do you type person who is like to see your patner/lover hand phone?

When we talk about trust, there are two things to be an example with your question. 1. If you do trust your lover, why investigate his private property? 2. If you have trust with each other, then why is there anything to hide? Funny isn't it? It is leaving us with no choice at all..But intruding with each other's personal cellphones should be in understanding of the both party. If he doesn't like you seeing his phone, then you should not.. Because it's his private thing. If he does agree then good for you..

Transparency within relationship is good but i think you don't have to check the details of the messages of his/her emails and messages from the phone since it might mess up some business transactions if there are any, or any transactions that might fail because of the intrusion made by either of the partner lover.

I don't do the same thing. Because I don't like to be treated that way as well. For me, trust is the basic of a relationship. So, you must trust your partner as well as your partner trust you, if you don't have that trust, you better not involve in the relationship. Well, it is for me. ^^ So if I end a relationship, it means that I don't believe in my partner anymore.

While I don't like my mobile phone being watched, I don't mind if my girl does look at it. For myself, nope, I don't looked at her phone. While I believe there should not be any secrets, I still understand the need for some privacy.

depending on situation we have different type actions we we should try to maintain the silent for time .but naturally we have silly in some times so what can do at that time

I guess you should have a mutual understanding first, try o believe each other.

Absolutely not! I don't go through my husband's phone, email, or mail without explicit permission. Even then, I don't snoop. I do what I need to do, then give it back to him. I hate when others try to snoop on me, even though I'm not doing anything shady. If you have a question, ask it - I'll have much more respect for you. If you want to see something, just ask and I'll hand it to you myself. But there still needs to be a basic respect for the other's privacy. It's like relieving yourself with the door closed. You know what's going on in there, but you don't really need to see all that, lol. Basic respect for your partner's personal space and communications is pretty essential. Blessed Be

I totally trust my boyfriend since he haven't done any strange things that is against to me. So no need to monitor if who is the person that he is talking with. I am asking him in some common ways like what were they talking about if I can relate into it.

Hello anita In a relationship things must be transparent, there should not be any kind of hiding, so there is no suspision and no need of checking the cell phone, well if he/she shares from his/her side, one may view.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor

I think between lovers they should trust the other, each one has his/her right to keep his privacy unknown to others, and they should respect other's respect.