Do you still feel something towards your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
July 25, 2010 1:11pm CST
A pleasant day to you,
I am thinking why there are some married couples who still feel something towards their ex (boyfriend or girlfriend). That even they are married for so long, still, they feel something. That when you ask the story behind their ex, they still feel the excitement to share the story. And that they still feel something towards their ex.
5 responses
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
25 Jul 10
Since the day i started dating my wife i have stopped thinking of my past. I dont want to spoil my future. i love my wife lots and dont want to get other feelings into my mind.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
26 Jul 10
you did right thing edward^^ why remember past if you have a future with all you need?^^ me also i wouldnt want my ex again i feel nothing for him actually^^right now i just want a guy that really loves me for who i am^^ we dont need memories of exes to haunt our relationship^^ you said right thing^^ all people should do that bcs there are those that always say you are like my ex or compare with ex and i wouldnt like someone do that with me.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I dont feel anything for them anymore. I see my ex-boyfriends too but I say to myself that I remember the boy but I cant remember the feeling anymore. lol Well, when my ex boyfriends and I broke u, that was the end if it. I dont have any reasons to continue my feelings for them anymore. Its a waste of time actually. But of course, some are still my friends and others are just nothing like I dont know them at all.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
26 Jul 10
well maybe he or her has good memories of that time and want share with person they are with now. doesnt mean that they dont love the person now but they still keep good memories with that person. imagine that your hubby had an ex before and loved her so so much and she left him this was something that hurt him and maybe it was hard for him to forget her before so now even he forgot her already it still made him sad how she acted with him. doesnt mean that they still love that person but we cant erase memories so is normal that they want share it with us bcs we are their love now.
@vikkitita (194)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
When you love someone so much and that relationship did not work out, you try to move on. But that person will always have a special place in your heart.
I've been into that same feeling. I have loved and lost. And now I'm married for 23 years. I love my husband too however the person whom I have loved before still have a special place in my heart. And it doesn't mean that I love him more than I love my husband. It's just that he has been too much a part of my past emotions that a part of him stays in my heart and his memories stays in my mind. And I don't feel guilty about it. Thinking and talking about your past love is not infidelity. Just like any other happy memories, it's nice and exciting to talk about it. And it's true, you can still feel the excitement to share the story. It's normal... you are human.
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@shevalicious (11)
• Saudi Arabia
25 Jul 10
don't get me wrong,.but i think its normal,even though we know that what is past is past, but once for your life you loved each other and a lot of memories you've shared being together whether its wrong or bad,.ob-course a little feeling remains,.:)
