why lot of girls go to the net to find love?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
August 19, 2010 2:38pm CST
I know, we have different philosophy in life but I wonder why there are lots of girls go to the net to find their true love? It is really true that they can find their love ones through net even if they didn't meet in person?
9 responses
@karenkeng (13)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
I think girls aren't the only ones searching for love. I know a lot of men out there who are also using the internet to find love. Probably they just want to try a different flavor ( sort of like an ice cream), Asian meets European. If these girls don't have the chance to travel then I guess the best venue to meet people is through the internet.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
yeah. you have the point here karenkeng.lots of girls wanted ot have a boyfriend or a husband in ASIAN country so due to the lack of money they cannot travel there so internet is the best way to find love
thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
22 Aug 10
I also think that this is valid for the girls and for the boys. And the main reason for this is the fact tnat they actually live in the net! My daughter, who is 23, can do several things at the same time, including more than one conversation. Finally she fell in love with a boy from the net! This is a true story but not a happy one. One day she met him but couldn't earn his heart. What to say abou this? All is possible in the net, but the real life is much harder :))
@32FlavorsAndThenSome (149)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
That's true. The net can offer you a venue to meet people. It's the sustaining part that's difficult. I mean how do you keep in real life what you've started on the net? Some are able to manage, others aren't. Real life is much harder but I think it's also much more fun, right? I think that's why those who meet online have to meet in person at some point.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 10
Hi,
I do believe some people go online the chat room to find loved one and
they really get their loved one there.
For me, I don't say that I don't trust those NET LOVE.
But as a girl,it is best to be extra carefull especially when going out
to meet any NET GUY. it is best to get a friend for accompany and never go alone.
Also avoid those quiet and dark place.It is best to go for meeting during day time
and at shopping mall area.
It does not mean that NET LOVE can't be trust.Not all guys at NET are bad guys.
SOme are also good guys.
For I myself, My husband is actually my friend's NET friend. We meet up together and after lost contact for few years,at last , we kept in touch again and our Love
Blossom.
I should say ,that is our fate to be together.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
Yeah. you are right shia/ we cannot trust anyone today because there are news about the girls meeting their net love but sad to say the guy is user and rape the girl. so, we must extra careful for what we are doing. our self is the one who is responsible for our future.
thanks for sharing your comments here and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
20 Aug 10
May I point out that men do as well. But whichever does it, is really no difference it you go to a park, store or bar looking and searching for love.
The real question should be once you have the love will it be as real as it is portrayed on all the correspondences back and forth.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
you are right hardworkinggurl. there are lots of places not only in the net we can find our true love but also the street, the restaurant, the mall or etc as long as you feel real love. It depends the two people how they meet and where they meet.
thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@kurumi (85)
• Singapore
21 Aug 10
I believe this is because by using the internet, there are a lot of options. It saves time as well. For example if she/he goes through an online dating agency, she/he can search for their ideal partners by looking at their profiles. Imagine doing it off line. Do you know how much time it will take to find her/his ideal partner?
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
well, thats right kurumi. thats our trend today that we are searching our loved one using the net. but there are some didn't use the net because they didn't trust the people there.
thanks for sharing your comments here and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@32FlavorsAndThenSome (149)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
I guess it's the same as asking people why they hang out in bars to meet people, or library for some, or the park, or the coffee shop. People get to meet other people on the net and some are able to better express themselves here. I guess it's a venue for them to express themselves without any inhibition. Some people do end up falling in love, although I really haven't experienced that at all. My friend married someone she met on the net and they're still happily married now. I guess it's more a matter of how you are able to sustain the relationship and not how you meet.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
there are many ways on how people (girls, boys) to get along. The good thing is they can meet their loved ones through anywhere as long as they happy.
hanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
21 Aug 10
it's quick, it's easy to surf and find someone you are interested in, and you can do it in the comfort of your own home. The only thing wrong, you don't know anything about the person behind the computer until you meet them personally. I am not against internet dating just don't do it, maybe i should
@marvintechnology (304)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Girls tend to find their true love in the net because according to some guys on the net are sweet in comes of invisible conversation, that's why even they don't meet each other they tend to fall in love.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
I think you have a good opinion marvintechnology. But I am so curious why they wanted to do it instead of finding their true love in thier own country?
thanks for sharing your comments here and have a nice day ahead
godbless
@RamRes (1723)
• Argentina
19 Aug 10
But girls aren't the ones that find love on the net, but men do too.
Maybe chating is easier to true connect with someone. It's totally different. For me (talking as a man) is often easier to "talk" by msn than talk face to face. And that may be true for girls too. And what begins as a friendship by mail/chat, may end as a love on real life.
But of course, to really meet someone, and fall in love, internet is not enough, a real-life contact is a must!!! At least a phone call or meeting.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
yeah, you have a point here ramres because some man are afraid for their feelings to tell the girls face to face. It is a great advantage to those people who want to meet their future loved ones in the net.
thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead
Godbless