fall in love with somebody only 2 weeks,is that possible?
@sunnygirl_yanli (19)
China
August 9, 2010 12:10am CST
i am a chinese girl,because of my job,i went to dalian (northeast of china) with an US boy for 2 weeks ,of course ,it's for job.
at first,i don't like him ,because many different ideas and i thought he didn't like china ,the first week we were peace ,but the second week,i had no much patience to some of his words,his behiviour,so sometimes we didn't talk to each other,i started to yell at him,...and so on. 2 weeks finally gone,and he gone back to US,but suddenlly,i realized i like him much,i don't know why,and i don't know if this is love,i am confused.maybe this isn't love,oh.
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16 responses
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 10
wow .. indeed, for some people who falling in love, they realize the sense of love after feel far with the person which loved. That's the miracle of love and before miracle gone- disappears, you should immediately contact him. Said with clear to him, actually you love him
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 10
you can keep in touch with him via the internet, my friend ... you can send an email to him, chatting by Yahoo or look him in the facebook
@sunnygirl_yanli (19)
• China
9 Aug 10
what you said is what i am thinking.
he never go back to china again, and there is no possible between us,but i can't help myself to think him,oh,i haven't had this feeling since when i was in college.
these days ,i always asked my self,what's wrong with me.if you were me,how to deal with it?
@sunnygirl_yanli (19)
• China
9 Aug 10
wow,you are from hunan.
maybe,but since he left,i missed him very much,now,it's almost 1 month, we sometimes chat on skype, i know he maybe never come back to china again,so i decide to forget him.
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
You miss him because of his behavior maybe. It's not LOVE, it's just some sort of infatuation because of his attitude towards you that makes you feel like missing him.
@lissa12p (99)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
i don't think you're in love. it's more of an infatuation to me. he just interests you. he's from a different place....with unique ideas and ways of doing things.
or it's also possible that you just miss the things that he does. cause no one else does those things :)
if you want to know what you really feel and if there is even a hint of him feeling the same way towards you....try to communicate through email or whatsoever. and be open minded about the outcome.
good luck!
@wangbridge (11)
• China
10 Aug 10
Fall in love with someone in two weeks is possible. But in your case i don't think you love him, there is not heat between you guys.
you just miss him, like a old friend.Definitely this isn't love.
I'm in China too.
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
9 Aug 10
I do believe in love at first site because it has happened to me, but it took some time to realize I actually loved him. I had to get to know him and spend a lot of time with him to realize it. It was not until about a year and half later that I confessed this to him.
I think true love takes more than two weeks, but I have know some people that have fallen in love in short period of time, ended up getting married and are still married today.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
9 Aug 10
Love is a volatile emotion. It can not be controlled. It doesn't follow a timetable or a schedule. When you meet someone, we could fall in love with them in two days or two weeks or even two years. Sometimes the course of love is quick. yet at other times it takes a long time to nurture and develop. I am a romantic at heart. i firmly believe that it could be possible to fsll in love only after two weeks. Only the heart can decide that for us.
@maggiecuiling (65)
• China
10 Aug 10
I am a chinese girl also from shandong.According to what you said that I donot think you love him, only miss him.So only make him as friend on job and find your true love to other boy. Wish you have happinese.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
10 Aug 10
Perhaps you just really miss him, perhaps you were contradicting is behaviors because you initially did not feel he was your type. Nonetheless, I noticed you stated you communicate on skype. You do not mention if his feelings are mutual.
At any rate keep chatting find out more about him and if the feelings are mutual then you can venture true love.
By the way welcome to myLot, I see you are new.
@SMB0603 (43)
• United States
10 Aug 10
It takes a long to get to know a person we live with our parents for years and still never know what to expect from them so to think that we could meet a person and fall inlove and just two weeks is impossible...in lust maybe but not love. Love takes time to grow through actions and we as humans change daily our emotions and thoughts everything
@06MLam (620)
•
9 Aug 10
I think that this is very usual and it would be friendship between the two of you now rather than you have fallen in love with the US boy. After working for the two weeks, though you had very different ideas at the beginning, you shared your ideas and you started to know each other more through these interactions.
I am not sure whether you will develop into lovers but I think you two are just friends at this stage. Keep in contact with him so as not to lose this friendship. It is very difficult for us to have friends with a different nationality to us.
@rossell (1)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
hi there!
theres only one way to find out if its love or not..wanna know?well...ask your heart...where is he in your heart...how much ddoes your heart long for him???until when you can indure your feelings of lonesome or satisfaction toward him???when you answered all this question then its time to used your head to make a decision that why its placed above your heart...Love is everywhere you just have to accept and appreciate everything around you.But true love finds you once...so if you love him and want to be a part of him go girl grabbed him tight and never let go coz he is just one in a million.
good luck and God Bless you both!!!!!!
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 10
Hi,
I guess this is not a real love. You may just miss that
guy for now,but then do you really fall in love with him?
After spending the time with him for 2 weeks(with job attached),do
you think he is the right guy for you?
You have to ask yourself about this feeling.
Love and Like is two different things.
Love means you use your heart to love that person,sacrifice for him.
As for LIKE, it just a normal feeling of "liking",feel comfortable
with that person while talking to him,but then he can be just a friend
to you.
Maybe you can try to email this guy and see how is his respond.
You guys can start from friendship ,then slowly if there is a chemistry
between both of you,then may consider for further steps.
Make the right choice!!
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
It is or it can't be love. It's difficult to judge because how you felt from him might just be friends, something that you missed since you stayed together for two weeks. I'm confused as well with the feelings that you have for him right now since you said that you had an odd feelings toward him. Try to assess your feelings first, try to think if it's really love or just a mere infatuation.