Some people doesn't know they are annoying?
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
July 29, 2010 6:32pm CST
There is a guy at my work, he probably has too much confidence of himself, because he thought that he is a lady's man. He likes to go around to talk to girls early in the morning, and trying to be charming. Some girls would response him politely, which injected his confidence. This morning, he was entangled a lady in my department, and keep on ask her some questions. I guess she was fed up with it, and she yell it out loud "would you please, leave me alone?" I guess that really break his heart. Sometimes, people are annoying, but they don't know about it.
6 responses
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
Some people just have this clouded perception of themselves. Like thinking that he's a real charmer to the ladies only to find out that he's just some annoying dude who has zero points in charisma. It would really be some rude awakening to finally wake up from that "dream" and realize that you weren't as good as you thought you were. Tough.
@de_toya (2429)
• Indonesia
30 Jul 10
Yes, I do agree with you king. Most of us annoyed others but we didn't realize it. Perhaps, me often annoyed others and I don't know till some one told me. That's why we need critics to be better. We may need introspections to contemplate what have we done and what mistake that we made that could make others uncomfortable. As human, we live as social society what we think is good for us not necessarily good for others.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
30 Jul 10
Maybe she thought he was just a "player" hitting on all those women making his lady feel bad about herself.
@Wonderful523 (174)
• China
30 Jul 10
Hi, Kingparker, I think this kind of people are really poor, they even don't know they are not welcomed by other people. If I was one of the people who is around him, I will tell him the truth and hopefully he will have a improvement. That's just my point of view.
