To fall in love is easier than to fall out of love...
By SimpleBB
@SimpleBB (1329)
Philippines
August 17, 2010 11:43pm CST
To be in a relationship is indeed a wonderful feeling especially when it inspires you and makes your world colour red. And it's also common that women are easier to fall for a man than a man fall for a woman. Compared with men, it has been known that women are more vulnerable when it has something to do with the heart's issues. Even in a broken relationship, often than not, women endure more pain than man. In such situation, who do you think is more affected by the pain it caused? Will you be of the same opinion, that it's really easy to fall in love rather than to fall out of love?
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7 responses
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I don't necessarily believe that it is easier to fall in love than to fall out of love. they are two different feelings. Fslling in love usually is a happy moment in our lives. Falling out of love usually fills our life with pain.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
Hi sender621. Sorry for my late comments.
Well yes, these two are different. It is maybe how fast we react when we speak of emotion. And since falling in love brings happiness that makes some people easy get into or accept it. And falling out of love brings pains that makes it unacceptable. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this topic. Happy mylotting.
@maomao20716 (171)
• China
19 Aug 10
yes ,i agree with you ,actually fall in love is much eaiser than get out.. just like smoking ,it is easy to start smoking ,but it is very difficult to quit it.
sometimes when breakup ,man will suffer more than woman ,but sometimes is just on the opposite...well ,it depends on how much emotion he/she takes into the love.
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
18 Aug 10
Hi,
It is always easier to engage than to disengage. Even more difficult is to maintain a relationship in perfect order.
Compared with men, it has been known that women are more vulnerable when it has something to do with the heart's issues. Even in a broken relationship, often than not, women endure more pain than man.
That's what I call self-pity. Talk about human heart. Ask me how it feels to be in pain. I invented the word. When pain strikes it shows no mercy to anyone. It is as ruthless to men as it is to women. Love if true shouldn't give trouble or pain. But we often fall for the wrong person, incompatible person. That causes pain. It is difficult to come out of a habit, but things may become easier if you know the good points about the new habit and the bad things about the old habit. Where there is will there is always a way. But, unfortunately, we are often too blinded by our own desire, thus we refuse to recover. Things soon change and slowly we are exposed to reality. An accident such as a break up is actually essential in everyone's life. It always makes you better and stronger as a human being. Thanks.
God bless you
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
Thanks Getbiswa for this very well said views. My apologies for considering women only suffer with the pain. You're right, we are all human given a heart to love, and pain can be ruthless for both. And yes, it is the experiences that make us better human beings. Thanks for this sensible response to this post.
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
each in everyone of us get hurt no matter we are man or woman I think most of the women are just showy with their emotions unlike man but man also get hurt. Fall out of love is very difficult to feelings but it's better think the negatives behavior of the person we love to help our self to recover for it and we can move on in our life
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
Thanks davenhearst, Well that's the woman's distinct trait when inlove..showy with their feelings. Though I know some men who are also demonstrativ, and as what the other respondent here said, pain can be ruthless regardless of gender. Thanks for this response too.
@BigTips (304)
• China
19 Aug 10
Obviously, for most people, it is easier to fall in love with each other.
I guess you must hear that there are lots of people who fall in love with first sight. Yes, even if one are not familiar with others absolutely, he/she can love him/her easily, which is an amazing thing.
But for us, it is a difficult task to fall out of love. Why? Because at least, we have built a relationship with each other. Even if someday we become to hate him/her, we still need much time to forget him/her.
@yeyezz (196)
• China
19 Aug 10
Hi,It may be easier to fall in love than to fall out of love.Compared with men,the women may endure more pains than the man.women are vulnerable,So they are easier to get the pains than men.it is hard to forget someone when he or she enter one's world.It is difficult to change your old habit.often than more, women are sensible,they always think he is the best one for them.with the time past,maybe the heart wounds will be healed.Time maybe can change a lot.
@allehs (4)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
Being in love is the most wonderful experience an individual can feel during his/her existence in this crucial world. And more often than not, women fall easily than men. They are being blinded by faulty gestures and simple thoughtfulness which sometimes leaving their hearts broken. And it is also quite true that falling out of of love is much harder than falling in love. The fact that we people tend to reminisce the good times we shared with that special someone which forbid us to forget that person. Love is full of mysteries. No one can really tell facts about it, I think all are just matter of opinion and perception.