no communication

Yes. and it was my first boyfriend, and when he came back , I was waiting for really good reasons, but there was none. It was two months of no effort to call??!! so we broke up.. after a while he tried to get back with me, I loved him but I really think if a guy can't give you even the littlest time and effort, and show his love even in the smallest things of saying "how are you?". He is not worth it. In your case, wait for him., there might be some good reasons.. but still, be smart. He must give you acceptable truth.

In no situation should a man in a relationship act like a single man. you know? He should have at least sent you a text bascially saying he's thinking about you. In my case, my bf works a lot. Meaning 10-12 hours days, 6 days a week. I still get my time on the phone, or through a text saying he's thinking about me, or i'm thinking about him. I can't hardly talk to him at work, so its either after or before. He even ask me to bring him lunch just to see me, even for a short period of time. So again, just text him saying "hey, you might be busy, but i just wanted to let you know, i'm thinking about you" something sweet like that. I do that w/ mines all the time. And there are night when he'll go to sleep without talking to me, which I hate!! For all I know, he could be hurt. God forbid, you know? So i worry, but i'll fuss at him in the a.m. about it :) happy mylotting!!

I would have been really worried and shooting fire if I were in your situation. Thus, I would have tried to contact him numerous times. My partner would have felt obliged to contact me or let me contact him since he knows that I would be worried about him. If his end remains silent and you could not contact him, try sitting on your hands and wait for him. When he arrives, you two need to talk. He must be sincere and must have valid reasons. Otherwise, you do not need an uncaring and irresponsible man. Take care!

Somehow, I can say that I've been in that kind of situation before. Well, I guess at times I still feel like I am in that kind of situation, but at least I know how hard and demanding my boyfriend's job is working in the middle management of a multinational company, and we already talked about it beforehand. I know that when he couldn't -take note: 'couldn't' and not 'doesn't want to'- text or call me, I will be the one to send him a message. I may not receive an immediate reply, but within the day, or more often, past midnight or early the next morning before I go to work and before hits the sack, I will receive a text message or a call from him that would last for a minimum of one hour. ^_^ In your case, though, try to make a move - text or call him once in a while - to encourage him and show him that you're exerting effort on your end and he should do the same to make your relationship work.

i been on that. i liked a guy by net. we were having a relationship and we would meet near and i was always caring for him and he wasnt caring that much you know. sometimes i waited him awake until late and he didnt appear and didnt warn me. i even got sick bcs of him. anyway with time i broke up with him bcs my feelings decreased and i was honest with him. the truth is when you really care for someone you say something to the person everyday. if you dont then is not a true love. sorry for what is happening with you :( talk with your bf and tell him what happened. who loves cares always. dont be like me that got sick bcs i cared so much and him not really :( talk with him and i wish he really cares for you^^ and calls you^^

yes, you should call him and ask him, first, you should ask him that does he have ill? or does he have problem about his job, his family? if he has problem he will pleasure to share with you everything he thinks. But a intelligent girl you don't ask why he don't contact you in very long time, you should ready a good spirit to hear the worst things, maybe he has new girl friend, and forgot you, or none... while talk on the phone with you, he will tell you his problem, and if he still loves you he will want to see you, but no, he will refuse meet you if you ask and will don't want to talk continue,... You should try, come on!

I am sorry to say but I think no matter in which situation he is finding himself right now he should have called you atleast once or send you a text message which can relieve you from anxiousness too, I am worried when my partner does not call me especially when I know he would have surely made a call. So try to find other means to contact him yourself, by mail or something similar.

try to contact him! if he doesn't response you then leave him. if you really love him.....hmmm i don't know .... :)

Communication is very important in a relationship sweetie, no matter how far apart you are. Contact him and ask what the problem is. TATA.

YES,,very hard to accept BUT once explained then we settle or fix an argument about such though still problems arise.

Yea i had a experience like above,Before he used to called me 6 or 7 times a day.I used to get irritate of receiving the call again and again.I told him not to call me as i don't miss you when you call now and than.I told him to call once in a week or twice in a week so that i may feel happy to receive it.We were in suspense for a long duration.Again one fine day he made call to me saying he love me.I started receiving a call from him but again we are lost.I feel free when he never text or call me.The reason is that i don't have a feelings at all.

no communication? I still think he should text you... ur still in a relationship, where communication is important... try to text him once in a while. Maybe , he is just waiting for your call or text.