kind of show off and nothing else.You should not try to have a girlfriend because your friends are having.That is time pass and lots of wastage of money.Any ways thanks for that wonderful topic and Hope you meet with your dream girl soon.

no it is not. it is a habit in the school to have a girl friend or boy friend. but one important things that you have to consider is making an affair needs some money. if u both want to go to theater, u will need some to buy the ticket or to buy some drinks and snack