How will you feel???

hi there joy! that would really hurts. but as to you, you should confront him. ask him why he does not respond to your chat while he is in fact online. because you should get the answers first before judging him. my bf used to do that before. but he told me he only left the computer online and leave it there while he does his work, but the mere fact he was not in his own table that's why he does not read all my chat right away. some people do that, especially busy ones. get it online and leave it. so people could still send them messages while they were away, and read them when they get back. but anyway, should you two talk about it. happy mylotting!

hi there joy! that would really hurts. but as to you, you should confront him. ask him why he so not respond to your chat while he is in fact online. because you should get the answers first before judging him. my bf used to do that before. but he told me he only left the computer online and leave it there while he does his work, but the mere fact he was not in his own table that's why he does not read all my chat right away. some people do that, especially busy ones. get it online and leave it. so people could still send them messages while they were away, and read them when they get back. but anyway, should you two talk about it. happy mylotting!

ouch! that would really hurt. first, i would confront and be straightforward abnout it, but if there's no change i think i will just dont mind it and divert attention.

I would still give him the benefit of the doubt. If he did not respond well, I will ask him why. Are you feeling sick o what? Of course, you were left alone with your kids (if you have) and he is also alone so far away with you. I have friends who told me that temptations do come around, but both of you must hold on to your promises. Too much worry can give you headache, so try to relax and think positive.

Oh that is nasty, and would hurt which would make me suspicious but I would wait until I spoke to them again before I would make any accusations. He may have been to talking to someone else. But he better have a good reason for being rude to me.

I will be suspicious that he's chatting with someone else. I will think of course that I am now starting to lose my husband for another woman. When your husband is in a far off country away from you, lonely and alone, the human natural tendency is to find company with another person who can brush off his loneliness. The danger is that if they meet and do that more often, their feelings gets stronger to the point that they would like to be together forever. And you, which is supposed to be the wife is the block to that desire instead. If your husband don't want to chat with you, isn't that a sign... don't you think so?

This is very frustrating but there is nothing you can do. You cannot make others do what you want unless you threaten them and since you don't know the whole story I would worry that it would turn out to be all a misunderstanding and that my threat would come back to haunt me. Hang in there and picture the best.

I will think that she is either busy with something and will respond to me later, I will leave her a message and wait for her reply

thats really a very sad thing, and if i were in that situation i would have felt very sad .

She might be just testing my patience and loyalty. So I just be patient to wait for her response. In the mean time I sms her with many loving words. She will respond to me after her timing is expired.

Initial reaction is to be suspicious, I can't blame you for that because your husband is not acting normally. If he really misses you and if he is not hiding something then he must not act the way he is acting right now. But it depends upon the situation and also it depends how deep is your relationship. If you really trust him then maybe you have to divert your attention to something worthwhile rather than worrying. If your relationship to one another is really deep then there is no way to worry. Maybe he is just busy, the computer or cellphone has no signal or maybe it's damage. There might be a reasons for his action. Just try to think that he is in a good condition and don't doubt about his loyalty to you. But if you can really feel that there is a hidden agenda then do the best thing that you can do.

If i encountered such thing, I think we'd better talk with each other heart to heart. i will ask him about that later. I will give him a chance to explain. If there's really a problem between us, like what, he loved someone else, i think i should let him go.

I would begin to get angry, and begin to get suspicious of their doings. I mean, are they cheating?! I doubt they are, but seriously...why don't they answer the phone or chat with me while I'm online?! I would investigate and have someone I knew(if anybody) go to check on them, or even question them when they got back...I'm the type of person to get very suspicious and I worry too much, but I personally would do that. Hope this helped!!

I would be flipping out! There is a definite problem if he or she is avoiding you, which is what it seems is going on. Maybe there's a reason though, maybe someone else is on the computer under their screen name. Be patient and hear them out when they are ready to explain themselves. I really hope it's just something little and it all works out!

I would be most disappointed, and maybe, just a little suspicious. depending on how stronr the relationship is.

ask for an explanation first and try to believe that explanation unless it is really absurd. Iv'e been in a long distance relationship and it is really hard. don't get paranoid. It will kill your relationship