Jealous girlfriend

United States
August 27, 2010 12:40am CST
I really care about my girl, but her jealously is driving me crazy. It's hard to go anywhere with her because she always thinks I'm trying to check out other women every 5 seconds. If another woman says anything, even just asking for directions, my girl gets pissed off and starts giving me the silent treatment. She even gets pissed when certain female singers come on the radio. She always asks me if we'll be together forever and I'm not sure because I can't stand her behavior half the time. Not easy to let go, but my life would be so less complicated. What should I do?
3 responses
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
From a girls perspective i can say that it is normal for girls to get jealous. You might have done something before that really makes her no trust in you. She things that your every move is a betrayal to her. I was before acting that way to my bf, getting jealous and pissed with his every move it was because he has done something to really make me have no trust in him. What 'we' did was talked..we talked about how to lessen the jealousy thingy and less fights and all. It's hard to be having a relationship with no trust and full of fights so i guess you have to talked with your gf about it.
• United Arab Emirates
27 Aug 10
This is quite common in a relationship, u have to make here believe if u love her. Some peole are really possessive and they expect the same thing from others also. If you win their trust you will be together always. Always give time in a relationship.
@turist1 (175)
• Bulgaria
27 Aug 10
Ok, here's an opinion from a girl. First of all, less complicated doesn't mean good life. You'll get bored. Second - Do you love your girlfriend? If you do - try to find out why is she reacting like that. If you don't feel anything for her - let her go. Here's the possible reasons for her behavior: 1. You gave her reasons to trow a fit with your behavior towards other girls. 2. Probably her past experience with another boy had made her more sensitive to this matter. Check if someone of her ex boyfriends has cheated on her. 3. Really stupid reason - an inferiority complexes. She thing she's too tall, too short, too thick, too thin and so on. If that's the case, try telling her everyday that she is the one, she's the only girl you see or she is the prettiest girl on the world, she cooks the best. Use different every time or she'll find out. And most importantly you have to mean it. I hope that this can help you.