Do you think the person you are with now is the one?

I was then in a stage when I thought he is the one. I am referring with my e fiancee. I thought he was the one since marriage is the next thing in our plan. He is working abroad and we plan to get marry when he comes back home supposed to be this October. However, I met someone and I do not know if it was destiny or how you can call it. Yes, my ex-diancee and I broke up and am with the new guy now. On the other hand, I am hoping my present guy is the one. I wish he is the one, if not, I wish my ex-fiancee would still accept me.

I do believe that the person i am with is the one, although sometimes i have doubts in those moments de have our fights. But deep down he is my soulmate and he does complete me.

I am with someone right now for almost 3years. The things I have in mind is my dreams, that's why I really have some doubts how long my boyfriend could wait me. I doesn't even think that its HIM I will spend my life with. But I know, GOD will take the rest. We really don't know what will happen tomorrow....let's just embrace the opportunity that we still have them....have a nice day!!

Yes, I do. (Sounds like a wedding vow....hahaha!) My boyfriend and I have talked about getting married. We're at that age already and we both want to spend the rest of our lives with each other. So if all goes well maybe in 2 years. Ha! He's really someone I can talk with, who likes to take care of me, he can be a bit childish but that's tolerable (LOL!) and he really loves me. I really love him, too. (Awwwww, shux! Cheezy!)

When I was 18 years old I would have said no, to be with one partner for 10 years or more is to long & not possible. But now, at 39 & since I've been with my first love for more than 22 years I can't thinks of replacing him. I think of him throughout my day & miss him when he's not there. We have our problems, he's not perfect as I know I'm not too. Accept his imperfections, & when life is tough we bare it together. When I'm sick or when I needed someone to take care of me because I was involved in a car accident he was by my side taking care of me, our kids, work & the home responsibilities without any complaints. When I needed a shoulder to cry on he was there to hug me even when the reason I was crying was because of him. He'll call from work to check up on me & the kids to see if were all right. I can't see myself with any other man, this is the only man for me, plus he's never hit me or raise his hand when he's angry. Sometimes we say things out of anger, but we always come back to each other & say we can't live without the other. Love him with all my heart & soul, even all the riches won't make me happy & complete if he's not in my life. He is my rock....

Well we've known each other from kinder to college. infact, we're classmates from kinder to highschool, and 3rd year to 4th year college. I guess that says it all. Looking forward for happy ever after. =)

I am fairly sure that the man I am with at the moment is the right person for me. He makes me laugh, smile, and feel safe, and I know that he will always be there for me if I need him to be. In return, I will always be there for him, and I like to think that I would be able to keep him safe if he needed me to.

i haven't meet that person yet but usually when people go steady they like to believe that that person they go steady with is the one they'll end up with. when you truly love someone you don't have any doubts about the relationship or wish that someone better comes along.

Hello deve_annrn, Interesting discussion. I have always said that i wanted to have a life long partnership with my girlfriend and i hope everything goes fine. I am not perfect and no one is. Today is not my good day, i guess i need more time for things to settle between us. I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for more than an year now and honestly we need more time for us to know each other. At least i need. Have a nice day, bye.

Before I married my husband I had a very serious relationship for 5 years but even in that 5 years I never imagine myself spending the rest of my life with him. I never really thought of wearing his wedding ring. Then came my husband, and without so much ado. I knew from the start the he was the one I was looking for. I don't know the reasons why but I just felt it. I even fought for the love we have for each other. There was nothing that could come between me and my love for my husband until.... (that would be another topic).:) One word of unsolicited advise,there's no guarantee that a relationship could last a lifetime. It may or it may never will... Not even a piece of paper can give assurance...

I am married now and there couldnt be anyone else. I love my husband though I am experiencing a roller coaster ride with him which seems like the ride doesnt end. I think I could not imagine myself with anyone else.

i liked this guy really but then i saw all he said, all he showed was a lie. he then said he loved other girl and was trying to forget her. so i guess he used me. he after that even said he loves me. what is not possible bcs he even wanted change his job to forget that girl. a big disappointment i had bcs i really thought we could be happy together.

There are things that I don't like with my partner right now, like his attitude towards this and that. Because of that, we always argue. There are things that I'm expecting him to do, yet he can't do, and vice versa. We have a lot of differences. But he's definitely the one that I want to spend my lifetime with. Despite all the arguments, misunderstandings, and differences.. at the end of the day, it all boils down to acceptance, understanding, and our love for each other.

I married my classmate after five years and we are happily married no for 5 years so it's ten years now. The point is the trust u have in you partner and viceversa. I wouldsuggest even if one has a slightes of doubt about the relation one talk it out or just finish it otherwise have to repent for the whole life...

Sad to say but the person I am with right now is not the man whom I am willing to spend forever with. We have been together for almost 3 years. We have been through a lot of things. Through the years, I have seen a lot of his attitudes, good ones and bad ones. Some of his bad attitudes are attitudes that I cannot accept. I believe that when marrying, you should marry a person you love and a person you are willing to accept, the good and the bad parts of him. I cannot accept my boyfriend's bad side. And I cannot imagine myself living the rest of my life with someone like him.

Me and my boyfriend had talked many times already about tying the knot, but I am always the one saying no. It's not that im not sure if he is the 'one' but its just that we are not yet financially ready for now. For me i consider him already my first and only man and that he is the guy i am dreaming of being with for the rest of my life. We are in our relationship that is going through a very rough storm now and im not 100% sure if we can ever be fulfilling our plans in the near future but somehow we are holding on to our promises.

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That's a really difficult question. Even i am not sure if the girl i am with right now is the girl for me. I have been hanging out with a girl for just a couple of months and i am not sure if she is the one yet. I had recently broken up with my ex who was with me for a couple of years so it's kinda hard to guess that for now.

you need to get away even if thats hurt you sometimes our hearts tell us to do things our brains don't want

...hmm..i have considered the idea of getting steady with my present gf...although there are times that i appreciate someone else beauty, but still in the end, I will still would love to see myself with her and spend the rest of my life with her..i might be too young for that, but still, i want to be with her forever..and i believe she felt the same..:)