date cute or ugly guy/girl? cute is playboy and ugly is sweet. what to do?

Hello sweetloveforeve, There is some truth to your statement. However, do not be fooled. Some homely men think that they are all of that, and will cheat. They are all men! Having said that, I tend to look at personalities, and how they treat other people. The men that I have dated have been attractive and kind. One had a playboy quality, but did not tolerate it. :)

I really don't like it when people do this because truth be told, you fall in love with who you fall in love with, meaning looks aren't everything. I have been with guys who are cute and who are nice looking, but had rotten personalities, they weren't worth it. Yeah, sure they were good looking, but their personalities were awful. There was maybe one person that I met who was beautiful on the inside and the outside, but then I decided that he was too good and too perfect for me, and I knew that it would never work out between us. There was no spark there, and he and I both knew this. We weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, we were just dating to see if it really would work. To me, people are really ugly. I would never call anyone ugly. I don't even like using that word because it is so hurtful. I like to use the word, "average" or "not that beautiful, but it's what's on the inside that counts", and these people do tend to have nice personalities, but I have met some people who aren't good looking have bad personalities to match. And those are people who will never be happy and never end up in relationships. My boyfriend and I aren't the two most gorgeous looking people in the word, we're not Brad and Angelina, but we love each other, and we are beautiful in each other's eyes. It's a maturity thing.

i would date with the ugly one. man's appearance doesn't matter much to me as long as he has good personality and character. to be with a rather ugly guy will give me more self-confidence.

I guess the question is do you want to have a couple days of fun followed by someone crapping on you or would you rather have someone who will treat you right and is dependable. Seems pretty obvious. That's why I always seem to pick the couple of days of fun followed by being crapped on. Just kidding I would pick the other one I have learned my lesson.

i will rather date the ugly on, i will not be bored because shes funny and at the same time romantic. a romantic person is great during dates. right cat?^^

Unless you're truly in love, I would say neither lol. There 6 billion people in the world. I'm sure you'll find someone perfect for you. If you have to second guess him, then you probably won't want to be with him your whole life.