What matters most: love or money?
By audsalas
@prettyauds (258)
Philippines
August 26, 2010 10:18pm CST
I know there have been so many topics,discussions,debates about money,love,life. But,what does really matters in life,is it love or money? If you were to choose between the two,which one would you choose? I know it's a tough question,and some people wishes to choose both,but sometimes that's not possible.. Maybe there were few lucky people who were able to get both.
Hope to hear your thoughts about this. Thanks!
20 responses
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
If I were to choose between both, I'll choose love because I know in my heart that its the one that makes me happy and contented with life no matter how poor I am financially. I believe that love is something that not even money can buy. So after all the debates and what not, love makes me happy and contented with life and that is why I chose it over money. But if you have both, you're lucky enough to have that privilege in life.
Best of luck
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
Hi meemingNew! Me too,we have the same point of views,but unfortunately as what a line from a song says "sometimes love just ain't enough", and it is really not enough. Sometimes we think or daydream that "love will keep us alive" it is true to be a complete person,but practicality,it can't keep us alive when we starve,we don't have shelter,we don't meet our needs. It's really sad to think that money plays a big part in our lives. If only life was as simple as before,the old age,where people are contented with what they have,happy with their simple life,doesn't need to think more that they should have. Maybe love will over power anything else in everyones lives. :(
@cmetuariki (2)
• Australia
27 Aug 10
i agree with you meemingNEW! I believe that love can conquer anything! i mean without love where would many of us be today, and your right money cant buy love!.... not true love anyways. Love is a precious thing! there are some out ther i bet who are loaded wth money but would do anything to be loved! there aint nothing wrong with being filthy rich depending on how you use it! i mean you are blessed if you have both love and money! well thats all i have to say:)
@icemanterly (8)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
From my all walks of life, i have learned that Money makes the world go round, but i came to a point that money wont stay too long with me, but love will stay.. Your family members like your mother and father a brother or sister or a relative like a cousin or a Close Friend's LOVE will still be there even your down from your source of income. Money is the root of Evil and everyone of us knows it.! In reality money is an instrument that makes people happy, live, survive in a money-spending world and buy everything that they can buy.
My motto about MONEY is :YOU CAN BUY HAPPINESS but YOU CAN NEVER BUY LOVE.!
So settle for the things that money can't buy!
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
Hi! Wish I could say that one too. Sigh... Thanks for sharing! Have a nice day!
@FesalbonCyron (1)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
Hello, Love is Important, believe me I see it everyday. But money has a huge role to play. Big but not as big as love. So, to whom ever it may concern love will always be my choice.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
27 Aug 10
I think if one does not have the money to survive, one cannot indulge in 'love'. Love alone is not sufficient for survival in this world.
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
27 Aug 10
Well in this world im sad to say it but money matters most first.If you are nt fiancially fit and in good shape you will quickly find yourself living in a one bedroom apartment or worse living on the street.Most people in this world waste their money on non essential things before taking care of thing like rent food and gas for their car.I think that lve matters only after you are a responsible person with your fiances and then you desereve to live with someone who respects that and is resonsible with their money and bugeting.
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
Yes it's true. Love cannot pay or fulfill peoples need.. Maybe,it's hard to choose money over love to someone who's used of falling in love without thinking for stability. But yes,money really matters. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! :)
@shaifulhafizal (16)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 10
i choose money,because money is important in life without it how do u can survive in this world..love is the second,without money u cannot get love...because girl must see did u have a money,can u support them live,give them accommodation,marry them..u cannot do that without money.
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Hi shaifulhafizal! O would also agree with in that. some girls now a days,looks for security in life before marrying a guy. Life now is really that easy,almost everyone needs to work to support themselves or their family. When you're broke,problems will arise and conflicts,issues will start up. Money is really important in the middle and lower class society.
@view_point (53)
• India
27 Aug 10
So this question seems always catchy.
what to say in front of a woman you love? ha ha
what to say to a close friend of yours?
well, to be idealist go for love and to be on a ground reality, hey dear come on-you can't ignore money. Or in fact can anyone (including myself) honey!!
It is common experience money can maintain the love, or even foster love but reverse process or situation is not seen in general.
Find out yourself.
