Do girls cheat in a relationship more than guys?
By casnoking
@casnoking (87)
August 5, 2010 5:19am CST
I have asked my self this question for such a long time and still I have no solid answer to give. In many relationships that I have come across, its quiet complicated to really know the real cheaters in a relationship. Thats why I would need your opinion.. Lets both see who really are the cheaters... chaw
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16 responses
@casnoking (87)
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5 Aug 10
So does it mean one can choose to or not to cheat? I hope everyone chooses not to cheat..
@kreasa03 (54)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Statistics shows that guys cheat more than girls .Guys cheat more because of increased libido and if girls cheat the gravity is greater compare to guys cheating.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
I honestly think guys cheat more than women. I can't explain why but just looking at television shows like "Cheaters" who show spouses/partners' infidelities. Majority of those who get caught cheating are men. I know that's not the only basis of gender when it comes to cheating but men crave sexually more than women I guess. As of cheating wise, I highly agree with auxvye(respondent #2) that cheating can be done by both men and women. Its just up to each and every one of us if we get tempted or not.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
For me? I guess cheating is a lousy excuse that you're no longer happy or satisfied with your partner or the whole relationship/marriage itself but you're just too committed not to let go.
@nancy0618 (477)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
well we should not base as to who cheats more right? fidelity is that one thing that should be strong in relationship, with it then there is no trust on both parties, and if there is no trust there is no more love, then that is the time that we all should go our separate ways.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
Of course it's obvious that the best cheaters are the guys,hahaha,that's only in my own opinion. Based on the experiences that I have with my friends, on the television as well as in my own experience. But I am not saying that all guys cheats, sad to say maybe small population of guys that don't cheat. I am not saying that girls don't cheat, in fact they do but not me.
@casnoking (87)
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5 Aug 10
Are you very sure guys are the best cheaters? Does it mean your guy cheats on you? or you've caught guys in the process of cheating.... Hmmm and why dont you cheat? whats the reason...
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
6 Aug 10
Girls can easily cheat a boy that is the reason most of the girls are cheaters...and it's hard to find when a girl cheat..also its very easy for girls to have another guy so probability of cheating is more ...
@quarvalsharess (989)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 10
I would say both genders can be cheaters, it's not whether which side would cheat more or anything, it's just whether they want to cheat or not.
For me, I would say that most females, they do not cheat on their partners if they really do love the partners. Guys are more likely to do so as they usually think not with their brain or their heart, but their you-know-what.
Granted that females do cheat, but I don't think that they will be in a relationship if they are not going to be loyal. Females tend to be loyal and also emotional. Females are emotional creatures anyway, and I would say that they would not do something like that to the person they love..
But that's my take.. :)
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
5 Aug 10
Lately I have been hearing more about guys cheating in relationships from friends. I did hear recently about a married woman having several affairs though. If course I talk to women more than men so it is hard for me to say which one cheats more.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
6 Aug 10
It does take two to tango. i think males and females are equally guilty when it comes to cheating in a relationship. Whoever is happier in a cheating relationship usually suffers the blame the most. It is just human nature to have to place blame in a failing relationship. it doesn't matter what gender you are. The opportunity to cheat is there fore both sides.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
A pleasant day to you Casnoking,
I dont think it that way, for me, it takes two to tango. It is not the girls neither the boys cheat more in a relationship. Infidelity applies to both.
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
5 Aug 10
I don't really know, but both boys and girls tend to cheat and I don't get why they always have to do this to their partners it's just really sad how they get hurt like that you know.If one doesn't want to be with somebody than it's better to move on instead of hurting that person by cheating because it really does break ones heart and takes a while for that heart to heal because their's so many feelings that someone experiences when they have a broken heart. It's better just to not cheat in the first place because I don't like it when people get hurt and they have to carry that pain with them feeling betrayed and unwanted it really is sad.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Aug 10
i think that both guys and girls cheat. it just depends of the guy and the girl. not everyone cheats. but about who cheats more guys or girls is same. it is all about true love or not. who loves really doesnt cheat. i know that bcs i had a guy before he lived away from me and near me there was a guy interested in me and me neither his friend i became bcs i knew he wanted more even his number i deleted bcs he came to me asked me to like go out with him and gave me his number. when we love we doesnt cheat. that guy would never find out if i did that bcs he was far but i didnt.
@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
5 Aug 10
Whenever men cheat women catch them; but if women cheat men are unable to catch them. Therefore, it appears that men cheat more than women. One is a cheater only if he or she is caught and not otherwise.
The truth is both cheat. Woman cannot cheat if it does not involve man. If woman is cheating more number of men then obviously number of men cheaters would outweigh number of women; and it is equally true in case of women.
Nevertheless, the number of women and men cheaters is more or less the same.
@markamemory (264)
• India
5 Aug 10
I can't say more but definitely as much as men atleast. Cheating in a relationship cannot be classified gender based, it depends on more country wise depending on what lifestyle each country follows rather than girls and guys. Infact i would go on to say that girls could me more loyal, basically because women do not like to look for anything new unless the old thing is really bad...