what would you do if you LOST your GIRL???
By galactuschad
@galactuschad (78)
Sri Lanka
July 25, 2010 12:11pm CST
we say that eyes are crying when they are tearing only.. but a heart can cry for a life time even without a person's knowledge.. a heart can cry more than how much eyes can.. and the pain would always be greater cus tears will ease the pain but never will the blood in a heart :'(
my girlfriend and i kinda broke up :""(( miss her now.. i wish she's here right now :'(
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9 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
26 Jul 10
aww thats so sad :( im sorry for what happened :( dont be sad. im sure that you can solve things if you still love her^^ talk with her and try to get her back^^ anyway you are right tears help us to feel better but if you have your heart broken is not that easy to feel better :( anyway dont be upset. if you talk with her and show her how you love her she might want you back^^ maybe it was just an arguement and you broke up just for a few time ^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
aww so great that you did as i advised you too^^ im so happy^^ yes you did right thing not saying i love you to her before bcs you were not sure of your feelings^^ we must say i love you when we feel it^^ and thats what you did now^^ for sure your gf is so lucky to have you bcs you are honest^^ and love her^^ wish you be happy always^^ and anytime you need advises im here^^
@galactuschad (78)
• Sri Lanka
26 Jul 10
i made up I MADE UPP YEAHH! hahaa :D your solution was excellent that i had exactly done that :) it worked.. well the thing is, except the first few days that i asked her out, i never said "i love you" cause i dont lie to her.. its just that i aint sure whether i do or not.. how do you feel it? :s
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
26 Jul 10
galactuschad,
I am sorry for whatever happened to you but if you look around the earth is still spinning without her.
So, do snap out of it as it is not even the end of the world yet. If the both of you are incompatible then it is better now than be sorry later.
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” - Helen Keller.
@galactuschad (78)
• Sri Lanka
26 Jul 10
thanks a lot skysuccess! and a great quote right there.. thanks again :)
and im so happy that im back with her !! yaayyy
@Danzylop (1120)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
The best you have to do is move on. If you really knows what love is then you're mature enough to love and let go. It is hard especially when you get anchored to this person but the best thing to do is remove this from. overhaul your habits. Live differently. and dont listen to lonely music. this will just make you cry. and dont you ever cry. because crying means weakness. The more you can stand with out crying, the more pride you will be for yourself that you can say, I am really strong and no one can make me down.
@Memnon (2170)
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25 Jul 10
T think the range of emotions is always challenged here. I have had relationships which have really upset me, and others of which I have been glad to escaped.
Until this happens sometimes even we have no idea quite how we feel. I hope that you have some good friends to be with who will help you. See how things work out, and best wishes.
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
26 Jul 10
Sorry that happened to you Galactuschad. I broke up with my girlfriend an year back now, but you know what it was a good break-up. Something you don't get often these days.
We're still great friends, and guess just moved on from each other.
@galactuschad (78)
• Sri Lanka
26 Jul 10
we made up sooner and things started going worse again so i begged her and now its kinda okay... wondering if i were to let it go.. :S she even suggested that we could be best friends forever, and she told me that she aint ever gonna leave me so its okay... i dunno what to choose.. how do you watch her be your "friend-only" man??! i dont think i'd stand still when i'd see her next..
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
26 Jul 10
it's hard at first, prob for a few weeks for me and it was even tougher because she was already dating another guy straight after =/
...awkward...
But once you've found someone else, you let go and don't even notice it.
@vikkitita (194)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
If I can only prevent losing the person I love, I will do anything to keep that person. I can't even stand the mere thought of losing the person I dearly love.
But if at the point that there's nothing I can do to have him back.. I'll cry at first, but I won't cry forever. I need to pick up the broken pieces of myself and move on. There is still life after a broken relationship.
@galactuschad (78)
• Sri Lanka
26 Jul 10
hmmm true.. you don't have to give up your life, cause' even that person must have always expected you to live your life :)
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
25 Jul 10
I dont even want to think of it. Even the tought of losing my wife makes me cry. I dont know if i will be able to be alive if i lose her. She is my life and i love her lots.
@will_win (222)
• India
28 Jul 10
I had a same experienced in my life when i broke up with my boy,its hardest thing for me to forgot him. First time i was upset, feeling lonely and i promised myself that i will not forgive him ......... but what i thought is that "loving is not how you forget but how you forgive"..........so let them go off.........