bookjhayar

@bookjhayar (63)

Philippines • Age 36

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What makes your blood boil?

bookjhayar @bookjhayar (63) • Philippines 5 Dec 10

Here are a list of things that make my blood boils or things that give me a badblood: 1. Having me on a long wait 2. Postponing schedules 3. Nonsense talking 4. Broken promises 5. Quick change of plans 6. Telling me the...

life

people

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Do you have a television in your bedroom?

MAllen400 @MAllen400 (829) 29 Oct 10

Do you have a television set in your bedroom? When my children were living at home they all had a television in their room. It was okay until you could get all these music channels and they would have these on while we were trying...

television

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bookjhayar yes, we have. since i was a kid, everyone has tv sets inside their rooms. but nothing really happened like yours. mom is really strict about turning off the tv sets before going to bed. so, we were really trained.

30 Oct 10

Has someone you met in mylot become your real life friend?

starlight_starbright @starlight_starbright (810) • Philippines 30 Oct 10

I once met a guy her in my lot. He PM me and started chatting through YM. We became friends and we still are even though we didn't meet in person yet. How about you?

friendship

true friend

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bookjhayar no. but i hope i would have one. it would be fun.

30 Oct 10

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What is your response when you ask friends for help?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 30 Oct 10

when you own is trouble / not yet finished working on your own job? your friends who ask for help (which is not related to your occupation)it knows that you are also working on the task?

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bookjhayar if given a task that's not too difficult to handle, I am very much willing to help this friend. but if time doesn't permit me, then I would just explain to "this friend" that I can't unless if he/she is willing to wait until I finish mine.

30 Oct 10

are you really enjoying your current working..??

saranshnaik @saranshnaik (193) • India 27 Aug 10

hey friends i found that people are working for earnings but they are not happy from inside..!! they are working like money making machine but are they really enjoying their working..?? or they want to be do some other work which...

work

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bookjhayar Well, I just resigned from my recent job simply because I wasn't really enjoying what I doing. Though I was earning well I just came to point where I realized that I did wasn't what I wanted in life.

28 Aug 10

How to deal with relationship well? Is there any key?

miweikang1987 @miweikang1987 (134) • China 27 Aug 10

I always focus on relationships with others and care too much about others opinions.Sometimes I'm tired of dealing with relationships and over-sensitive.Many of my friends have the same feelings. The relations between people are...

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bookjhayar Getting into a relationship is a commitment and must be a commitment. It is not merely a game of life and must not be. Therefore, for it to work, you must be generous enough to bestow your partner a great deal of understanding and thoughtfulness--and your...

28 Aug 10

My best friend loves me, should I accept him or not?

christinachow @christinachow (40) • China 27 Aug 10

Last week my best friend told me that he loved me, and I was shocked at the moment. We know each other nearly for 6 years, and now we are in different cities. I didn't expect that he would break the silence. oh, I'm totally at a...

best friend

love

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bookjhayar You must ask yourself: Do I also love him the way he loves me? Or do I love him merely as a friend? If you do the former then go for it and lavish that relationship. If you do the latter, continue being a friend--just let him understand everything how you...

28 Aug 10

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Do really sleep at least 8 hours a day?

invisiblelady @invisiblelady (1655) • Philippines 15 Aug 10

Lately, I've been making sure to get at least 8 hours of sleep a day. And it's doing me good. How about you?

sleep

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bookjhayar 8-10 is pretty good. While I was working, I only had 4-6. But while I am out of work now, I am able to get 10, and it really feels good. Besides contributing to good mood the whole day, having enough sleep gives you more energy in the day.

16 Aug 10

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What is wrong with teenage marriage?

kristeena @kristeena (358) • Philippines 14 Aug 10

My cousin who is just 16 years old got pregnant. His boyfriend who is only 17 years old wanted them to get married but both of their parents do not agree. They were separated, my cousin is now in the province with her mother....

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bookjhayar It's pretty much about the two young people's readiness to plunge into such lifestyle. There are young couples who have survived such lifestyle and the problems that are attached with it and I think, that is because they're ready for it and they both have a...

15 Aug 10

How much do I hate where I live?

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63748) • United States 14 Aug 10

Well, I can't say I love living in Texas all the time - when the temp was over 100 for nearly 70 days last summer, I was seriously thinking of packing it up... However, did I hate living here more than I might hate living where...

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bookjhayar I'm living in the Philippines and though how bad Philippines might seem to other countries in terms of economy, I would still want to live here. Weather-wise, Philippines could be a great place to live in--3-5 months of summer and the rest is like rainy...

15 Aug 10

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My first overtime

mihama_poohbear @mihama_poohbear (449) • Philippines 13 Aug 10

I had my first overtime last night. Actually, it was an "ambush" overtime. Since I was still in training, I wasn't given any "real" work yet although I was already exposed to quite a number of cases and situations that may arise...

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bookjhayar I am out of work now. But in my recent job, overtime was totally normal. I did overtime many times. Well, it's just a part of work.

14 Aug 10

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If you were a teacher, what subjects would you teach?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31365) • Denmark 13 Aug 10

When I was a child I wanted to become an elementary school teacher and I wanted to teach Danish, because I was interested in literature and writing. I wanted to work with children, and I was more interested in becoming an...

subjects

teacher

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bookjhayar The want to teaching came a little bit later in my life. I used to dream of being an architect but ended up working as a journalist. The love for teaching came in at high school. Having been loving public speaking, I thought teaching was a great avenue to...

14 Aug 10

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Have you experience being traitor?

princejhaizee @princejhaizee (279) • Philippines 13 Aug 10

In this life, God given us a 'someone' that will call us bestfriend. a Bestfriend which can be our protector, our guidance, our strength; someone that we can have if we are on the road of sufferings. But what if that person is...

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bookjhayar I never had what I call best friend though I have had close friends. Not only don't I want to get betrayed, I also don't want to become a double-crosser and so, I'd rather have close and great friends than a best friend. I always believe that there's no such...

14 Aug 10

have you ever had to lie to keep a "friend"?

keshia2007r @keshia2007r (2880) • United States 13 Aug 10

ok, so I've been in this situation, but i was the victim. And it was a bit of drama involved. So someone who i thought was my "friend" i heard talking about me. At the moment i was very surprised, because it's me, what is there to...

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bookjhayar I've been to that situation many times but often, the greatest solution is to really be open to each other. In the first place, there's no such thing as friend when he/she would talk anything bad against you behind your back. A friend is somehow who can tell...

14 Aug 10

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someone made a negative comment about my youtube video....

p3ks626 @p3ks626 (6538) • Philippines 13 Aug 10

Well, it wasnt my video and I was looking into someone's video and some people were making negative comments about it and the owner of that video got angry at those people. I think every time you try to upload a video in youtube,...

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bookjhayar You know, we can't really please everyone. Even how perfect a thing is for us and for other people, there will be a few others or a number who'd really try to find ways to look for flaws. And all you gotta do is accept it and let it slip your mind or less, it...

14 Aug 10

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