Do you think you have someone who CARES for YOU alot???
@thepankajnegi (492)
India
August 5, 2010 7:32pm CST
Hi mylotters..do you ahve someone who can do anything for you and love you like mad...it may be you father , mother , brother sister or any relative ..may be your lover..do they make you feel special ...and how much love you return to them ?????
Are you satisfied that you have some one to care about you ?
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
Many people say that we can't really trust anyone with our heart. Yet alone those who we only meet when we're already adults, who, like us, have no idea how to really take care of another - yet alone ourselves.
But, I honestly think that there is that one person who really does. One person that we usually take for granted. The one that keeps us standing and picks us up when we fall down. The silent person who truly cares for us but doesn't ask for anything in return.
I got a chance to feel such a few days back. I have been feeling less of a person this month due to a very hurtful circumstance that I was forced to adjust in. I wasn't performing very well, my focus went out of the window and I am honestly lost. Then there she was, just being there even when I didn't notice her. Watching over me when all I wanted was to get the love I have lost because I felt it would only be the love I'd ever feel in this lifetime. She was there silently waiting for me to be okay, assisting me when I was dazed and blank. She is my mom.
Mom kept my head up above water when I'm about to drown in my sorrows. Constantly showering me with attention - yet I didn't really notice it. A greeting, a smile, a hug when I obviously needed one but was overcome by pride to ask for it.
The ultimate gesture that made my eyes open was when I went home to find my room completely arranged and spotless clean. My mom took leave from work to clean up my room! At this age of mine, the gesture brought tears in my eyes. I never felt so dependent in my mom. Never saw how one such gesture of care was so badly needed by my heart. This month had been my worst, and by that simple gesture I realized that I don't need the scraps of love from another person who wasn't willing to give his all. There is someone right beside me silently loving me for who I am and not for what I could give her.
It may not be your mother, it may be someone else. But I think we are far too focused on the details of our lives that we tend to overlook those who honestly cares and loves us. I was too blinded by what appeared to be 'love' that I forgot to see the one person who truly loves me.
I'm thankul for my mom and she knows it. I am glad I have a mom like that. I hope that when my time comes, I could at least be able to do half of who she is as a mother.
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@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
6 Aug 10
YEs true ...She is the one who going to care for us at any circumstances ...
father 1 miss calls
friends 10 miss calls
Mom 50 miss calls ....... :)
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@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
I have someone who cares for me too, I love her and she loves me.... My world would be complete with her.. and would be empty without her... the feeling that is with me makes my days complete.
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
7 Aug 10
Oh I have that someone also and I know how important that person is for me :P :)
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 Aug 10
My husband does of course, and also my sons. I do have a lot of friends who care for me, but unfortunately I cannot do much for them at the moment as I am looking after my husband who has als and it seems that he does not have much time left. He spends most of his time sleeping. I think it could be in the next few days or a month at the most, but I could be wrong.
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
9 Aug 10
Yes that would be my mother. She had it rough with my father and step father and had to raise four children. She is wonderful and still to this day would do anything for any of us. I know if I need someone to talk to I can call her anytime.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Who loves me...hmmm after the life I have had my two kids and God. I came from complete foster care, bounced from home to home. Have had a difficult life and truly in my heart of heart must my children and God.
I suppose since I have not had more this should be enough, so am I satisfied I suppose so. God has allowed me to have the two beautiful kids who love me so nothing else matters.
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
6 Aug 10
After god yes its our family who love us and care for us..take care you are lucky to have them :)
@alokkumar803 (325)
• India
8 Aug 10
Ya i think my mom cares for me a lot she is a working women ..in childhood i use to think that my mom doesn't love me thats why she spends all the day in office but..as i have grown up ..i realized that working all day long is not easy..and my mom just doing it all to give me better life...I LOVE YOU MOTHER !
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
9 Aug 10
I love my mom , she is the one who understands me well and she help me in my day to day work ..I LOVE YOU MOM
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
Well, yes i think my family only have the best interest in me. they want me to be happy, safe and of course they want me to be healthy. they cared for me because i am family. my bf too, i think he does care a lot for me and with that comes the love and the patience he shows me when i am not in a good mood... etc/
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Aug 10
hi thepankajnegi yes I know I do , two people my adult son who is very logical y et helps me at the drop of a hat,and is always there for me.
also my best friend Nelda who is now on the path to helping me combat the start of macular degeneration in my left eye. She bought eye vitamins with Lutein and also calcium and vitamin D so I am to take them religiously which I do. I am well loved and so happy with my two best friends my son and my best friend.
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
6 Aug 10
The greatest love is my dad to gave me, he loves me very much, and can do anything for me. I felt very sorry for him, because he is working hard to support my family, however I don't have enough economy to let him to back home. say sorry to him.
@thepankajnegi (492)
• India
7 Aug 10
No need of sorry dear..they work hard for you and they want true love from you not a sorry..:)
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
I think so! And its my family especially my mother. She's always there for me even if i find her so strict before. Now that im a mother as well, i appreciate her even more for the endless love and care she had shower me ever since im still a baby till the day she's dying, im the one who still in her mind and she kept on telling my sister that if she's gone, please do take care of me still. I thank here sincerely for all of her love and i am really sorry for the pain i caused her when she's still alive. If i would be given another chance to live with her once more, i wanted to correct all the wrong doings ive committed especially the not so good attitude ive done to her. Mother's love is really unconditional and im so blessed to have her though we only spend 25 years together... Have a nice day!
@ashantiadj (41)
• United States
6 Aug 10
I care for me a lot. I care for myself more than I could care for anyone else, and no one could care about me as much as I can. Of course, God is the exception, but there is no human that is an exception. Maybe one day there will be. But for now, no.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
22 Aug 10
there is a guy i know he loves me much. we live very far and always bad things happen to him like his cellphone broke but still he asked cellphone to his sister to send me a message. even his sister said what happened to me^^ he really loves me even we live far ^^ i know he would do everything for me if we lived near^^ also he doesnt care how i look like^^