I bet there might be an eyeopener waiting for you. hmmm
thanks
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Hi there! Really cathy and it seems to be an never ending debate on which really matters in life,especially with girls. :)
@ajith_kumar (721)
• India
27 Aug 10
I think Love is also considered but the thing which made me to present here is money .Offcourse I came here to earn money but once I came I realized that this is not huge money making program or online job just mylot pays as an complement to our post it is really a wonderful thing .But I never leave mylot even though it stop paying that is the one thing I can assure .SO it is love
@aevans (255)
• Malaysia
31 Aug 10
it is really depend on what kind of situation a person is. if a person living in a good environment, he no need to worry about daily expenses, perhaps he will think love is important to make life perfect. if a person is struggling in life, having a financial problems, think about where to get money for life, he can just live without love, money is all he need to survive. i will choose money for this time, because it is the one i needed most now.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
28 Aug 10
If you ask a direct question like this, every once said that "money is not a matter, love is import",
But love is not full fill our needs,
i like money,
and
i love my family.
i need money to develop my family.
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
27 Aug 10
I think there needs to be a balance between these two. Love and money. All of us need love, and all of us need money too. Without love, we'll feel empty, we'll feel that there is a part of us that is not complete. As such, love is important.
Money, on the other hand, is important too. Without money, there are many things that we are unable to do. If we don't even have the money for food, how then do we have the energy to do other things?
Therefore, I believe that both are of importance but they do weight differently at different points of our life
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
Hi dream_ozn, that's what I'm feeling right now. Emptiness. I am feeling empty right now. But, I have to think of a lot of things. But this emptiness really feels so sad,difficult. :(.... Thanks for sharing..
@mikaela8132000 (144)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
i guess love. cause im in that kind of situation now. i have this guy who want me his rich and all but there no love i can feel about him. and because of his money
he think all the girl here in the philippines is very easy to get. for him his the boss you need to follow him cause he got the money. but this other guy his not that rich. but he can love u as long as u want and make u feel ur the best women in this world .. so i guess i will choose love
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
That's my point of view before,but when I think of being happy,I miss having someone that I love and who loves me. But I don't want to have a hard life. To live a life of problems financially. Now a days,when money became a problem,everything in ones life is affected. And I don't want that to happen. Sigh... :( :(
@jhyan007 (467)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
...haha...for me i prefer love...although everything depends upon the situation...love is the main source of everything...you won't get more money if you don't love making money, would you?...your business will not grow and gain more profit if you don't love your business, right?...money can be earn out of love and determination to work hard for it....everyone can have both or should i say, we have both...it is just that few people knows how to save both money and love..=)
@Sha033 (29)
• United States
27 Aug 10
I personally think money is a little more important than love. If i don't have any money or a way of supporting myself i don't feel like i can possibly love anyone other than my family, because ill be to busy stuck on the fact that im broke. I don't believe in using others for means of money or really depending on other people to get me the things that i want and need. Considering the fact that when i dont have any money im mad at the world anyway, living off of love is not going to pay me. We all need money to survive in this world.
@ajithlalkk (66)
• India
27 Aug 10
both money and love are important for fulfilling your needs. but never use both of them for your wants
happy mylotting
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
This is really a tough as well as common issue. But I am a firm respondent of this common issue choosing love over money. Simply because, money can earn and spend that easy, easy to find easy to spend. Unlike love, though it also earned but it took time and someone who took so many sacrifices and burdens just to have ne inlove and be loved, would learn to value it.
@greenteab7 (94)
• China
27 Aug 10
Hi prettyauds
How are you doing today.
Actually, I wanna choose love. Even though I have a lot much money to burn. But if I have no love. I have nothing. I think the most important thing in this world is love. Of course the moeny is very important, but I just wanna say, love is more important than money. So, my answer is I will choose love, but I will make a effort to make moeny. Because money will make my life better.
@ordecai (46)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
love or money,,,,hmmmm, well i prefer to choose love tha money, i think most everyone have to. love for me is the thing that is ultimate for happiness for every individual..money is justa thing, we can find it at anytime anywhere but love is something dep underground and if we have it in perfect timing it is ultimate happiness..
@xenzhi (59)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
I would choose money over love as more important. I believe that right now, it's insanely difficult to live on love alone. Love can't pay for the school fees, the grocery, the electricity and water bills, the furniture, or all the other necessities of life. However, I don't need a gold mine to live. If I am able to live comfortably, that means no financial problems whatsoever, with the person I love, then I'm already happy just being by this person's side.
@jitenderteh (10)
• India
27 Aug 10
specialy its not to choose one in every situation its depend on situation and at that tim on your humanity because you can make money if you lose but you will not get the person you love and once you loose love tou will think yhis life a hole so if its your most lovable and you have faith on that and that also on you then you should bot break that heart because once you looe your love then you cant make it..........................................
