Have you ever seen a person who will always full of happiness and smile ?
@wildlittlefan (4680)
Hong Kong
August 9, 2010 5:28am CST
Living in this unhappy world is not an easy thing at all.It takes lots of wisdom to deal with troubles and it also takes lots of energy to deal with your unhappy emotion at the same time.However,there are some people who can always full of happiness and smile in his or her own face.I remeber I have seen a girl while i was studying in school .She will always full of laughter and smile all the times.When someone asked her "will you ever get angry ?"She said being angry will only cost her energy to deal with it,so she prefer to laugh and be happy at all times."I am not sure if she can still keep this philosophy up when she grow older.What do you think?Share with us.
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18 responses
@picjim (3002)
• India
9 Aug 10
That is the true test of a person.But if people are taking advantage of you and you smile that is a sign of weakness.It encourages another to take more advantage of you.An ideal person is a mixture of positive and negative to be used judiciously at the appropriate moment.
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
9 Aug 10
No, if someone is taking advantage of you and you smile through it, there are other factors into play. This is a sign of strength. It takes a lot of strength not to bash someone's head in. It takes lots of strength not to shoot those who take advantage of you. And in the end, those who take advantage of you will see that "what goes around, does come back around." So the one who smiles, is indeed, getting the last laugh.
@picjim (3002)
• India
9 Aug 10
Negative doesn't mean bashing a person or killing him.That is taking things too far.You should firmly and affirmatively put your point across that you shall not be taken advantage of.To think that one will resort to violence means you are not living in a civilised way.There are plenty of people who are scamming others of their money do you advocate smiling at them?
@aliasgar_shah (9)
• India
9 Aug 10
this is the spirit brother!! whenever autumn comes spring too have to come!!!always keep smiling n u will find a new reason to live life:)
@sach143_u (859)
• India
9 Aug 10
Yup one of my friend he use to smile always and he was always happy and even now also the same. He will be very much of happy and Even in college days if Lecturer scolds then he use to smile and he says every thing will be done but it may take few more time to do it. He is a very patience guy. He is too cool and if any says something about him then he won't reply to them at all. He is really a nice person.
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
9 Aug 10
Yes. Im also the same character. I used to smile in any situation. One of my friend used to tell me often she wonders the place where im is full of happiness and smiles. I have lot of friends. I become remembering friend for them. One of my hostel mate cried when i left her. She came for job search. After got my friendship and i left, she worried much and called me one day through mobile and told that even she forget for what she came. And she want my presence. Really i melted on that day. Im happy to hear like this. I try my best to keep my good friends. And i forget my worries when surrounding people are happy because of me and make me happy too. Live life joyfully and find happy while making others happy.
@nicolecheezy (177)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
This Tuesday morning I woke up early because somebody is knocking on the gate. When I open it I was surprise to see my relative asking for help because her husband was admitted to the hospital because he was'nt feeling well and she needed money to pay. But I'm wondering at her reaction coz even if she has a lot of financial problems she can still manage to smile and sometimes laugh. I was shocked in her reaction because most people in her situation they will like cry or plead or shout like asking for help.
@sumanadep (1228)
• India
9 Aug 10
Yes I have seen a person who is always smiling and is very energetic through out the day.. She is one of the girl in my office.. Whenever she is in the office the place gets lively.. I think not only does she smiles she also spread her smile all over the office.. But unfortunately things are not always right and some emotions cannot be controlled .. the only time I saw here crying was when she lost her grandmother...
I don't know what is her philosophy about but it good that I know her.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
I can't recall knowing someone who always wear a smile.
But in my younger days when i am still living with my grandparents,i can remember my grandpa who always smile.
His voice is always calm,full of love and care.
I can say,the little kids with their innocent smiles it is real happiness.
It even brightens our day once an angel (babies) smile at us.
@reneezoso (392)
• India
9 Aug 10
well.. dont know abt you people but i have got a classmate named mayur .. hes always smiling .. well actually the face is such that. if he cries too it gives the misinterpretaion hes smiling.. looking at him .. make us lose all our worries.. and retreive the lost happiness :) ..
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
9 Aug 10
I really think that these people who are always happy really are few and far between. However, a lot of the time, I wonder if their happiness is a mask for some type of trauma. People are truly happy a lot of the time for sure, but there are times where it just seems a bit forced. It might not be as obvious at first but really, it does make you wonder.
Still, these people are happy naturally a lot of the reason and that is great. It really does give me some inspiration to an extent to get through the day. Believe me, you want to take every chance that to get the inspiration. Hopefully these people can keep happy, despite the adversity that exists in the world and there is a lot of it for sure. Hopefully everything will work out for the best in the end with these people.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 10
Well, people always ask me the same thing as well. Do I ever get angry? Do I ever get sad? Why I can laugh that way, like I am very happy and problem free.
To tell the truth, we are all have our own problems. My problems might be harder than my friends'.
I also answer the same thing as your school mate answered you. Why should I be angry when it waste my energy? I am quite tired already with all the problems in my life. Why should I waste it on something not too important like getting angry?
Why I laugh all the time and seem living a happy life? Because, there is no use to cry. "She will still laugh although she will not eat for 3 days" (There was someone stated that about me).
While they never know, I cry at night when I sleep? I feel so stressful inside of me. I just try to build my mask so that people never know..
@lys1280023 (108)
• China
9 Aug 10
Well,I admire that kind of people.Being happy all the time sounds nice.And it will also make me live longer.
But I have seen an article.It said that there is always much sadness behind the happy.They just want to give others happiness and hide their sorrow.So we don't know their real heart.
I have seen a guy like that.When I see him,I will be happy and even laugh though I am in sorrow.Haha~
@wannaberich (246)
•
9 Aug 10
I've meet people who are like that and they're really fun to be with. Not a dull moment I guess. Imagine the benefits you'll get when you are with them. Not only will you forget you problems for a moment. You'll also get a free facial exercise and it really makes you feel lighter and carefree.
@amarendra123 (230)
• India
9 Aug 10
i have seen a person who wil always full of happiness and.he is one my close friend.his name is laxman.he is one of the funniest person i have ever seen.i dont no if he has problems but he wil be happy and he has a smile in his face every time.
@anu0002 (214)
• India
9 Aug 10
I think we can see that only in highly spiritual people those who know what is life and for what it is. Also we can see in babies full of happiness and smile always.
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
9 Aug 10
If someone always seems happy and smiles does not mean that their life is wonderful or they think like the person you mentioned. They could be hiding their true feeling behind that smile. I have known people like this. There are days when I am like that, but deep down I am stressed and maybe even angry.
That is not to say that there are not people like the one you mentioned in this world. I think we should all strive to have her attitude.
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
9 Aug 10
Those with such strength and fortitude usually live longer. I have known quite a few persons, usually older people, who are full of happiness and who smile. This woman I know named Phylis, is one such person. She is full of wisdom and excitement which easily wafts to me.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Aug 10
Thats me..I have been smiling and laughing all the time. People in my last office used to say that edward is the only person who comes to office on a monday with a smile on his face. I believe that a curve of smile can put lots of problems straight in life.