How will you deal if your wife is cheating on you?

It would depend on the circumstances, If we were having Problems in our Marriage that wouldn't make it right but I could understand the reasons and I would talk to her and see if we could make it work together. If she was just having an affair for the sake of it because she couldn't stay faithful then that would be her out the door or me.

I am sure that I will split up with her on the very second. I have a relationship now and I trust my girlfriend, she trusts me too. We have discussed the possibility of cheating and we are sure of breaking up if one of us finds out that the other has been cheating. There is no point in being in a relationship if the trust has gone.

I think it will be more or less the same as cheating on a wife because the pain will be present, the other person will be hurt as the wife would have been feeling, then there would be some same problems in marital issues as well, this is disgusting when someone cheat on someone especially in marital life when trust and love and understanding should have been the main ingredients in their life. Being a wife I can understand how would I have felt and it would be the same for my husband though when he I know as for him he would have been much more angrier and would vent all on me.

Hi, This is basically depend on the situation why he is cheated on me. If there is a problem in our marriage,then it is best to sit down together and have a good talk on it to find the best solution. If our marriage really can't be go on,then divorce might be the best choice for both of us. Of course, if we do have kid,then we have to consider our kids' feeling and we might find the best solution to save our marriage. In order for the marriage to get stable,trust is very important. If there is no trust on your partner,then the relationship might get sour.

Huh, is ur wife already cheating on you? if not, why are u thinking that way? why don't look at yourself in the mirror then ask yourself things, like if u have ENOUGH time with your wife? how's ur intimacy with her? did U let her know how much you love her? of course, wife is a woman.. with needs.

I can deal but not same like before because my wife is cheating with me and I believe that husband has done something wrong to his wife may be or may not ,I think his husband had is not loving and caring her Like wise may she cheat with her husband but now day no different with girls and boys because they doing same what ever boys did.If my wife cheat like that than I sure I will left her alone and and I will take all my children.

i have often heard such stories of cheating wifes, the reason maybe paying not enough attention towards your wife or the lack of money you have.that gives a reason for cheating. If i found her cheating , yea it also depends on circumstances on why does she do that. if its my lack i would certainly try to fulfill here wish to be more or if it is for some other reason that i cant do.i think its better to let her go.

I'd sure as hell be mad about it. Maybe I'd take drastice measures. But then again, maybe I'll stop and smell the roses. Maybe I would think why she would have done it in the first place. And maybe I'll discover who the culprit is...is it me? my wife? or the other man? There. I would definitely find the time to figure out why has it been so...after maybe those shouting, cursing...and all. You know what, it all comes down to us being us...individually. Each of us has the lame excuse of only being human thus we commit mistakes. Maybe if this happens to me, I'll just go somewhere where no one knows me and start a new life.

I would be devastated obviously and would most likely leave her even if we have kids or whatever I don't care I would lose all my respect for her and feel betrayed. I would pack my bags and go somewhere else and not keep in touch with her even if I still love her I would try my best because after all she didn't truly love me did she?