Worst Dream came true!!!

@mr_pearl (5018)
India
August 18, 2010 10:11am CST
Hi Fellows... Here is a coincidence... A Big One!!! And I am still marvelling at it... It is not a happy one, so I am angry and upset too... Don't know with whom I am angry... Maybe, I am angry with life or that stupid dream, which came true... Before 8 days, I dreamed that I was with 'Her'... Both of us were having a good time in some city... Watching movies, going to gardens and ... and ... well... being in love with each other... When it was time to go (don't know where), she took my hand in her hand and said in her lovely voice, 'Hon, I won't be able to write to you for 7 months...' I woke up sweating... And had a hard time going back to sleep as I had to assure myself many times that it was just a dream and had nothing to do with reality... For a few more hours, I remained in a crazy state before going to work... At work, of course, things got normal (Work pressure has that subtle power, I think). I had forgotten about that awful dream... Anyone would, right? And before 2 days, I got her e mail which said that she would not be able to write for a few days... At first I took it boldly... I thought she is busy... and I know she is busy... Yesterday, the two things came together to my memory... My dream and her e mail!!! I pray to Heavens that it is going to be 7 months... I will go mad within that long time... What a horrible, depressing, shocking, mocking and disheartening coincidence!!!!!!!! Have you had any such experiences?? What do you think about mine???
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quita88
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
18 Aug 10
Ah, the heart works in your mind. I've not had such experiences but a few de ja vue (MSP?) mishaps......I have always felt as tho I'd been in a certain place before but never dreamed it ... They say dreams and eyes are windows to your soul. I would think you have such a desire to be with your lady that subconsciously your brain took it wrong and sent messages to your subconscious and you dreamed it all wrong...... Do not let this isolated incident ruin anything for you. You know she wants you and you want her, so start thinking more positive, ok? I will be praying for you... hugs, quita
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mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
19 Aug 10
Hi Quita... Yes it was kind of De Ja Vu thing... And that got me frightened... I am still not sure what to make of it... I am worried... Thankfully, I have a lot of work which keeps me busy... I understand the brain theory that you have put here. I will try to think positive Quita... I'll try to remain positive here after... Too much of negative will harm me... Thanks a lot!!!
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mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
20 Aug 10
yes, I am trying to be positive Quita... I am thinking positively... After all, it was just a dream, right? And it was a terrible coincidence. I shouldn't get frightened by such things... I am sure I'll get to read from her in a day or two... Will wait for her e mail with anxious heart... Will try to call her tonight before going to work and leave her a message... :) Thank you for being there Quita... You remind me of Van Chelsie from Bram Stoker's Dracula... You're so nice and kind... Your words comfort even in the worst situations... I know life is tough, I have had my share of pain earlier... I am sure things'll get better soon... Thank you many million times...
quita88
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
19 Aug 10
You know, we cannot control our minds too much. I do believe however the mind should overrule the heart's yearnings with positive thoughts. You are right, too much negativity will harm you and you also pay the price with your health as well by allowing negativity to drag you down. Your lady is waiting for you and you have to remember you are doing all you can to get to her and for that you will be rewarded. Work helps and work is our salvation. Always think positive and if dreams happen along, shrug them off and trash them cuz you have the will and the desire to be with your lady. She of all people should know how dedicated and loving you are. Hang in there, TIGER ! Life is not a bed of roses but in the end it sure smells like it :) hugs and take care, quita
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Janey1966
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
18 Aug 10
So sorry to hear this news. Has she let you know WHY she won't be writing to you for a while? It would help to ease your worries. If she had a good reason for not writing then you would be able to cope with it better, I'm sure.
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
19 Aug 10
Well, she writes that she is going to be busy... And I know she is going to be busy due to work... I got upset because of that weird dream which was followed in a few days by her e mail... That is what got me more worried and stressed... it is kind of the worst dream that seemed to come true- frightens me a lot!!! Thanks Janey... Have a good day!!!
