What is it that you don't like about yourself...

Philippines
July 25, 2010 9:14am CST
Accepting our flaws (whether it be physical, attitude,or behavior) is the beginning of change. If there is something you would like to change in yourself, what is it?
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@bubulizzz (508)
• Latvia
25 Jul 10
I don't like my egoistic character. Every time when something happen my ego starts to talk and not always I can to say no! I would like to be more humble and helpful.
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• Philippines
25 Jul 10
To change, you must try to make a conscious effort. If you really want to change your being egoistic, always be conscious about your actions. Learn self control. It may be difficult at first, but when you get used to it, it will already become a part of you. And later you'll be surprised that you have already changed.
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• India
25 Jul 10
There are many things that I don't like about myself! 1. I cannot make me adjustable in all kind of situation. 2. I always get curious. 3. Little awkward things always irritate me. 4. I lost my temper and sometimes throw what i get in my hands. 5. I cannot approach to the other peoples and make them friends easily. 6. I always feel insecure. 7. I hate the people who really like me and like the ones who doesn't want me to be happy. 8. And many more. I want to change many of these. I wish I could become a perfect desired son of my parents! We expected many things from me but I couldn't fulfill their desires. Hope I can adjust some of them in near future as I can understand them better than before.
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@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
25 Jul 10
i believe that i what i am and what i have makes me a unique person. I have nothing that i really don't like about myself instead i need to accept what i am and what have. I know i am not perfect physically, emotionally and socially but i can improve myself to become a better person. if i have something to change about myself those are the bad things or habits that i have.
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@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
25 Jul 10
I hate that i am too sensitive, and i get attach of people very fast, and then if they disappoint me i feel hurt. I don`t like it that i am shy when i met someone, and at the first meeting i`m quiet, and i don`t speak unless i`m asked. Sometimes i tend to be paranoic, and argue with people about stupid stuff, and sometimes i get angry too easy.
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• India
25 Jul 10
Short-temper
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• India
25 Jul 10
Short-termper
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@patgalca (18392)
• Orangeville, Ontario
25 Jul 10
I pray to God every night to help me change. I have lost motivation and therefore find myself to be very lazy. I do have a chronic illness but I can work around that with my writing but I just can't bring myself to editing my novel (I hate editing). I am good at procrastinating and making excuses... those are bad traits. I have always had a negative attitude and have worked to change that but I find it's hard to change who you are. My therapist told me it's not about changing who you are, it's about growing. Hmmm... when did I stop growing? I guess I should get out more, experience more stuff, meet more people. I'm too much of a homebody.
@Java09 (3075)
• United States
25 Jul 10
I have one thing I'm trying to change is my weight.I want to get into better health.I love myself,but definately don't like to be over weight.I've started to do work outs,but I have to give time to see a difference.Weight doesn't come off over night.I'm still working on changing my eating habits.Too much sugar prevents weight loss,that's the hard part of it.
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
We share the same feelings Java09. What I hate too about myself is my weight. I've been into several weight loss program attempts before but it didn't work out for me. Well, it's not that those programs were not effective. It is, maybe. However, I just didn't have much determination yet probably at that time to continue it. This time I'm back to give it another shot. I'm into diet and exercising. I hope my motivation on why I want to lose weight is stronger now to sustain my determination to hit my weight goal. Good luck to the both of us.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
25 Jul 10
What I dont like about myself is I easily trust someone. I dont know but this is the factor that I would like to change. I also hate about myself is I dont know how to fight in argument. Although I am a best debater before but now I am in real world of failure and success. I dont know how to fight back in an argument. I dont know how to apply the art of questioning as your best defense. I really hate it every time I am in this situation. It keep on flashing back on my mind and I keep on retelling my answer and trying to edit. Hoping that this would be the best answer I could have done or utter. But unfortunately I did not.
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• United States
26 Jul 10
I hate how lazy I have become. All I do is sit around and "veg" on my computer. I used to be very active but now I'm not. Because of this I have become chubby; not fat but a lot of my clothes don't fit anymore:(
@antilove (191)
• Vietnam
29 Jul 10
I don't really like my physical shape now. I have to gain weigh as much as possible. I think it is not so difficult to change something you don't like about urself. It is only the matter of how much you want to change.
• Philippines
9 Oct 10
my temper. period.