Are you embarrassed to dance when theirs a little bit of people around???
By ANIME123
@ANIME123 (2466)
United States
August 24, 2010 8:02pm CST
Well for me yes especially if their is only a little bit of people and none of them are dancing because I know that if I start dancing then everybody would focus their attention on me because their bored and all. Yeah though when I dance I want a lot of people dancing not just me because you know I'm not one of the best dancers and I just like to dance my own way and try to have fun that's all that I aim for. Anybody else like this or are you totally comfortable dancing when ever???
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18 responses
@itachi12 (69)
• United States
25 Aug 10
i am extremely embarrassed when i dance to but as long as im dancing with a friend or some one i know or got to know its not so bad so bad so just look for some one to go with you
or ask some one you like to dance with you i don't think they will say no hop this helps anime123
@ANIME123 (2466)
• United States
25 Aug 10
SO dancing with someone that I know not bad actually that is a good idea, but then last time I danced with one of my friends who was embarassed to dance and in turns that made me embarassed to dance too. Still very good idea next time I will dance with someone who doesn't care how they dance so that I won't care either. Thanks for responding.
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
25 Aug 10
Hi, I do have the same problem as you face.
Whenever there is people around I will get embarrass. Apart from dancing, I will be shy to even sing to talk loudly. I am someone who do not really like the attention to be on me!
@mayur71091 (425)
• India
25 Aug 10
hey! don't be embarrassed even if you are in crowd. just feel relax and perform well then i m sure you will be proud on yourself. its my experience even i was embarrassing in my class to answer questions. but now its all has been gone away of me, i feel nothing to present myself in the crowded places. nothing else.
@sharkbiter (382)
• United States
26 Aug 10
I am too shy and embarrassed to dance in front of anybody. I always feel like they are staring at me. I have always been this way and had many fights with previous relationship over this. We would go out to the clubs and I wouldn't get up and dance, so my date would get up and leave or walk off and flirt with other people. I sure am glad that relationship is over and done.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
Yes, dancing with a little bit of people around is embarassing, because I'm terrible at it. It was very unfortunate that during my school days, we had dancing classes - which meant the whole class, and the teacher had to watch you dance, and give your grade! 
I'm so glad those days are over.
I'm so glad those days are over. 
@armstro2001 (8)
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25 Aug 10
if the people around me will be my friends, if it is bad or good dance.. I will no be embarrassed but if the people around me are people that I dont know, if I danced poorly, I will be embarrassed but if I did dance good I should be proud of myself.
@mayur71091 (425)
• India
25 Aug 10
yes it doesn't matter who is around yourself, only the thing matter is that how do you present yourself and perform in front of peoples. You should not embarrass even if peoples around you are unknown to you, after all you are gonna to dance perfectly, and how can be any one comment you badly, so do not give any chance them (peoples around) to comment on you badly.
@mayur71091 (425)
• India
25 Aug 10
well its a good question, but the point is that i do not dance often, so there is no embarrassment for me. yes i dance likely once in week and it may be in party or in function of my relatives etc,etc... so even if embarrassment arises, however, i don't stop dancing, coz i like to present myself in between peoples.
that's it.
@GemmaR (8517)
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25 Aug 10
If it was just going to be me dancing around then I would probably get embarassed around people, however if there were a lot more people dancing apart from me, then I wouldn't be all that bad.
I am a bit nervous about my wedding day, as I know that I will be expected to start the dancing before everyone else does, and I'm not sure how I feel about that. I know I'm not very good at dancing and I never have been, but I guess nobody would really mind if it was on your wedding day.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
25 Aug 10
I am not the greatest dancer. The amount of people around when I dance is not an issue. i would probably be embarrassed by my dancing no matter what the number of people around me are.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
25 Aug 10
It happens to me often that I go to a club, and people still can`t decide to start dancing or not, as the others aren`t dancing. I like to dance, so in those moments I usually ignore the others and start having fun. Usually after that the others follow me and start dancing too
@bloemart (222)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
Why should I? I am there to dance not to care people's thinking. If start to dance, maybe they would follow me. I know I am not a good dancer but there is no law regarding dancing on the dance floor with a person who is not good in dancing.
@elisu30mki (5)
• India
25 Aug 10
Well if you feel embarrassed or shy to dance in front of many people then you should try to be calm as much as possible and be focus on what you do. At least in this way you can beat your negative feeling about dancing in front of everybody.
@Tresaqwe (376)
• United States
25 Aug 10
I normally dance a lot when I am at school dances and stuff, but that's because I am normally surrounded by my friends when I am. :D I am perfectly okay as long as I can be around my friends, otherwise I'll most likely just walk around and just feel alone and probably find my way to leave. I like dancing not at school dances too, but they're normally just little idle dances or when I speak sometimes I accentuate it by dancing! Haha.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
My sister and I love to dance and there are times that there's only me and her in the dance floor. I dont feel embarrassed at all if I am with her. lol we also dont go to places where we can dance and there are a lot of people we dont know. We usually have this kind of dance as a special activity of all the young adults in our church organization.
@Crisfannum1 (314)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 10
I can't dance, so I won't dance infront of other people. I don't want to embarrased myself doing that. But I can do slow dance, coz it's easy. Just put my arm around my partner's neck, while his arms on my waist, right ??Just stay with that position until the song ends...
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
25 Aug 10
I suppose for me it depends on the party, but I love to dance so there have been times I have started the path to lead others to join.
But I do recall being in a party were I did not know many so it took a bit to get started. What we have to always remember is that when it is a party and it involves dancing there are no pros go on girl have a great time, as dancing is a feeling of having a great time.
