Sha033

@Sha033 (29)

United States • Age 48

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Age doesn't matter.. or it does matter...

juggerogre @juggerogre (1653) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

They say that when it comes to love age doesn't matter. There are couples out there that have huge age gap but still lived happily ever after. But is age really not a factor or criteria for loving someone? Do you think you will...

age gap

love

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Sha033 For some people age doesn't matter but for others it does. I guess if you both have a lot in common then your ok. For instance my ex was 14 years older than me, i still wanted to go out and have fun and do all things i have not done yet. He was more homely...

30 Aug 10

How long before marriage?

dream_ozn @dream_ozn (1752) • Singapore 30 Aug 10

As the society changes, so have our thoughts. How long do you think we should date with our partner before you feel - yes! it's time to get married?

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Sha033 I personally think you should date someone atleast 3 years before you think about deciding to get married. The first year they are still trying to basically get you. The second year if your still there they are doing whatever it takes to keep you. The third...

30 Aug 10

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Why do people pretend to be something their not when they want to get with you?

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 30 Aug 10

Why do some men/women pretend to be something their not when they want to pursue a relationship with you? They say their this, their that, i'll do this and that for you. I won't treat you like this or that. I have this and that....

pretenders

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I want to know, if a man really loves his wife, why would he kiss at his ex?

cream97 @cream97 (29085) • United States 28 Aug 10

My ex-boyfriend said "MUAH", to me in a chat. He is claiming his love and devotion to his wife after this. I don't understand why would a man kiss at his ex-girlfriend when he is currently married. I feel bad for his...

marriage kissing dishonesty liar infidelity

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Sha033 I don't know why he would kiss at his ex, but it could have been just a friendly gesture. If he takes it any further than that then it's a different story. If it bothers you that much maybe you should let him know that you don't feel uncomfortable with him...

30 Aug 10

Should I stay or just let it go?

Shearry @shearry18 (118) • Davao, Philippines 30 Aug 10

I am in a relationship right now and I'm afraid it's going to end. We've been together for six years and he is my second boyfriend. I've been with him since college and we were good friends before we has this LOVE thing between...

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Sha033 I know how you feel i've been there before. What i did was make a list of all the things i loved about him and a list of all the things i didn't like about him. For me the bad things out weighed the good so i left eventually. So maybe try that in helping you...

30 Aug 10

which season you like most...??

saranshnaik @saranshnaik (193) • India 30 Aug 10

there are mainly three seasons summer,winter,rainy..!! every season is different..!! summer is full of heat and winter is full of cold and its really good to see 1st rain but i want to know from the people that which season they...

season

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Sha033 Since im from Florida i enjoy the winter season the most, because you get to where the clothes that you wouldn't normally be able to wear year through. I love to wear long sleeve shirts and sweaters but unfortunately it's too hot here for that. I normally...

30 Aug 10

Bad Luck

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 29 Aug 10

all my life i have watch others have good things happen to them around me, while i watch i shear misery. not at the fact that others have good fortune. it's just that i feel like i didn't have bad luck, i wouldn't have any luck at...

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Sha033 Yeah sometimes i feel like if it wasn't for bad luck i wouldn't have any luck at all too. For instance i filled out an application for my sister and for myself at the same company that needed 10 people, my sister got the job and not me. I have years more...

30 Aug 10

Promises can hurt us more than a Lie does...

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 29 Aug 10

Did it ever came to you that promises are worst than lies? I believe that promises can break my heart more than a lie could.. Because with promises.., you just don't make a someone believe, you also make them hope... Hope for...

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Sha033 Yeah i think promises are worst than lies too. When someone promises you something you expect them to come through on that promise, you depend on it, Hope for it and believe it. You don't expect to be let down or disappointed. I don't like when people promise...

30 Aug 10

Have you ever woke up but could not move your body?

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 30 Aug 10

Sometimes i wake up and for some reason i can't move my body. Atleast i think im awake. It's like i have to really force my eyes to open, force myself to move. I can see things in the room around me, but it feels like something is...

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Have you ever dreamed a family member died, and later they did?

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 30 Aug 10

When i was about 5 years old i kept having this dream that my mother was really sick and she died. I kept having this dream over and over for months. I told her about it because it really scared me, and like any parent would say...

bad dreams

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Would you break up with your boyfriend if his kids....

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 28 Aug 10

Would you break up with your boyfriend if his children didn't like you? My previous relationship i was in for 10 years and my boyfriends children didn't like me. They like me at first because i was always buying them stuff and...

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Should you choose working before going to college?

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 28 Aug 10

I started working when i was 16 because i had to help out with the bills. When i turned 18 i wanted to go to college but i started working 2 jobs just to get by. Now im in my 30's and regret that i didn't go to college because of...

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You & your boyfriend/girlfriend both work should both share cooking & cleaning?

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 28 Aug 10

I ask this question because most men i know think that cooking and cleaning is "so called" women's work. I think if me and my boyfriend live together, we both work, we both pay bills, we both should share cooking and cleaning....

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Do you have an overbearing parent?

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 28 Aug 10

I am a 30 something adult, my mom passed when i was 12 and my dad is really not a part of my life. I was raised by my grandmother and i love her soooo much. I don't have much immediate family here in the state i live in besides my...

people

Do you like to give advice, but don't like to take advice?

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 28 Aug 10

Why do so many people like to give you advice that they don't take? I have a friend that can give me advice about everything under the sun, so to speak. But the minute i give her advice she gets upset or she just doesn't listen....

advice

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Sha033 you are so right!

28 Aug 10

Are you shy?

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 27 Aug 10

I'm shy. I don't like to talk a lot, I'd rather listen. What about you? If you are, what types of obstacles have you faced in society because of your shyness? How do you like being shy? I remember when I first saw an article...

personality

shyness

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Sha033 I consider myself to be extremely shy in person. What i mean by in person, just like now over the internet i can talk all day long but face to face it's really hard for me. Even at work i've heard people talking about how strange i was behind my back. They...

28 Aug 10

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Do you like to give advice, but don't like to take advice?

Sha033 @Sha033 (29) • United States 28 Aug 10

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Are you an outgoing person or a homebody?

SimpleBB @SimpleBB (1329) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

We are working on weekdays, family day at weekends. Do we need to allot time for ourselves? Of course, I believe that I have the right to spend time for myself. After working hours, my friends still have time to roam aroung for...

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Sha033 Yeah i'm pretty much a homebody too. When i've worked all week long i like to stay at home and relax most of the time. My family and friends say that i'm just boring. I like to hang out now and then though. But i prefer just "me time." I don't have any...

28 Aug 10