Have you ever wished that someone near you would just move
By jugsjugs
@jugsjugs (12967)
July 26, 2010 4:57pm CST
There is a woman that lives near me and we all call her a cat nabber,as she calls all the cats that are not hers into her garden,then she gets them in her house and do not let them out for a few days.It is not that she is lonely as she has her daughter live with her aswell as her grandaughter.Thankfully her house is up for sale, so lets hope she moves soon,as she is also known as the local liar and stirer.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 10
She sounds weird to me. Why does she have to turn her house into cats' jail? You remind me of a cat who used to come to my sister's rented house everyday just to poo in her compound. I am here on vacation staying in my sister's house and have noticed this uninvited guest coming in every morning to the compound and leave when she has finished her business.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
They do say a cat tends to poo in other peoples gardens rather than their own,lol.I would not mind if she just wanted to stroke or make a fuss of my cat but she shuts it in her house all the time,along with a few other peoples cats.She says she feeds the hedgehogs that come in her garden and that all the cats around come and eat the cat food.But she calls to the cats during the day and puts the food down during the day,where as hedgehogs come out at night.
@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
27 Jul 10
I will wish her well at selling her house. There are certain types of mental health disorders that cause people to hoard animals, believe it or not. Even when they have family around them.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
But this woman knows that these cats belong to other people and she also knows the people that they belong to.These cats are also well looked after aswell as that they belong to families that have children that want their cats at home and they miss them.I do understand that people have mental health disorders,but she has family that can let theser poor animals out so that they can go home,rather than holding them prisoner.
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
27 Jul 10
Oh, I am not standing up for her. Her family does need to take care of this situation.
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@moondancer (7431)
• United States
26 Jul 10
That is awful. I too hope this lady will move soon the only thing is that she will be a problem to the new area she moves to.
I do have ones I wish would move. No one around us like them. They are mean, they kill animals without discretion.
There is also another lady not far away, down the road that sets traps and gets people animals and has them all fixed then she sells them. Now I can understand her wanting animals to be fixed. But it's not her place to do this and it certainly is not her place to keep and sell them.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
I do feel sorry for the people that gets her next,but sooner she sells her house and moves the better.I have got micro chips in my cats so i can prove they are my cats,if she was to move and take my cat i can track her down,as a friend of mine can get the type of information.I think that it is really sad that people take other peoples animals aswell as never return them,also people that kill them.
@AmbiePam (93742)
• United States
26 Jul 10
I feel that way about one of my neighbors. Her apartment is catty corner to mine. She throws loud parties sometimes, and when she comes home late at night, she is often loud in the stairwell. But the thing that made me want her to move, is when she confronted me a couple of weeks ago about how I park. I won't get into it, but she came out of her apartment, all fired up when I pulled into the parking lot. Long story short, she realized she was the problem when it came to parking. She didn't apologize, but I stood up to her and I could see she hated to back down. I don't like confrontations.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
Good for you for standing up to her,i hate people like that aswell as they never seem to admit when they are in the wrong.I think that there are people that you either like or hate,but it is a case that we have to tolerate seeing them.Thankfully this womans house is up for sale so lets hope she sells it very soon.
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@GardenGerty (160883)
• United States
27 Jul 10
Ambie, your back may be hurt but you still have great backbone. I hope this marks the end of it.
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@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Well hello lily
Mybe youre neighbor find you very attractive and wont give up that easily until he is certain that he did hes all to be a part of youre life. You know some Men can't even approach a lady like yourself and try to be as honest as possible but not arrogant. Hopefully hes not arrogant or anything.
I would recommend you to tell him to actually stop, for one good reason. He cant expect anything from you.. Thats it and just be friends. hehehe Many Men cant bear this rejection but who knows maybe your neighbor is a REAL MAN...
@crysontherocks77 (1273)
• United States
26 Jul 10
I've wished that plenty of times. I've found that it doesn't happen. We ended up moving before they did and they never did.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
27 Jul 10
Are you kidding??? I wish EVERY DAY that my wife's entire family would all pack up and move to some damn foreign country LOL
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@cream97 (29086)
• United States
27 Jul 10
Hi, jugsjugs. Yes, my old neighbor. This delusional man could not takegv and stand just the slightest noise. I have not heard from him in two months. I hope that it stays that way. His girlfriend must have kicked him out. I hope that he is gone for good. When he was around, all he did was complain and irritate us. I felt like I had to walk on egg shells when I am around him. He wanted things his way. Well, I guess that he has finally gotten the hint, that things are not going to be his way at all! I know that you will be glad when your neighbor moves away. It is a bummer, to have neighbors that are troublemakers.
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@sender621 (14893)
• United States
27 Jul 10
I could name a time or two that i wished a neighbor would move. Of ourse, this would be somebody that would live in a place they hated just to make someone else miserable. It is torture to your own life to have to live next to someone who makes you uncomfortable. If only we could choose our neighbors when we choose our homes!
@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
We have lived here 14 years now and we loved it until this one woman started to gossip about people aswell as steal their cats.Well i am getting really fed up with it now and i know that if sold go on the for sale board out side her house then perhaps she will try to take our cat aswell,but we can track her down as we know a person that can get her new address.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I wish our neighbors will move. We have two neighbors who are very inconsiderate of their neighbors with the fact that they play music really loudly and they dont even think if they are bothering others. I wish they would just move to the mountains so they can be noisy there.
