Is it possible for a man to fall out of love?

What you said my friend is exactly what I wanna say. So to avoid repetition I will just add on what you say. That we cannot hold our love ones in the palm of our hands. You know like holding a bird so tightly it will die...but if it's not careful it will get away. Just think of your love this way... do everything to make him love you more each day. If you two are really meant for each other, no one and nothing in this world can ever take the love in his heart for you. :) have a nice day!

thank you.., i felt bad with my line of thoughts..and now i'm definitely sure, it won't do me any good if i keep on thinking of "what ifs". It will only hinder the growth of our relationship.., i realized my mistake.., i don't want to be possessive partner.., so i'll just loosen the leash that binds our relationship..=)

I am with maean and czanwell. Don't be paranoid, it will just keep you weak and turned things into negative. No one could control things even someone, and we must be aware that the only permanent thing is changes. All are possible, if falling out of love can happened to girls, there's no reason for it can't happen to guys. All are human, and even ourselves, we're not sure if he or you may change tomorrow, we never know. So, Meaan is right, just keep the love alive while both of you are into. Enjoy what we have today for we never know what's there for us tomorrow. Good luck and enjoy life.

That's right, that's the meaning of keeping the love alive. ACtually I think the one secret of lasting relationship is maintaining the boyfriend-girlfriend stage even if you're married. That would definitely ignite both your emotions.

SimpleBB is right.., Courting should not end when the girls answers yes but it should stay to make the sparks of the relationship present at all times..-)

i guess that is my problem.. i worry too much.., even on things that hasn't happened yet.., and i know it isn't doing me any good.., and i would want to stop this nonsense before it actually do damage to our relationship..thanks a lot..=)

OMG. If I may only share my story. Long term relationship does not really count, it is if you meant to each other, then it will be. Mine can be considered as a childhood relationship for we are the best friends since gradeschool and started courting after high school. Then after wooing for several years, we're into a relationship for couple of months only & back to friendship but more of MU, but he went to work abroad, for some first months we're ok, but on his next trip, he come home to marry someone else. To make the story short, we're still the best of friends until now. Everytime he comes home, we still hang out together, but, don't get me wrong, it was with his wife and family's consent. So, life is just like a piece of cake, enjoy what we have today for tomorrow there will be more delicious flavor to try and enjoy. Happy mylotting, folks.

ouch!!! this is painful..every time i hear stories of long term relationships being broken..i can't help but feel scared of my relationship too.., i am open-minded with such possibilities but i can no longer imagine myself falling in love with any other guy..,i know men.., tends to change their feelings.. but i just hope my man is an exception...-)

Thank you and you are definitely right.. I might not notice but maybe I am choking him over my worries and paranoia.. and this isn't going to bring us any good with our relationship.. Thanks for making me realize this..=)

Thank you.., I guess you are right with regards to making us miss each other and showing and telling them that we felt...It's going to be nice and sweet with all the pressures from work, it will be a breather..=)

yeah.. i believe so.., if a man fells out of love.., he was not that in love from the beginning.., thanks..=)

thank you.. and i will be at my sweetest to him.. i can't give him all the reasons he want for him to stay but i could definitely give him the reason to go back..=)

i love your answer..., it gives me assurance..=)