What is the story of your first love?

Philippines
August 28, 2010 8:44am CST
I don't know if it is appropriate to share to you the story of my first love. But I really wanna share it with you guys. I am attracted to this guy since my childhood days. I am only 11 years old then. Yeah, I was too young but I really do not know what does this guy have to make me tremble every time I see him. He made me feel so special. We are friends by the way. He sends me letters, bracelet, etc. And I do appreciate all of it so much. But there comes a time where we need to part ways. We studied on different schools when we got in High School. And then after 3 years, we have seen each other again. I feel this trembling effect again all over my body. And then he courted me. We became lovers. But sadly it last for only 2 months due to misunderstandings. After almost one year, our paths crossed again. He wanted me back but I am already with someone that time. Until now, he keeps on telling me that he loves me so much, its been 7 years now but he is still holding on. He said he wants to marry me. He is just waiting that me and my boyfriend will broke up. Honestly, I don't love my first love anymore. I am so much inlove with my current boyfriend. I just wanna share this with you because I still feel that this story is so good. Though it does not end with a happy ending, still the memories is quite good enough. Can you share me the story of your first love?
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@rameshchow (4426)
• India
28 Aug 10
Love is a smooth and sensitive feeling, Its a fever of heart. We can't predicts its origin. It started from heart automatically, really it is a strange feeling, we can not explain in words. We must believe our lovable one. Misunderstanding is bad disease of the mind. We have believe our heart only, what it says we have to follow that only. Mind is the centre point of useless thoughts. Mind always tries to get command on heart. But must kept our mind in control. I love my friends. They can share everything with me. And they are strength. As per as my concern, we have to develop first, we have to settle first, then we have to think about love and marriege.
• India
3 Sep 10
have a nice day..
@lolo58 (54)
• United States
28 Aug 10
Sweet stories...All in all for the most part, none of us forget our first love even though it may have gone down a different path. It's been 37 yrs. since my first love and it lasted 3.5 yrs. I can remember vividly so many of the things we did. Remember so many arguments, making up, laughing.. the whole big thing. BUT I also knew we didn't belong together and we'd be miserable. I have nothing but pleasantness and smiles when i think about it - It's a warm, cozy feeling. Married twice since then and now and very happy with #2 for 17 yrs., we're a good fit and thoroughly enjoy each other.
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@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Thank you for sharing mzbunnylove05. The case of your first love is that he had his chance but he blew it. Having misunderstandings are natural when you're in a relationship, but if and if he loved you that much that time, he would have never let you go. It's quite amazing that your ex a.k.a your first love is still after you up to this time and even wanna marry you. BUT, my main question is that when you two broke up, why didn't he came after you? why did he wait for a year to pass by instead of finding you so that you'll see each other again? why now? As you are saying that you are very much in love with your current boyfriend, I think that you should stick to your present man rather than a blast from the past. Your first love will always be special. First loves always do. But as we mature and learn things, we'll just realize that it's all just a part of the past and those are just memories from yesteryears. We can't bring back what's happened before. I hope your ex will find happiness in someone else. And I wish you'll continue being happy with yours. Anyway, I'll just summarize the story of my first love. I was the new student at my new school back in 7th grade when I saw him. It was the first day of classes and he was my seatmate. but we never talked that day because I was sent home due to fever! :0 What I felt for him was love at first sight. We got close throughout the year and then suddenly it hit me that I was already in love with him. When he knew about how I felt just a month before the school year ends , our friendship fell apart. We were both so immature that time, he was really childish about it.(torpe in tagalog) He won't talk to me but I can notice him looking at me. We don't talk in class but we talk for hours on the phone after school. etc. I really thought we had a good thing going on. But I was wrong. That special relationship (whatever you call it) only lasted a month after he knew that I love him. When summer started, I never tried to call him or what. That was the only time that we attended the same class together. My family moved to another place a year after that.. I was too far from him and so that's just about the E.N.D of my first love. It ended on the note "What could have been." And ow, I saw him last year after 6 long years of not seeing each other. He is already dating his first ever girlfriend! And I am happy with my life as well. It's great to see someone who was a big part of your life even though he doesn't have any idea how much he meant in my life until now. That's my story. :) Best of luck to you both.
