who should do the first move?

hi bluerain I think the best you do to them is to tell them that they like each other so that they will not afraid to show their feelings and not to hide it with their self, they just only afraid that their feelings will be ignored by each other

Well then, i think it is your action to bring them together. Naturally, it is hard for any one of the both to make the first move but i believe the guy should make the first move.

that's so sweet..!! why haven't you told them...that the other one also likes them..and hence bring their feelings out.. if they are too shy...and you know that they really like each other...then you should make them come together...in any way possible..:) after all it's for the best of both of them...:)

Hello there Bluerain25, This is a nice topic. Even though I am a girl, If I liked the person that much then I would really not hesitate to do the first move. I will not let a chance pass by not telling that guy I liked him but in a manner that I will not be degraded. I will also do that if the feeling is mutual. Usually the guy is the one who is the shy type if they think that the girl they like is out of their league. I will just give him some hints that I also liked him. If I intensely liked the guy then I will just tell him straight that I like him.

I happen to be that way myself. I'll never go out with anybody unless they ask me. The way I see it, either one of them will throw caution to the wind and ask, or someone will intervene. Otherwise, they'll probably never be together.