Does money matters in a relationship?
By Bluerain25
@Bluerain25 (812)
Philippines
August 10, 2010 4:08am CST
To me it depends on the situations. I dont believe it matters most of the times. When it comes to bills someone have to provide money for that. I have seen and witnessed many couples fight over money. That's when the money is needed and no one can provide it. Some because the money that is should put aside for important matters are used in other useless things like gambling, drinking alcoholic drinks, to cigarrettes and to other things that are not important.
For me, once all expenses are covered with some money set aside for emergency purposes and everyting important has budget on it, then there's no reason why we can lessen the money arguments.
3 responses
@dpnayak (11)
• India
10 Aug 10
I think money effect to relationship. about me: when i ask money to my girl friend then she told me "Yes" (i will give u) i think they had thought i m testing her, but it was real.When i make program to get money from my girl friend and inform her about my program then she told me "i have no money this time actually i have already given money to another one". And after that she is not calling me (before we were talking 4-5 times in a day)i think she don't want to give ME money. I think my girl friend thinking if I ask money then this relationship will be closed , if I don't ask her money then this relationship will be continue...
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
hi dpnayak,
Im sorry but i really hate it when a boyfriend starts asking for money. It does not matter if it is paid back, but how long will it take him to pay it back. Money is not easy to acquire. You have to work hard for it. that's why i have lists on what to buy and how much will i be spending for that specific items.
And i dont know how but girls can tell when their boyfriends is just after their money or not.
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
I agree with your comment bluerain25 if girls know how to look into the manner of a better man she will know that boyfriends just after their money
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
yes money is important in a relationship coz it can affect in our daily needs and lifestyle but it depend s for a couple to talk and both agree what to prioritize in spending this, but a couple should also emphasize that money is not the primary key to be the basis of the happiness all the time...