• Portugal
28 Aug 10
sorry that your first love story ended this way :( it could had been a cute story^^ anyway wish you find a great guy^^
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
sweetloveforeve, I must say that I'm quite surprised that you read my "long" post. Thank you by the way. I appreciate it. It actually took me a couple of years just to forget about my feelings for him. I do wish the one I'm dating now is the one. I hope you'll find yours too. :)
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
29 Aug 10
Well i am still with my fist love. We have been together for than than a year already. I still remeber one day when i was watching im play soccer with his brother (i didnt knwo him at the time ) and i asked like.. who is that clown?. Hehe A few days later he saw me alone and told me to hang out a bit with him and a friend before i cought the bus home. At the time we didnt talk so much, until one day of the San Joaninas (a festival here in the Azores) I was completly drunk and i was with some friends. And one friend of mine tried to rape me but luckly i got away. When i went back to my group of friends crying i saw him (we never had an actual conversation) but he was the first person i saw and he took care of me that night. We started to get closer since that day and even with ebrything he knew about me ( all of my very very crappy past) he still liked me. I remeber one day we were talking my messages and he said he had a suprise for me. The next day we went to the beach and he asked me if i wanted to go for a walk. We went next to the lighthouse and he said he wanted to do something but he was afraid. I told him do what you want :) He them kissed me. I aksed him why he was afraid to kiss me and he said he thought i would hit him -.- We have been together ever since and i have changed alot since them. I say that he saved me from my past. Thanks for sharing your story and i have shared mine :) Hope you enjoy it
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
5 Sep 10
He dear, Child hood life and love is always a memorable stone in everyone’s heart for ever. Because in those day whatever we have the feeling, it is genuine and comes out from or sincere heart. That is why when we grow up, it gives a lot sweetness and beauty. Like you, even I have a similar start up. A good looking and nice girl who come from a nearby school to my school and in my class of VI-th standard. It was just affection and without telling anyone, I kept the love in my mind only and continued for ever. In your case, if you like your 2nd b/f so much, why don't you tell the other boy that it is not possible for you to have married relationship with him. Because since 7 years, he have an affection towards you and he indicated also. Still is waiting. It is too late to inform him. How is your love for the 2nd lover and how much you wish to be with him. Even he also has the same level of love towards you. You need to understand. 7 years is not a short period and one who wait for that much period and also, a desire started from you and you both shared it for a period of time. He must have made his own way of life alongwith you and one day you moved to a different direction. I think it is your liability to inform him. Atleast, such an openness towards will be really appreciable. It was a time and you were not able to take bold and decisive decisions in those days. OK, but make him understand that and if possible be a good friend with him. As you may be aware of the seriousness and pleasure of love, he deserves from you. If you cannot give it for him, you can tell it open and let him fly the way looking for someone else..... Now, for you life is precious with your current lover. Like him also have a wish and will. Do you want to close your eyes upon him and don't you value his love and desire, which you have taken the initiative for it. Best of luck and best regards, Thank-s
• Portugal
28 Aug 10
aww your story is so cutie^^ i wanted have story like this but never had^^ my big love was for a guy that i met online i really did love him, i was so crazy for him i even almost didnt sleep just waiting to talk to him ahah i was only 17 so seemed he would be with me forever and wouldnt love other guy. but he acted careless and with time love disappeared and i broke up with him. anyway i really did all cute things girls do, i made a notebook with anime images, my drawings, my stories, my poems for him^^ and sent him but he couldnt receive bcs mail problem and i got it back. still keep this notebook bcs true emotions were there when i made it^^
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Wow. You fell in love with someone online? That's quite a rare circumstance in my opinion because of how far you are from each other. You must have been so in love with him because it clearly shows on the things you did before like the drawings in your notebook and poems. I have done that too. Feeling love for the first time is really the most exciting among all in my opinion. There's just so many memories that we can reminisce and just take a laugh at how vulnerable we were before but we have changed, learned and matured in time.
