Have you ever judged person by his/her apperance?
By startmoney
@startmoney (42)
China
August 22, 2010 1:03am CST
There is no doubt that good apperance can add points for us and we are easy to make a judgement by his/her apperance without any further investigation especially when people are looking for a job or fall in love.
It was said good apperance people are more likely to lie,do u believe that and have you ever judged person by his/her apperacne?
7 responses
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
I could not say i was judging but women have strong intuitions, most especially mothers. Like for example, some women can tell if a person is a bad guy or someone not worth trusting. Mind you, we do not judge by appearance but there is this certain aura that we see in people.
@startmoney (42)
• China
22 Aug 10
I do belive it and I wish I was able to see in people at the first sight:).
@manleyjoe (1597)
• United States
22 Aug 10
Follow your feelings on this and most times they will be right. And I don't believe that is just the women that feel it, because I feel it and last time I checked I was not a woman.
@32FlavorsAndThenSome (149)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
I guess our intuition is a gift and can protect us at times. I also felt this one time I was introduced to a colleague. I felt all negative about her, I couldn't tell why. Later, we realized how Machiavellian she was. She got ahead of others at the expense of other people. I didn't trust my intuition, though. I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I should have trusted my intuition.
@32FlavorsAndThenSome (149)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
I guess we all, at some point, are able to judge a person by his/her appearance. What's important is how we act on our judgement. Do we go by our initial judgement and deprive the person of the benefit of the doubt? Or do we ignore the initial judgement and take the time to get to know the person? I guess companies can't help but look at how the applicant dress because sometimes it gives them an impression about how the person really prepared for the interview. However, I hope they won't be deceived. I've been an interviewer once, and at times, those who appear aloof or understated actually gave the most brilliant answers. I think we should all be fair and get to know what's inside that person's charming face. Not all good looking people are dishonest.
@startmoney (42)
• China
22 Aug 10
I can't agree more.Just be calm and cool and let's see what will happen in the future.
@magtibaygom (4858)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
Yes, there were times that I have judged a person by his/her appearance. But I did it in a silent way. Just in my thoughts.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
Lots of times. I usually judge people by their appearance first. I don't know why but I just can't stop doing that. Some times I was right but most of the time I am wrong. 
Appearance can really deceives us. So its best to know people a lot better first and not just judge people base on their appearance. 
Appearance can really deceives us. So its best to know people a lot better first and not just judge people base on their appearance. 
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
22 Aug 10
Yes I have done that countless times before and i have been wrong many times. As said in transformers There's more to a person than what meets the eye. Even though i know that i am wrong i do that most of the time but now i am different and i now i wish to be more careful while doing so.
I am sure to enjoy a lot more if i just try to be who i am instead of changing myself to somebody if i am not.
Cheers!
@damned_dle (3942)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
Yes and most of us do that. It is hard to trust someone who likes like a murderer or who just looks like a bad person.
@katherine23 (255)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
I've never done that..basically i'd rather get to know more the person before i judge
