Girl friend-Never ending search..
By satylot
@satylot (98)
July 28, 2010 2:03pm CST
I m a boy 22 years old.I m in search of a girlfriend since 1year.Chatted online on yahoo,orkut,facebook but still I m solo.I always think that there are some feeling which can only be told to your girlfriend.
I m tried of searching now.
What should I do? Should I leave it to my fate or continue?
Is there anyone here who would like to be my GF?
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14 responses
@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
28 Jul 10
@ satylot, haha now you made me laugh haha
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@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
@satylot
You dont want to scare them away MAN. I dint tell you to do that. I'm saying go out and MEET people.
@kyle2krystel
Ngehehe, I dint know what he was really thinking really..
@Nymphantom (143)
• Vietnam
29 Jul 10
Go have a life man... I mean real life, not a life in front of a computer for God's sake. Don't be mad at me, I'm serious. Go out and have some fun with your friends. Go to the night club or pub or bar or whatever, grab a drink and talk to a girl...
But don't be to rush, just let it be. Have normal social life, take care of yourself, improve yourself in some way, girls will come to you for sure.
@kingkrunal (150)
• India
29 Jul 10
Dude... Really.. get out of the teen phase. It was the same thing during early teens with me. Used to find the girl online and really working hard on it. But after that gradually came to know that is near to impossible to find the one on net. There are many lucky cases in there who found but very rare.
Just go out, in your college or workplace or near house, find a girl. Then try to interact with her. Dont fear, she wont eat you alive. Ask her out, try to impress her and always get the intentions clear that you like her. :)
@bwaybaby (903)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Go out and try to meet a girl in person. Get involved in something-volunteering, a sport at some community center, something, and meet people. The internet isn't a good place to meet people if you seriously want a girlfriend. You never know who you're really talking to. And don't just date someone because you just want a girlfriend. Date someone because you like them, because you're attracted to them. I had a friend who dated a girl because he just wanted a girlfriend and didn't care much for her as a person. It ended very badly.
I'm sure you'll find someone.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Why not search in your area? In your work fields or friend of a friend. Ask your friend to give you a date or blind date maybe. I think its hard to get a gf over the internet unless you are good looking,I'm not saying that you're not. Just try and try and never give up, you may never know love will come to you in the least that you expect. Goodluck to you!
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
29 Jul 10
That's one of the big mysteries that propelled me into starting my "School of Love" and my "Temple of Love"
Isn't it strange that nearly EVERYONE is looking for an intimate relationship and yet it's so hard to find ?
Is there something basically WRONG with the system ?
My contention is that there IS something wrong.
And my culprit is the monogamous myth.
You see. Everyone has to be VERY careful about who they take up with, because once they start even dating someone else they are supposed to STOP looking for anyone else. And of course the present beginning relationship usually doesn't work out, so it's starting all over again.
The polyamorous approach is to date a NUMBER of people simultaneously. Then you can continue with the people that you more or less like and stop with the people that yo more or less don't like.
@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
28 Jul 10
Hi satylot, I don't agree with chatting online and look for girlfriend to be. I would suggest you to go out with your friends, since you are in legal age, interact with some girls and never scared to ask them or approach them, always bare in mind to ask girls in a nice way. Instead of letting the girls find you,you should find them they might be close to you but you just don't know. Go out and have fun,interact with girls and enjoy life with partner
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
29 Jul 10
I cannot agree more to what others said in this discussion. In the cyber world nowadays, you just can't trust anyone easily anymore, even in the real world. Still, the best way is to meet and know someone in person. You can never tell when a person is sincere and telling the truth online because you can't see them. You're still young, go on and find that girl of yours! I always believe that us men, should find our woman and women should wait for the right man.
@will_win (222)
• India
29 Jul 10
You should leave it to fate...........maybe like "GOD" have gave you legs to walk,two hands to hold,two ears to hear,two eyes to see but why did he gave heart, to find her and love her............definitely you will find her.
@diablo24life (198)
• Canada
29 Jul 10
Go on plentoffish.com its a free dating website... people actually will meet up with you. Other then that GIRL AT WORK. alot of people at work hook up with each other. go to the club or bar with a buddy and approach them talk and get drunk with them, thats another easy option. and no im not talking about just getting them them drunk lol but alot of people date people they met at the bar. one thing you cant do is come over to desperate! that will scare them off my man be yourself