second chance for people in love?
By phat_navy
@phat_navy (58)
Philippines
August 17, 2010 9:19am CST
Some may say yes, others may say no on the issue. But again it depends on the character of the aggrieved party and the extent of the pain that was caused to the person. In a situation wherein you are fooled by a partner who was able to get somebody else pregnant or you caught your partner having an affair with someone else, would you still give a second chance?
5 responses
@incus99 (1083)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
When you are truly in love, you will realize that you can move mountains and forgive the worst offense of your loved one..
@phat_navy (58)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
Is that correct to say, that to you, everything is tolerable? Because if you can tolerate it and obviously decide to keep and save the relationship, it is right to say that you would still choose to forgive the person who did you wrong. Right? I admire you for being like that because sometimes its really easier said than done. Others will agree if I say once or twice, you may consider the idea of still accepting the person but more than that, i guess that is partly being abused already, abused of having a good heart.
@hilarion (72)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
of course not!
it is better if he/she just simply have some interest on someone but if he/she had a relationship with somebody else that's adultery though we are not married being a girl/boyfriend means preparing to be together forever
@aquariand (464)
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17 Aug 10
I would give them a second chance as I am not so niave to think that everyone has only one partner in life whom they will be faithful too for ever and ever, and life will throw challenges at us when we least expect it, the ship that passes in the night, or a chance affair when your drunk, or just someone smooth talking their way into your affections.
If you truely love someone then you will give them a second chance if they cheat again then they don't love you back and you have to let them go, but thats just my opinion.
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
Everybody deserves a second chance, but it depends on the person who is asking for that chance. if he can prove that he is really sorry about it and will not do it again, then he can have that chance. however, he should also be prepared and determined to show that the trust that will be given is worthy for him so he should earn it as time goes by. Moreover, the person whom he had hurt must be careful and must open her eyes and heart so she can assess the sincerity of the guy so the second chance wont be wasted
@quaye_sage (5)
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18 Aug 10
no! if he did it ones...he'll sure to do it again! but on the other hand...everybody deserves a second chance if you felt it in your heart that he truly deserves it. if he's willing to change his old ways and be faithful to you and love only you, and respects you then give him another chance...but be kin with his actions this time.
don't be fooled twice...set your rules and be strict in implementing it...