Janey1966
@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
19 Aug 10
I know it's "easy for me to say" but my advice to you is..please don't worry. If you worry you will become stressed...if you become stressed then you won't be able to function properly..and that wouldn't do at all would it my friend?
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
20 Aug 10
I understand Janey... I see your point of view... Yes, I'll try not to think about it a lot... Let us hope for the better... Being positive is the key now... I'll think positively.. and hope for the better.. .I am sure she'll write to me soon... I know that she is too busy at the moment... I'll try to call her tonight... Thank you Janey.. Your advice helps!
sarahruthbeth22
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
19 Aug 10
Oh G-d! I'm so sorry. I think these nightmares are G-d's or your angel's way of preparing you for a huge change. Do I think it will be 7 months? No!!! But she did say a week? Then it will be a week! She loves you. If she didn't she would have just disappeared. I Know this will be hard, Real hard. But Just remember, she loves you and it is hard on her too. You two will be together. Just hold on to that. Focus on that! ps. If you are not religious Forgive me. I believe in omens , good and bad.
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
19 Aug 10
Hi Sarah... I am not very religious, but I believe in God... Yes, sometimes, I also think that some authority in the Heavens prepared me for the shock in advance... I am sure it'll be no more than 7 days... Why was it 7 months in my dream, don't know... I know she is busy, and I understand her... I certainly do, and I feel good that way... But that awful dream got me worried heavily... I wrote to her a panicky e mail yesterday... I am simply hoping that things'll get going soon and I'll be with her soon... It is getting on my nerves, you know... Hope, God'll help me and all those who need help... Thank you Sarah!!!
lulu1220
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
18 Aug 10
I have had dreams where I get mad that I cannot control it. I often dream about my first love. Everytime I try to approach him or find him and something always gets in the way. I get mad and tell myself this is a dream and I should be able to control it. You dream is strange but you were obvioulsy thinking about it beforehand and then dreamt about it.
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
18 Aug 10
Hi Lulu... Thanks for sharing... I don't know if I ever thought her telling me that she wouldn't write to me for a long time... I wonder what happened! And how it happened... Feel so weired and lonely... I am sorry about your bad experience.. Hope things will get better for us ... Thank you...
Jotomy
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
18 Aug 10
Hi mr_pearl, it is a real bad dream. Usually dreams will not come true. But in your case it is different. If she is not sending you mails, then you write to her, whenever she check for mails she can understand that how much you are missing her. You know always reading stereo type mails will get bore sometimes, for some reason or the other, when couple apart for a few days and then meet will be very sweet. Have a nice day.
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
19 Aug 10
Hi Jotomy... Thanks for sharing... Well, she has not stopped communicating... But it has become rare... She wrote to me before 3-4 days and told me that she wouldn't be able to write for a week... She is going to be busy with work... I would not have thought a lot of it, but then I remembered the dream and that made me shudder... I hope our sweet meeting will take place very soon... Thanks for your wishes... Have a good day!!!
Akatsuki4377
@Akatsuki4377 (154)
• United States
18 Aug 10
I'm guessing this is a long distance realationship? If not I would rather want to see her in person instead of not getting e-mails from her? Anyways, I had experience such as that before. There have been cases when I had a dream and it actually came true before. And by true I mean on point and everything that happened, happened in my dream. Kind of like a De Ja Vue experience :T Also sorry bout your girl man, stay strong T_T
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
18 Aug 10
Oh yes, it is a long distance relationship... We have not seen each other for one and half year... or maybe, more... It is comforting to know that I am not only one to have experienced this... So it happens eh!!! Thanks for sharing buddy...
Nikita Dimitriev
@Warogue678 (165)
• Belarus
18 Aug 10
That's a really bad dream... You love her much, and she to leave you for 7 months... That's not good. Well she said a few days, so try not to think about that dream. Think about that she'll write you soon, that you'll be able to spend time together. But... I didn't had any experiences that a dream comes true.
mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
18 Aug 10
Thanks for sharing friend... Yes, I am trying to be positive and not to think about it too much... 7 months will kill me, if I am forced to stay without her words... I am trying to be positive... Hope things'll get good soon... Thank you!