Love: Now, it's over!

God Bless This Broken Road. This is a path of somewhere. Be patient.

Thank you for sharing your sentiment. I guess there will come a point in a relationship where it just feels like your not going anywhere or any further. It's like a breaking point where one or both of you realize that its better not to continue the relationship before it hurts even more. I just hope you won't regret your decision in the future. Glad that you decided on what you think will make you happy. It just means that their part in YOUR story ..is over. Best of luck to you.

It is really sad when a love is lost, but if you feel that it's really not working out because there's just something missing in the relationship, then it's really better to just go one separate ways than to keep living a life full of sacrifices. Indeed it's true that sooner or later we'll just feel numb and somehow we feel that loving that single person is no longer worth it. I am in the same road as you are now, but I still love him very deeply now. But I am no longer at my wits end to fix the relationship, I am tired of thinking about how to make things work. I think I am now at the situation were I could just say Que Sera Sera - What will be, will bee.

that's just sad... when a relationship ends., no matter how much you say that you don't care anymore or that it won't work out or whatsoever, two people get hurt.... but of course they still move on with their lives and in the long run, they'd be able to find their happiness.... hope you find your true happiness soon...

Sorry to hear that. Since you mentioned that you were drifting apart then in my opinion, it would be better that you look for somebody else. For a relationship to last, it should be strong enough to stand the test of time. If as early as now you feel that both of you cannot stay strongly together then the relationship is bound to crumble soon enough so better do it now while children is still not yet an issue. Just move forward and soon enough, you will find the partner for you. Just pray to God for guidance and He will guide you.

sorry to hear i know it really hurts to let go of someone uve learned to love youre not alone though. i have known many long term relationships like from my batch in college they were together for 3 or 5 years and still broke up. afterall theres no assurance in relationships. i know youll get by just fine and find someone new soon.

Hi CMTS Sounds like a real toxic love and I hate to say it but you would probably be doing the right thing in breaking it off. It also sounds like there is a history of it being not so happy. I'm sorry. I know it is hard but it sounds as if you are doing the right thing by breaking it off.

That is a sad situation friend, sorry to hear that. Breaking up over text message sounds quite easy these days. It's like you can be say more than you could over the phone. But if my girlfriend where to dump me, she better do it over phone! With appropriate reasons! I don't want to hear lame excuses, after having given her so much how did she come to this conclusion. I once had (almost) a break up with my girlfriend and i was like quite angry too. If she has to do it, why not do it in a more respectable way. I talked to her, and later things got back. We don't have trust issues, it was something related to future compatibility but now we are together, ready to face the next step when times comes. For now, we have our studies to complete and we should not be getting into such situations where we both are in a sad sad situation. I hope you have made the right decision friend.. Good luck..

The moment we fall in love,we must be prepared to get hurt. You case is not the first heart break. Millions or billions of people had been through it,if those people were able to move on,so as you. Letting go is another way of saying we love that person,and saying we love ourselves too. We don't deserve to hurt ourselves for the sake of begging or hoping a love to come true. True love will come our way without looking for it. It will come unexpectedly and whether we like it or not,it will come knocking at your heart. Don't be sad,you never lost that person,but he/she lost you

Hello there, must be sad. but of course, if you really love the person and you wanted him/her to be happy, then i could say that's still considered love. because you chose to let it go so that this person can find a partner that could make him/her happy. same goes to you, good decision, no matter how painful it is. at least from my point of view, you did your best despite that you two are different. god-bless for people like you who's willing to make them happy by setting them free.

I'm so sorry to hear that. Some people says that love fades no matter how great it was. It is true especially if that person does not value you and your presence. People momentarily get tired and that results to giving up. Sometimes, we really have to give up in order to make things right and more valuable. Who knows, maybe next time, you'll see each other again and another chance will be given to the two of you to start all over again. For the meantime, start living on your own way and love yourself above everything else. Live simply. And live your life the way you wanted it to be.

ohh sorry that things are not working very well but if you still love her dont give up yet. when we find someone that really love us and we love we must fight. i wish i had that lucky bcs everytime a guy says he loves me he always changes his mind for no reason. like they say i love you and then they never feel it :( you had luck to find it so dont let go. i know is hard but try to make things work.

im sorry to hear that...things like this happens, so we will just have to gather our own self back and move on...hope you will be able to recover soon..enjoy life my friend...

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things turn out well for you. Just be open to meeting new people and having more opportunities in life. Enjoy life. Being single ain't too bad. Have fun. Party. Or find some quiet alone time.