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@MDG2211 (711)
• Argentina
27 Jul 10
If this has happened to us a few times, in my neighborhood always there is some neighbor that you do not like, or does things that bother the others, thankfully many have changed but there are others that you have to follow lasting. Equal they have not been cases of many gravity, I know people who has had to change for having severe problems with his neighbors.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
Everyone else where we live are really nice,always there for each other we are,but this one woman thinks she is above the law.I am getting to my witts end with her as she is trapping mine plus other peoples cats in her house trying to get them to stay with her rather than coming home to us.
@qianyun6 (2067)
• China
27 Jul 10
Yes, I have, and I'm wishing now!!!
A kindergarten located just at downstairs of my apartment, every morning it broadcast a radio gymnastics exercise music extremely loudly. It's really a noise for me. You should know it is a hundred meters far from my apartment, and the noise level can make me crazy! I'm doubting whether the children will be exploded to deafness!
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
I think that it is crazy how they put problems near other people.I think that if this woman do not move soon then i think we are going to have to sort something out about moving,as she just makes me so mad thinking of what she is doing aswell as what she has done so far.
@lacieice (2060)
• United States
26 Jul 10
Before we even moved in our current house, I said "hello" to my meighbor and she replied "this is my property...stay away". My response was that it was no wonder my house had been empty. I had never seen this woman before in my life.
We walked back on the side of our house to look at the electric meter, and she hollered at us.
After we moved in, we decided to have the property surveyed, and found out that some of the property she claimed as hers was actually ours. My hubby had to rebuild a small retaining wall about a foot from her property, and she called the police.
When we moved in, she would not move her car for the moving van.
We built a deck out back, and she used to spy on us, su we put up a fence, and she went upstairs so she could see us out the window.
There were lots of other episodes, but we came to find out she didn't even own the house...she rented it.
Thand God, a few months later, she moved. I would have consider selling if she was still here.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
I am considering if i get to see my cat to lock him indoors until she moves,i think that is not fait to the cat,but what else can me and the people around here do.I think that it is sad that some people do things aswell as say things to other people that they should have never done as they have nothing else better todo.I hope she moves soon,as at this rate i will be paying her a visit.
@pastigger (612)
• United States
27 Jul 10
The people that live next to us have not liked us since we moved it. We have never done anything to them. When we first moved in we would wave if we saw them outside and they would just glare at us. Now the daughter has moved in and in the summer when the window is open you can hear her screaming at her kids starting about 7 am. She is very mean to them and sometimes I just want to yell at her if you want to know what they are doing get off you a** and go see instead of yelling all the time. The kids are just rude and so I don't like them around my daughter. The will just ride their bikes or scooters in our drive way, I have no idea why. If I have to go somewhere I always have to ask them to move. Its not like they are on the sidewalk but in my actual drive way. I wish they would move but I know they won't they have been here for forever, we have already been her for 9 years, it has become sort of a joke with my husband and myself. Oh and their dogs are outside all night and they bark right under our bedroom window. Thank goodness we go AC a few years back now we don't have to hear the dogs or the daughter so much now.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
This woman we hope will soon sell her house we hope and move,she tells lies to anyone aswell as everyone about all the people that live near her.She steals peoples cats including one of mine and shut them in her house.Why do she feel the need to lie about people i do not know and as for taking cats why dont she go and get her own cat if she want one that bad.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
29 Mar 11
If I had found this discussion when you 1st posted, I would have said no. But recently new people have moved in, and my answer is different. The issue for you is cats. For me it is trash. They don't throw theirs away, at least not all of it, I now have litter on my front lawn, and side of my house.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
26 Jul 10
Wow, she certainly does sound like an odd one so I hope her house sells quickly. I've had neighbors in the past who I hoped would move...mostly because they either fought all the time and kept the neighborhood on alert waiting for the next shouting/throwing things match or because they were gossips who thrived on talking about other folks and telling outright lies. I guess every neighborhood has it's nuts.
@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
This woman is a nut as she says that she is feeding the hedgehogs and that is why all the cats come to her as she puts cat food out for the hedgehogs.The funny thing is,she calls come on cats during the day and hedgehogs come out at night.She is one for pointing the finger at people and their lives aswell as telling lies.Yes, sooner she sells her house the better.
@Terrencehenry6 (181)
• Jamaica
26 Jul 10
ooo yes and it is a really annoying feeling. I have experienced that twice and it was like hell. But a few years after the moved and i felt great
@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
She may have for sale up,but it could take forever for her to find a buyer,so what i will have to do is pray,pray and pray again that she gets a sale,i will even help her pack,as long as she hurries up and go,lol.I have now got alot of hate aswell as a lot of anger for the woman.
@Bellapop (1279)
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26 Jul 10
Oh no, I do feel sorry for this woman...please be nice to her, I think she is just very lonely and craving a lot of social attention and the only way she can get it is throught the cats...anyone who is nice to animals is not such a bad person, I think she just has some kind of social phobia and the cats do actually help her and give her some therapy... :)
@jugsjugs (12967)
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27 Jul 10
She tries to keep them trapped in her house knowing who they belong to,which is not fair on the cat or the owner of the cat.The owners of the cats are calling their cats nearly all night aswell as putting notes through doors and always her door,only to hear that she has their cat.If she wants a cat soo bad then she should go and get her own rather than steal everyone elses cats.