How to deal with relationship well? Is there any key?

Hiya miwei, Not everyone will think the same as us so we have to learn to accept things as they are sometimes like it or not. It´´s a gift to be sensitive but not too much either. Try to slow down and love yourself first try to shut you ears to what others think about you. That is not easy when everything we are taught is to react to outside stimulation first before anything. I have had to unlearn that too I was over sensitive for a long time but you would not know it. Now I am stronger but doing it by myself. Care about what you think not what others think and stay with that.

people varies from attitude and character. Not all people you meet everyday are like this. We as a person should have a strainer in our life and that is common sense. If we know that these kind of people can hurt you, and most likely it would be possible. Just keep your distance and don't give all your trust. Expect the unexpected so in the end you will win. Having relationships to friends and other people around is not surely the same as it is true. Be cautious to those people who wanted something else not just genuine friendship.

Just be yourself and you will not be wrong.

If you mean the relationship between friends, I am not too pushy for someone to be friends with me. I also often find a friend who is always powerful and always think about money. I never questioned anything done by my friend. For me that is important I do not hurt my friend. Anyone who wants to be sure I thank my friend, but who do not want to be my friend, I will not be forced to become my friend.

a relationship is not like a lock that needs a key to open... it's not also like a typewriter, to pick letters and form words... or a computer peripheral to send signals to the computer for processing... it's more like water in a stream trying to seek its own level... so, let a relationship flourish by doing your part well and expecting nothing beyond human capacity...

Relationship is a two-way strategy; like give and take. For example, you give trust and you expect that your partner trust you also; you give love and likewise you expect that you'll be love. True love is very rare these days, yes you're right. Maybe due to the hardships that some people have gone through or maybe because people tend to enhance their vices, or maybe because we become materialistic.

The key is to be nice until it is timer Not to be nice. I got this saying from a film I once saw. All it means is to be polite , kind to others but once they arte rude or mean to you, then either tell them to stop it or curt them out of your life. It is ok to be oversensitive. All that means is you have strang feelings. But you Have to protect yourself more than others who are as sensitive.I am oversensitive but I Now know I must tell people when they hurt my feelings and tell them to stop and if they won't, Then I cut them out of my life. That way I wil never be hurt by them again! so just be nice until it is time Not to be nice. Take care.

miweikang hi I tend to live and let live. I do not like quarrels or fusses so mostly agree when I can and keep my mug shut when I cannot.Getting along well with others means having an open mind and a closed mouth.I have made many friends and few enemies as I try not to be seen as a combative person whatsoever. ing[/em]

Good day to you Miweikang, Honestly it is very difficult to handle and deal with a relationship. Wherein, the attitude of each partner should meet. And one way to meet each others attitude is, pride should be kept aside. Along with that, in a relationship, these ingredients should be present to maintain a much better relationship. These are faith, hope & love. Hoping these things will somehow give you a key for a better relationship.

I don't think there is a key to handling a relationship well though if you sometimes feel that you have become so emotional with your friends then it will be better if you stop and distance yourself for sometime. Having to deal with your own for a moment without your relationships can renew you though you need to detach themselves for a moment only and not forever. Sometimes when we get to be too close, it's either we are suffocating the people in our relationship (even if its friends or relatives) or we are becoming to needy for their attention which kind of makes them move away. So I guess try to distance for a while like do other stuff and then when you think you are okay, go and meet them again :)

Self Satisfaction is my success. I have a handful of very sensitive people, drama queens men and woman and cry babies. One thing that hold truth to me is that how I handle each individual personality whether the receiver is take it negative or positive is that I tried and after I try I am self satisfied.

Getting into a relationship is a commitment and must be a commitment. It is not merely a game of life and must not be. Therefore, for it to work, you must be generous enough to bestow your partner a great deal of understanding and thoughtfulness--and your partner must also give it back to you. Relationships work at its best when two people know how to make concessions and compromises. Relationships also work when two people involved learn to be content.

...the key to everything is your relationship with your self...you cannot deal with other relationship or your relationship with other people well if your relationship with your own self is not strong...it is the basic foundation of all relationship.. and love is the main source of everything...so love your self before you love others...=)

maybe different countries has different types of cultures about the way to deal with the relationshiops between you and your friends ,I think when others treat you like something such as angering and not friendly ,you can do in the opposite mood,thinking if you have some problems which affend your friends.modest and sincere is the best way to make the frozen relationships melt.

I can totally relate to what you are saying. I feel like I am having the same struggle with how I feel about relationships. I think I go through this every so often in my life. Some people think acceptance is the key. Will I am not so sure about that. Love and Respect for sure but Acceptance that is a different thing all together. I have people in my life that I adore for many reasons but frankly their selfishness in our relationship is getting to me. I question myself is this really a good friendship or healthy friendship. Should I accept this friend for being this way or should I just let the friendship go or should I love and respect my friend enough to talk to her/him and see if some of this selfishness can change. Sure it could end the friendship but maybe that would really mean we weren't that good of friends to begin with. If I talk to my friend about being selfish and she/he sees the need to change then maybe she cares enough about me too. I am probably not explaining myself well but my point is excepting bad behavior in our relationships is not healthy for either person. If we love and respect each other then bringing up our some negative issues should not be a problem but a strengthening factor in the relationship.

I think the key with any relationship is to both want the same thing. If you both go into the relationship with the same expectations as your partner/friend/family member, you're more likely to be happy with what you get in return than you would be if you had different aims for the relationship. Trust is another key thing- you have to be able to trust them, otherwise there's no point being in a relationship with them and you would probably end up breaking up.

Hi there, Lack of trust or understanding can lead to fights more often and it makes things ugly. I have had fights with my girlfriend and in most cases i am the one who complains about things. It makes one feel like the other doesn't really understand them. I regret having said a few things which bothered her so much, i feel so guilty about it. I think i need more time for things to become smooth between us. We haven't even graduated and i have always felt like i am the one who is keeping us together. If things doesn't settle then i fear things aren't going to work in between us. The key to strong relationships is trust and understanding between the both. All the best.

The key to any good relationship seems to be communication. As long as there is a line of communciation between two people the relationship has the best chance of survival. Respect and caring for each other is also important. Love and commitment to the relationship are needed as well. If you start with the best communication possible, the rest will follow.

people varies from attitude and character. Not all people you meet everyday are like this. We as a person should have a strainer in our life and that is common sense. If we know that these kind of people can hurt you, and most likely it would be possible. Just keep your distance and don't give all your trust. Expect the unexpected so in the end you will win. Having relationships to friends and other people around is not surely the same as it is true. Be cautious to those people who wanted something else not just genuine friendship.

time will change everything.keep away your good heart from this kind of pollution.enjoy life and dont think much.