@Chubsko (51)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
The Story of my first love is so memorable, i was speaking to him about my crush and saying everything about life. i treated him as my best friend we talk like hours. but this friend of mine always say that my crush is not right guy for me and not a good man for me, and that i found out that my friend was saying that words because he likes me and then, my friend courted me and I've fallen for him and after like a month i answered him and we became lovers.
@GemmaR (8517)
28 Aug 10
I met my first love when I was 15 and he was 17. Being two years older than me, at the time, was a big deal, as he was old enough to consent and I was not. We met through a friend who he actually dated for a while, but they both said that their relationship was never more than just a bit of fun, and they wouldn't mind if either of them got with anyone else or whatever. I got with him, and we had the most amazing three years ever. Then, when I was in my second year of A Levels, I suddenly grew up and realised that I wanted much more than he was going to be able to give me. I don't really know what made me make that decision at that precise moment, but I just suddenly "knew" that I was going to have to end our relationship. I did, and we are still friends, but we don't really stay in contact all that much anymore. It is a little sad, but it was for the best at the time, as I am now in a proper adult relationship with a lovely man, and I know that we both want the same things from life, so with a bit of luck and good fortune, everything should work out well for us.
• India
29 Aug 10
I just a crush in my school days. Exactly at the same age as you - 11! I had an illusion that it was love. But after getting into my college life only I understood that it was just crush. Now I'm searching for my first love!!! I didn't get any feeling so far! WTH!
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
28 Aug 10
My first love was in the second grade. He was my first kiss as well. We spent our recesses on the school playground together. i thought he was the best looking boy in the world. then one day i saw him kiss another girl. This was my first broken heart. I look back on this witout bitterness but fond memories. this boy showed me what joy there could be in love even if it didn't last for long.
• China
28 Aug 10
Hi mzbunnylove05 How are you doing today. My first love was when I was student of high school first grade. She is nice girl, and we were in same class. We like each other, and we fell in love very soon. After I graduated from high school, I went to study abroad. She stayed in our city. Its been 5 years since I have been here. I still call her sometimes, but I know because of the time. Everything changed. I dont know how is her thinking. I cant talk about it on the phone. So when I come back China next time. I will talk to her about this.
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
The worst thing that ever happened to me....
@yugikier (10)
28 Aug 10
A first love really last the most of them just like in my case. I also have first love called it "puppy love" since grade 2 in elementary . She is quite always special to me and that feeling till i graduate in elementary. When i took high school she was enrolled in another school. we crossed each other when i took an nsat in my fourth year high school in their school. my feeling to him is decreased in that time but memories by her is still there. Now im 27 my last saw to him is in church when i attend a christening of our neighbor. in that last momemt she is still there in my heart but you will realize she is still part of ur life buy not for last
@jailo12 (332)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
my first love is not really memorable for me ..that girl is a user ,she's just playing with love i guess ..i loved her because she's my first and i want it to be memorable and it turn out that i've been used ..it really is hard for me because i love her but i can't do anything because she doesn't love me as i love her .. it really is sad huh? thats my first love ..
• United Arab Emirates
28 Aug 10
hi well i dont remember so far but that was good days in my life.
• China
28 Aug 10
I don't remember anymore how we began, but to be honest, I really felt nothing for him at that time. We were at the same college, though belonging to different departments. I didn't know him at first. Then one day, one of my female classmates told me that her friend wanted to be friends with me and so we were introduced to each other. After that, he began to court me. I don't understand now why I agreed to be his girlfriend, but I did agree when he asked me to be with him. Our love lasted for 3 years and then we broke up due to complicated reasons. But I felt no regret at that moment. Perhaps I'd never really been in love with him.
• India
28 Aug 10
My first love story is still running, we are in love from last 2 years. We have informed our parents and they are against our marriage. We dont know how to convince them, straggeling hard to make them agree for our marriage. We are hoping for the best at the movement and nothing can be done.