Attraction

Factors that makes someone attractive to me, is that the person has to have something going for them, meaning schooling, a good job, living by themselves,not having parents still make decisions for them and have well conversation skill. Some times physical appearance is not a deal breaker,but I do believe in proper hygiene and cleansiness. Money would be nice for the person to have, but again, it depends on the circumstances. I think over all, the person should be nice, have an opinion, know how to read and write, have goals and desire to achieve them. That is what is attractive.

I think that if someone understands you that makes them attractive. Of course by our natural born instincts we believe in appearances to attract us to others, but that is only sexually. I like to think of what emotionally attracts me to someone else. Continuing with your questions, I would say that I have no idea what women find attractive about men because that is all based on the type of women she is and women can be very different from each other in my opinion.

For me, appearance is what gets me interested in someone. then I like to get to know them better. A great personality , a sharp wit and comic style usually keep the attraction going. Money is not something that really attracts me when I might be interested in someone. Appearances can be deceiving, so I like to see deeper into someone to know the attraction is worth the effort.

I can't deny the fact that appearance matters to me. However, it's not everything for me. I admire confidence. I like it when the man is self-made, not necessarily rich. and then I check if he is able to establish an interesting conversation with me.