love and relationships for persons over 50yrs

Sounds like maybe you need to join match.com

Hi zenme2! There's nothing wrong with you or your post. You have not met your match, just that. I'm sure you would if you persevere. No offense but You would look very attractive to those who look for experience and wisdom. By the way, welcome to myLot! Have fun and enjoy your stay! And good luck!

can you suggest me any young age tips? and welcome to the mylot community.. have fun.......

Welcome - Welcome to myLot! First before I post my reply I have a live in boyfriend so I thought I start with some humor..LOL, just so you did not think I was picking you up...LOL You continue to be you, and I know this is not what you want to hear. But relax, be yourself and come on 57 years young, hello how many times have you not heard of 80 year old tie-ing the knot. Think about this way perhaps at the moment you were very interested in the women you were speaking to and then they looked the other, be positive and say to yourself it has taken me 57 years to be where I am at, that did not come overnight. Think again, these unfortunate women missed out, hello they perhaps could have broken your heart, and you are not looking for that. You are looking for true love and true love is not something you find. It finds you. Here at myLots you find a wonderful bunch of great myLotting people and friends, we are all here to give you pick you ups as well as tell you things you may perhaps have a difference of opinion with. One things for sure you will learn a great deal here and you will also teach a great deal of things. So stop looking, be yourself and you may find that trying so hard has caused you to miss out. You never know that wonderful lady might just be at your local grocery store or your nearest gas station... Keep one thing in mind that when you get true love you will out shine her with your loving self... So poke around comment on discussions that interest you, request friends and have a great time!

Hi Zenme, welcome to the club. Both the MyLot club as well as the over 50 club. I'm 53 and today makes one week i have been a member here. I don't think your doing anything wrong and honesty is always the best policy since you will know that the people that show interest accept you for who you are or not. Perhaps your just not going to the proper forum for meeting someone to start a relationship with. I don't see that kind of thing happening here. This is mostly a discussion forum for just about everything else. I have started an online relationship that has been going on for a couple of months and while it is going slowly because of the distance, we are enjoying the time we spend online together. I am at yahoo.com if you want to talk a little more about that. I may be able to steer you in the right direction. In the meantime, again welcome and I hope you enjoy MyLot

The best way to attract women is not to want to attract them. Join different dating sites. Look in different states or even countries. Avoid Russian brides. If you're 57 and a hot 27 year old is after you, run.

Welcome to mylot zenme2! Maybe the girls that you're attracted to are the girl that finds your age too old for them. No offense but it could be a factor to why you can't find somebody who would be willing to be with you or say date with you. I like the idea that you tend to be a gentleman but I guess it's appropriate if you choose somebody who's the same age as you or a bit younger than you. I would also want to add up that maybe they tend to feel bored with you interests that's why girls normally back out.

I thought you are going to share a story of your love life with a wife. Welcome anyway.

You'll find your match in time...you'll see. Just when you least expect it, somebody comes along... Just keep your hopes high.