People that you can not be dealing with

I think the more friend you have and also in different places the more this happens. I did not realize the extent that people do this until I recently had to take a look in the mirror at myself. I have some friends in my neighborhood that I realized I was talking behind their backs. Not in a mean way but talking about stuff that was not my right to talk about. I woke up today and said I will make a conscientious effort to step back and stop doing this.

Hi, jugsjugs. I know what you mean. In this world, we will meet up with many different types of people. Some are nice and some are shady and others are just plain trifling! It is a shame that people are this way, but that is how they are. Sad, but true.

I cannot deal with high strung drama queens. Women who swear that they know everything, and then they have to start arguments and fights with everyone. I have to go toe-to-toe with two women this last year who were in their 40s because they just had to be right and they just had cause trouble. Now, I know that not all 40-year-old women are like this, but these two women really took the cake.

That's so called as friends and the world of friendship. Sometimes we heard bad reputation on them, but at the end they're the helpers. Similarly, on the other way round. Whatever, every relationship or friendship needs to be tested; especially, when it comes to a private life property of "A Secrecy A Legacy".

Ive had people talk in my back for as long as I can remember lol. It doesnt bother me anymore, let them talk, to me its the nicest flattery now.

i am 49 years old. i have two daughters. so i am happy in my family. yes facebook is a great site. thanks for your opinion.

I live in a small town where people are always being two faced. Many of these people are afraid to say what they mean or to stand up for what is right because they are afraid of making people mad. I hate that. I am one who tries to stand up for what is right and for what I believe in. I can do it in a respectful manner and believe others should do the same. If I don't like someone I just simply stay away from them. I don't care to act as though they are my friends.

I hate people who make fun of others just to get a laugh from people around them. They often have no idea how bad they're making people feel when they do that, and they're very selfish people. I hate people who can't keep secrets, too. I often feel as though I need to talk to people about things when things seem to get too much for me, and I hate it when the person I choose to talk to then goes and tells other people what I told them. People who lie to their friends to make themselves seem better are horrible too, and I cannot stand to be around them.

The people I know who might be called back stabbers might not stab you in the front, but you know from their demeanor that they would at least think about it. It doesn't do any good to try to get them to change their ways, they're going to; so I let them be what they are and wonder what they're saying about me behind my back. I don't lose any sleep over it, though.

i can't answer the bit about facebook as i'm not on it,but the bit about people talking about other people i do know about,i hear friends talking about other people all the time,i think they tell me things because they know that i won't pass on what has been said,as for backstabbing,i have plenty of that done to me in the past,i just take most of what people say with a pinch of salt nowadays

We had a lot of restructuring in our playgroup last week because of this exact same kind of situation. There was a girl in our group that was doing all kinds of back stabbing and it was bringing down the morale of the group in general. That said, it was only after I learned of the backstabbing that one group of girls was doing that I realized that they weren't meant to be my friends at all. I wish that there weren't people that acted the way that these girls acted.

Back stabbers are people I just cannot in my heart of hearts have any time and or room for. I try really hard daily to be cautious and measure any form of hurtful acts. I believe in karma and well I do not have any energy for any bad situations in my life right now. Every night in my prayers I always ask for any unintentional hurtful acts and it gives me a chance to subconsciously recognize which areas in my life I need to tweak and improve on. Well now that I am unemployed for the first time in my life I have recognized some supposedly true friends who in a split second go all out of their way to stab me in an instant. So that I do not feed into this type of activity I choose to ignore and ex them out of my life. Do not get me wrong I can be cordial I just do not have to like them.

I have a lot of contacts on the web, on this and several other sites. I've met a few in person too. Facebook does not appeal to me. I feel that there is plenty about me on the internet already, without something that, to me, could be quite intrusive. In the physical world, I have a number of acquaintances, but few are close enough to be counted as friends. Working permanent nights is also restrictive! There are far too many real people quite happy to get the knife out to earn their brownie points, so I am tempted to keep them at a distance. But close enough that I can keep an eye on those I know to be dangerous.

I have the same feelings with you. In dealing with relationships with different people, I seemed like tactless. Some people can deal with various relations,therefore being slick. Then spoke a lot of beautiful word and please people. I'm not admiring that kind of person and even feel sick of them.I don't even know how to treat them. So I choose to not to contact with them. Some others bully the weak and fear the strong.Usually I cannot bear this behavior. They are too selfish to consider about other's feeling. I despise them. But what makes me confused was those people are popular in society. Anyway, I'm genuine and proud of being true of myself.

Hi jugs, I'm glad that most of the people around in real life are really nice, friendly and helpful. It's rather sad that there are still a few who dislike to mix with others who living around them. Of course they have the right to live their own style of life and we do have to respect them. But there is one lady in her 50s who live alone in the same village. She ignores others when a friendly greeting giving to her. After knowing her peculiar habit which is rather rude there is none of people would like to talk to her anymore. She even lets her 5 fierce dogs to keep on chasing passerby every now and then and never stops the pets doing so Yeah, facebook is a great site for people to meet others with common interest. Nowadays lots of people enjoy the online fun to have pleasant communication with friends in real life as well as people made online. I like to keep in touch with online and offline friends who are sincere and have lots to share. As time is precious so I won't waste any valuable time on the wrong persons Happy posting

I also like face book and it is a great way to keep in touch. Some people I know even family this is how we keep in touch for the most part, except for phone calls every month. I will not deal with someone that lies, stabs people in the back or starts a bunch of drama. I don't have nor will I make time for this dribble and childishness.

Dear friend, I hope all humans like to be with others those who are really well adjustable or going comfortably each other, otherwise it would be some sort of tolerance. Tolerating others is really a mental harrassment or mental torture. Hope to be with those people who are well comfortable with us. Still at times we have to adjust for others. There are also people whom are better to keep a distance forever.

Yes, Facebook is a great place to find people, hear from people, and about people. It always fascinates me when people know what is going on with others and all and I am totally in the dark. All these types of people that you describe do make the world go round. I think it is interesting how different people are so different.

i am very picky about who i hang out with. and who i allow to come to my house. i just stay away from those i cant or dont want to deal with at all

you are quite right jugjugs! you know what, i had exactly the same lamentations as you have here a week before. A friend was backstabbed by the very people who acted as if they are her real friends and she has has done nothing wrong against them, except maybe that she is a bit prettier, sexier, happier with her married life, more successful in her business venture and she always smiles even when she knows the person has done her something wrong. I got fed up with their backstabbing and so i confronted them to mind their own lives. They have enough problems on their own to last a lifetime than take care of somebody else' life. You see these backstabbers, as i have observed, are really either envious of the person they backstab, or they crave the drama and limelight that goes with the life of the people they backstabbed. either way, it was something i could not take. and so i told them outright. Now, they consider me as another target of their delectable topics. I have long ago resigned to the fact that you cannot please everyone. And so i decided to live my life the way i want to, with due respect to the people around me. I mean, i have my own ideals and standards but i make sure that i would not harm or put someone in pain by the way i live. however, if they talk about me just for the sake of filling their insatiable hunger for gossips, i let them be. But they would just have to be careful that i wouldn't personally hear of it, or else they would have to deal with me.