can the love of money ruin a relationship?

yes i believe that. sometimes people give much value to money bcs they dont know how to pay the bills or the debts they have and dont have time for love. for me i rather have love than a lot of money but sure money is also needed. anyway im sure its just these days that he will do that cause of the house. soon you be with him for long^^ dont be sad ok?^^

hi friend really your thought is very nice. money is more % to life. relationships are little % only. every man and women want to money. you have lot of money. you helping others some% only. it is continuously happens you stopped the helping mentality. money is needing according that person problem. some person want to more money for more problems. some person don't want money for no problems. please understanding that

Love of money can ruin a relationship. Most of failed relationships and marriages cite money problems as the key factor; one can buy a watch, but not time. One can buy the services of a woman, but not love. Anyway, give him time. In a relationship patience is one of the foundation. All along your boyfriend is thinking of you. Why? Let us put it this way. In nature, the birds first build their nest before finding a mate. In your case could it be that your boyfriend's new home will also be your home too? Dwell on the positive outcomes not on the negative. This current problem of yours is temporary; ALL problems are temporary.

Money ruins alot of relationships! For a lot of reasons! Some men hate it when their wives make more then them! If one is a bum and is living off the other that is a big money problem! Some couples you can have a spenthrift and tightwad! A lot of these relationships don't work! I have heard also that couples break up because one is a workaholic! So you can see it happens a lot! My experience has been don't become dependent on someone to pay all the bills when you don't have a job and they do! Happened to me twice! Not going to happen again!

Yes I really believe that money can ruin a good relationship. Either one of the person's in a relationship get's too much work hours and then doesn't have enough time for the other person in the relationship. In fact I read somewhere that most divorces happen because of money. It's really sad how something as money can ruin a good relationship. You should probably wait until he's settled into his new home and then hopefully he'll have more time for.

money plays a a vital important in our daily living, people will not satisfy if they cannot get what they want in their life without this, but as a person we should also have time for ourselves and for our love ones not just spending time to earn money always to prioritized

i think we all need something called balance. we need to balance our lives between work and family and hobbies. I don't know if he loves money or is just focused on making money because he is scared of being broke. I would sit down with him and let him know how you feel. I think the way people feel about money, or the lack of it that cause issues in a relationship. but once you are honest to someone about how you feel... you need to see if they are willing to step up to meet you at least half way. if not... its time to consider to move on!

Hi Keisha, yes I think the love of money can ruin a relatioship. The love of money can ruin pratically anything. Where your love is that is where your heart is. I believe anyone that has motives in their lives put what they think is right for that particular motive first. So evidently his motive is to get as much in as possible to get him the things that will benefit him to the point of his prosperity which is what he is working on and everything else has to fall in place after that. Well that is a wrong conception of life. There is a time a place for everything. You are giving him his space, but he is not respecting you and giving you some of his time. Yes the love of money can ruin a relatioship. He should give of himself (his time and love) to you too. Be Blessed.

We should never put money first in our lives. It will destroy a relationship quicker than anything else. Relationships need love, suppport, and caring to develop and grow. When we put the love of money first, we are headed for relationship destruction.

Hey,maybe i am so young but i also possess the idea that love is more important than money,'cause we need love more, and I think your bf will hold the same opinion.The situation is just temporary. Be patient,and everything will be ok.Bless you.

i am not sure it's right or not.as he loves you very much,he works very hard in order to give you fabulous fortune to make you happy.but as women,we always expect our boyfriends to spend more time with us,talking,shopping,watching movies,or something else.so in fact,i also have the same problem like you.my bf works in a city far from mine,so we could hardly meet each other in a year.though he works very hard and earns much money,how can our relationship remains well if he can't stay with me?but i am not denying that money is really important,without it,you two will not be happy either.

yep you can ruin a relationship with money when you give the making money part too much importance people have to spend more time with family and friends only then can u be more productive otherwise you are just spending more time working but there wont be any return to show

I think some relations are Money ruin a relationship. some persons are always do chilly maters so i hate that person. he is in the process of moving into his new house so maybe this is the why he's working so hard.

Yes, definitely....as what the saying says "money makes the world go round" and indeed this is true! Some people develop pride because of money. They are wiling to give up anything for the sake of money even their relationship with their love ones. It's so sad to see that money couples or families are getting ruin because of too much money or sufficiency in money.

If one gets too obsessed with their work or earning money, then it could kill the love between two lovebirds. I suggest you talk to him regarding this matter. Find a nice, relaxing place and talk to him about this. Don't scold him or what. Just let him know about your feelings, hint to him. All the best!

Money is considered to be a Necessary Social Evil by millions on this planet. To many an extent, this is true. When the passion to get more money overtakes you and you are possessed by the thought of becoming rich(er), you end up losing many of the relations that were by your side when money was not involved. I have never given importance to money over my family life and maybe I have not been able to accumulate the monetary riches for my family, I am happy that I have a loving wife, loving and caring parents, friends who are by my side when I am low... time for my family... these are things that I think money can never buy

I definitely believe the love of money can ruin a relationship. When someone becomes consumed in the earning/making of money and they are blind to the people that love and care for them it definitely takes it's toll. I personally don't have a story but i know some people's parents who are so consumed with money that it seems their family just doesn't have a relationship with one another, it is very sad to see.

money and relationship is to be kept balance ,we are earning money for ourself and our family ,if they are not happy then what is use of money ,thx for raising issue.

Yes, paying too much attention to money may ruin a good relationship, including love, friendship and family. Of course, I don't think that your boyfriend is doing a wrong action absolutely. He is working hard, even during the weekends, which means that he wants to enjoy a better life with you in future. Perhaps you need to try understanding his feeling and pressure that he is facing. So, don't lose your temper even if he doesn't pay enough attention to you.

we are in the same situation..my boyfriend and i are far from each other and his busy working..while, im in our house unemployed that's why i always quarrel him and demand time from him at first..as he explained to me his work i started to understand the nature of his work and stop complaining..i keep on understanding him because i know he is only working and not cheating...