ACCEPT or NOT TO ACCEPT

India
July 29, 2010 1:10pm CST
How easy is it to tell the person that you love/like him/her? If you tell the person about your feelings will it still be the same?? How much would it change if it does change? and what would be his/her reaction on your feelings about him/her? If you don't tell the person about your feelings would you be happy loving/liking that person in your heart.. ? How long could you love/like that person in your heart??
9 responses
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
29 Jul 10
That's a tough question..It is very difficult for me to tell someone that I have feelings for them, especially when I am not sure of their feelings in return and I am the first one saying anything.. I did have to tell someone that I had feelings for him (it was someone that I worked with) and the reason I had to say something is because of our work situation. I thought by telling him he would lighten up with the hugs, and looks...you know like the "I'm interested looks" but it intensified after that. I can remember how scared I was when I told him...heart pounding, sweaty palms...ohhhh....But I had to say something, I was feeling so uncomfortable everytime he was around. No one had ever affected me like that before. I probably should not have said anything and just loved him from a distance...it might have made life a little easier..though I really did what I thought I had to do. Either way if I didn't tell him, I would still love him forever.
• India
29 Jul 10
YES ...I know that feeling when someone you like/love is just a touch away and you can't even go and talk to him about your feelings! it feels so helpless... but one thing always is good is that you at-least can see that person whenever you want till he is around!! ....
@AvI0907 (230)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
Love comes silently and unexplainable. One's to express he or her feeling to the person who he or she love, they should have a good emotion to receive result either ACCEPT or REJECT. As my though, i would express my feeling to person who i love because my principle of love is try before too late. Perhaps it been accepted then i would very appreciated on it. Or either i been rejected, i would not sad unless i have tried. Although been rejected or do not accept, we can still be a friend as usual but the action or distance must be keep in the reasonable space to avoid uncomfortable feeling within each other. sometime love like a knife kills our heart. The pain we feel is more painful than we get injured. Only the TIME is the best cure to recover the pain. "never try, never know"
@aevans (255)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 10
It's hard for me to tell a girl that I love her. It is good to tell someone about our feeling toward them, but I just feel hard to voice up something that is deep inside my heart. I like the feeling that between me and the girl, but scare that if I tell her my true feeling that will mess up everything. There is a chance for us to be couple but we might can't even be a normal friend also. Maybe I just need some time to figure out whether she has the same feeling toward me.
• China
30 Jul 10
I think if you love someone , you should say your feelings to him . That is not a problem for both of you . If he has the same thought , then you can become a couple . If not , I hope that you can still keep a good friendship . I think we should say "love" loudly if we love someone . That is my view .
@krnavtr (285)
• India
30 Jul 10
Its very easy to tell that person i love and like as love cannot be hidden.Its in his or her hands to accept or Not to accept.I will be very happy if the person come to know that i love and like him.I won't feel shy but instead i will be very happy to see her. As far s i love him,i will share to him and let him know how much i love him.I will like that person forever.
• Thailand
30 Jul 10
i will say i love someone as soon as i can
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
As a girl,it's not easy to tell the guy that you like/love him.For other guy if the girl is the one telling that she likes the guy,some looks at you as being cheap.Yes,It do change sometimes.Like me If I just considered the guy as a friend or I look at him like being my brother,then he suddenly told me that he likes me,what happened is I put a space for him.The closeness is not already the same. Sometimes eventhough you did not tell that person that you like/love him/her your actions already betrayed you,because action speaks louder than words.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
It's very difficult to tell the person about your feelings towards him/her. Specially if you are really sincere with the feelings that you have. Sometimes we choose to hide it than showing it because we are afraid of rejections and we are thinking that they might avoid us if we reveal our emotions to them. Telling this secret would be a big impact, they might accept it easily but most of the time there will be a gap that will eventually build in the relationship. The counter part of not telling the truth is also not good on your part, it's painful if that person has another partner. It hurts us a lot hiding the feelings and much more difficult if we will find out that he/she feels the same way but it's already too late because of many reasons. So try to brave and take a risk as the saying goes "No guts, No glory".
@Suke002 (311)
• United States
29 Jul 10
It's really easy to tell him/her if you like them or not. I mean that is if you can't be fully happy loving them in your heart (which most people wouldn't be). I mean, think about this, might as well ask them so you will know straight up if they like you or not so you won't have to wonder anymore and waste your time liking someone who doesn't feel the same. I mean I know it's more complicated then that, but it's better then letting that stuff build to the point where you can't let go.