I dont know what to say...

United States
September 5, 2010 5:08am CST
My son is starting to ask questions about his father, I dont know what to say?
5 responses
juicekodai
@juicekodai (1121)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
oh we have the same dilemma.. how old is ur son?... im still a mother to be.. few days from now ill be delivering my baby... and i worry about the same thing too.. what will i tell him when he start asking.. im still trying to move on... and i dont know if my baby should now what kind of a jerk his father is...
babyshei
@babyshei (97)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
i can relate to u too. Im a single mom, his father and i are n0t together, he d0esnt even pay my son a visit n0r support him in any other way. My s0n is still 1yr and 4m0s. Old though, i still have en0ugh time to prepare for a go0d answer. Im hoping that when he c0me of age he would undrstand
juicekodai
@juicekodai (1121)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
we should just have to pray things will be alright.. i hope my baby would soon understand me too... im still trying to move on... and i dont know if i would want his dad to see my baby specially now that we are not together.. maybe he can see my baby if i have totally moved on... but now, i dont know..
babyshei
@babyshei (97)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
in my case, i dnt want my ex to see my baby but unfortunately its so hard for me to do that bec. We are neighbors. Im planning of m0ving to an0ther place. I guess thats for the best..
nor143
@nor143 (5)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
How old is him? and how do you handle him since he was a baby.. if he is old enough may be, even if your not connected with his father, he has the right to know but in the right time and ages. you should consider the consequences or aspect that may change the mood of both of you.
slipz1487
@slipz1487 (415)
• United States
9 Sep 10
the thing is, my kid is only 2 years old, his turning 3 this October...he met his dad around may last year, because my husband and i separated when he was just 2 months old...
sangeethveena
@sangeethveena (61)
• India
5 Sep 10
Hi, how old is your son, don't worry, u told the truth whatever it is when the correct age of your son. give lots and lots of affection to your son. don't hurt him.
babyshei
@babyshei (97)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
honesty is always the best policy. For every questi0n your s0n is asking, answer him truthfully,you owe that to him. Just make sure u would answer him acc0rding to his level of undrstanding. Have a go0d day.
kiranpulsar2007
@kiranpulsar2007 (6)
• India
11 Sep 10
see nothing wrong just tell fact whatever it may be if you say now itself it better for you to dont worry about tomorrow facing problems so be frank and accept the truth and convenience her and show more affection with him hug him and say the truth be frank and bold bye take care