Long distance love affair
By davenhearst
@davenhearst (327)
Philippines
August 12, 2010 8:56pm CST
do you believe that this kid of relationship work?? for me yes as long as you being faithful and honest to your partner...long distance does not mean no communication anymore we are in civilized world that have gadgets to communicate our love ones anywhere
1 response
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
I dont beleive such relationship could last long davenhearst. I once had that before. We been communicating for two years until one day he got tired and accused of being unfaithful. Damn him he is the one who got not me. So therefore he is the one who is unfaithful.. LOL
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
absence makes the heart grow fonder. Long distance relationship work out but it requires a sterling effort from both sides that are involved in the relationship. As is the case of any relationship it is essential that both sides give equal importance to each other. Here some advice that can save relationship...Both the people have question themselves: Do I really love this person? Do i really see a future in this relationship? It is the future I want? Will this person return? Am I strong enough not to be swayed by a better opportunity if it comes along? Be truthful to your self if the answer is yes to all those question, then long distance relationship will work
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
absence makes the heart grow fonder? LOL! I hate to say this, but there is a negative aspect of being far away from the ones who are involve into this. I am sure you already know that. The disappointment about long distance relationships is that you will not be able to see the other person. Being away from the other person requires a loads of trust whether it is you or the guy. You are far from each other, and there are lots of temptations you have to brush off.
In my case, i do trust but i also feared that one day it could happen. I have prepared myself for that incident to happen. The moment he seldom asnwer my messages, often have reasons not to talk long on the phone i know something is going wrong. Until one day he is accusing of things inevr did. Only to find out that he is doign the things he accusing me of. :D
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
to those ho are involved in long distance love here are some points to remember if you want to make it stronger and stable. One of course is communication this is the lifetime of your relationship, so you better make it good. Your communication should be sustained, constant and existence. But in your part bluerain the man you love before is not worthy for your love and time he is not a good man may be this is only the way that you can know him better as early as possible you can make decision that he is not the right person for you
