Should I have met my Indian friend?
By traveling
@traveling (87)
China
August 13, 2010 11:47pm CST
I have an indian friend and we just meet for once. Yesterday,he gave a call to me in the morning and ask me to met him. But I refused since I didn't get up at that time. After 2 hours,he calld me again.I missed his call. At the third time he called, I told him that I were not sure if I were available at night.
I don't understand why he called me for so many times? After all, we just met for once time. I don't know why he wanna meet me in a hurry? Should i have met him yeaterday? But I really hardly know him. Would somebody tell me should i meet him?
6 responses
@kangchily (49)
• China
15 Aug 10
Is this problem,you should be cautious.See users will always be a variety of problems,he was a boy,which need attention.Why did he do such a hurry,why keep calling you?Which shows that he is not a good man,at least not a serious person.Not credble.General information is also reported that users see after the girls cheated.you must carefully consider,or the time to meet together to bring a friend,i will the insurance thing.
@abitosunshine (765)
• United States
15 Aug 10
It sounds to me as though you aren't sure you really want to meet with this fellow, so my advice is to not do so until you are sure you do want to. If he continues to call repeatedly, I would ask him to stop doing so. Ask for his number and tell him when you wish to see him again, you'll call him. Or, if you're thinking you'd rather not see him at all, tell him so and tell him not to call you anymore. Seriously, follow your feelings where they lead you, and watever you choose to do, be careful.
@echomonster (2226)
• Greenwood, Mississippi
14 Aug 10
I would advise you to be careful. It sounds like he is being kind of aggressive. You don't know each other so well yet so he should give you space. It doesn't sound like you trust him yet; you should listen to your feelings as they may keep you from a dangerous situation. Trust has to be earned over time, not just given because of someone's persistence.
@zralte (4178)
• India
14 Aug 10
I agree with the other response. It is up to you if you want to meet him. Indians can be pest about bothering people. I should know, I am one.
If you want to meet him again, tell him firmly when you can meet him and tell him not to call you again and again. If you don't want to meet him again, you have to be clear and tell him in a way he would understand. Be very clear that you don't want to meet up with him again. If his calls bother you, tell him not to call you again.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
maybe your indian friend liked you. Anyway, meeting him again is up to you. If you think the first meeting didn't went well and you think you no longer want to be friends with him then don't make him expect that you are going to meet him for the second time. But if you think you can give it another try, then do so. But since you said you hardly know him, then be sure to be careful around him. Meet at a public place, be attentive to your drinks or food if ever you eat out if you do not trust him yet. Or better yet, bring a friend along when u meet him...
@BigTips (304)
• China
15 Aug 10
I am not sure because I am not familiar with Indias.
Of course, I tend to advise that you need to be careful all the time. Even if he is really a honest man, but you just have met for once and obviously you need more other chances to get familiar with him. If he is still canlling you in a hurry, just tell him you are not available now and busy with your work at hand.
Or, take some measures to let him realize of your worry and then he may understand you gradually.