when do you say its over?
By phat_navy
@phat_navy (58)
Philippines
August 16, 2010 3:06am CST
Normally when you are in a relationship, you are so in love that you only absorb all the nice and positive thoughts. You tend to be blind or you refuse to see the other side of it. When you are into a serious relationship and let's you have invested years and years already and suddenly you feel that you are being pulled away by time but there is that love still for each other, would that be enough to keep on going or when do you decide to let go? Or is it an option? any thoughts are most welcome...
2 responses
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
I think being blind in love isn't very practical for a person specially if you don't feel completely happy and secure with the person at all. If there is still love for each other, then why will there be any reason for hurts? Though we know that troubles will be expected in a relationship, but if you feel that it should be over, then don't be blind at it.
If one thinks that the relationship doesn't work anymore, and is not becoming healthier in time, then it's about time to decide which way should you be going to. Away from the person or not?
I advice that one should always remember that happiness doesn't necessarily require being blind in love. True happiness is felt in the heart..Only you can fell for yourself whether you are happy or not.
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
I agree with you genevy04 being blind in love cannot make you happy..just be true to your feelings and to your self
@lfloresca (116)
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
For me even if we pulled away by the time I will still continue to love the person I loved and it is also because of the time. Time that gave us a chance to spent together with each other and that time gave us to loved each other.
