Have you felt so jealous?

Jealousy is the very dangerous enemy in relationship if your going to feel that in spite that your bf is securing you don't think to much just trust him and your love for one another but make sure he is not going to fool you in anyway.Just further more communicates with him every now and then so you never lost tracks with one another its hard but have to work it out.

tell your bf how you feels. and tell him that you feel uncomfortable that he is talking alot of time with that girl. though it's a good thing that he is open to their conversation, it's still irritating. A guy friend of mine told me, you should be more watchful to the girls that you're bf or husband talks about. coz unconsciously he is already having some interest to that person, and he just don't notice it because you're both ok.but more of, trust him, that he is doing the right thing and he will do the right thing

hi there lovie! actually. i am almost in your current situation. my bf used to work in a far city away from my place. and he used to sleep there in his grandma's house so we don't usually see each other. just like your bf he was also mentioning some girls's names from his work place. he even had closest friends who happens to be girls. i even can read their text messages to him. they eat lunch and snacks together. work together the whole day. go off from work everyday. and worst they even go out at night sometimes. watch movies and eat out. and that makes me a lot crazier. at first i was really really jealous. when he begins talking about them i just smile and give him a blank face. i don't talk. literally don't talk and i know he noticed it. but when he felt that i was not too happy with it. he explains it all to me. we talked seriously about him having girl friends at work. and he assures me that they are just friends... even like their sisters. and i kinda realize that if i really love him then i should be trusting him. i just told him, not to ever ever break my trust or he'll see what i can do with them! huh! as of now, we were still in good relationship. even better i think. so what i say to you. try not to worry about them if your bf assures you clearly of this thing then i think you should give it a chance. trust him. you love him right? you can do that. but be alert be always aware okay? trusting him doesn't mean getting yourself fooled. anyway happy mylotting!

i would not feel jealous but insecure. I would try to ignore and keep my mind cool. you need to trust each other. I know its difficult when you have a long distance relationship. It too had and am having one right now. Its my wife who keeps on telling me that people have cruch on her. i know if i feel jealous or insecure it will happen in reality.

It's normal to feel jealous. You are human. But how you react to that feeling is what makes the difference. It will draw the line between maturity and immaturity. Your boyfriend is a person too who needs to interact with other people. He can be fond of that girl from his work place but it doesn't mean that he loves her. One thing good about your boyfriend is that, he is open and honest with you about the girl and their activities. You should be glad in fact. That means there's nothing fishy going on between him and the girl. If he don't talk about that girl and you found out about it and he acts very defensive, that's the time that you be suspicious. Trust your boyfriend. He loves you. Don't start a fight with him on the basis of his friendship with the girl. If your insecurities sets into you, better shrug it off. Don't let jealousy eat you. Sometimes relationships are broken due to unfounded jealousies. TRUST is the basic foundation of a healthy relationship.

Trust your boyfriend! Your boyfriend seems not to hide anything from you, and believe in what he is saying. And you feel his love, no matter how far you are from each other, the feeling of love could linger on both of you if you really feel for it's other. That's true love, the one that could endure even being away from each other. It's normal though to have some nasty thoughts about being him with some other girl, but you nee to focus on your relationship. You got to have trust in him.

Yeah! I think its normal but when I feel jealous, I just have to keep it to myself. I dont wanna feel like this person dont care how I feel which usually happens. In my own perception, if you already know that something that you do is something that you're partner dont like then dont do it.

Jealousy is just normal to couples specially to a long distance relationship. I've been to that situation before wherein my boyfriend keeps on sharing his day with his friend. I felt the same way as you did, simply because I love him and at the same time I missed him so much and thinking that he's with another girl makes me sad. But at the end of the conversation he's making it sure that it's all me that he keeps on thinking and that he misses me so much also. Don't take it to much, your jealous and it's healthy but try to control it and don't let it ruined the relationship that you have just because of that girl. In a long distance relationship you need to have a lot of trust, you must be thankful that he is telling you all this things. Your the only one who can give a peace of mind to yourself, just be patient and try to nourish the love that you have even when you are not always seeing him. Good luck!

a healthy jealous lead to a succesfull relation ;)

In long distance relationship you need to have a lot of trust on each other.I think your boyfriend is simple and frank as he shared everything with you.....It is a common things happen between the couple,you don't take this kind of things so serious......and be happy with him...Hope this kind of this will not happen any more......

I feel jealous too over the friends of my guy who are girls. I am also in a long distance relationship. I know it's really a bad feeling when you feel jealous and I try not to be. He also keeps assuring me. :) he is very sweet. I actually have managed this feeling and I just wanna trust him too. Sometimes I feel like giving up with this but I wanna stay strong and keep loving him. I love him so much. :)

Yes I felt jealous about girls too then who are friends with my guy but I learned to not mind them because I know that my guy is not paying any attention to me. I have a long distance relationship too and it is hard. Sometimes I feel like giving up. But I just wanna stay strong and give this a try and keep on trusting him because that is what he always says too, to trust him. I will believe him... i believe him and i will stay strong loving him. :)

IT happens with almost all the couples.you don't take this kind of things so seriously in your mind.as your bf had already told you that they are just friends only and i think that you should trust him.if he had hidden this things to you then there must have been some thing fishy between them.But he tells you every thing and haven't hidden any thing to you.so don't doubt him.he loves you a lot and if this kind of misunderstanding keep on going then the relation will become very weak.