can i pm?

United States
September 5, 2010 8:33pm CST
i cant seem to find a link or anything to send pm's to anyone. can we do that here or do we have friend someone first?
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5 responses
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
I think you can only send PMs to those who are in your friends list. Try adding someone to your friends list and see if you can send him/her a message after he/she has accepted the request.
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• United States
6 Sep 10
you're right...can only pm if someone is your friend first...that's a little annoying
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• Philippines
6 Sep 10
Why is it you find it annoying? That is a standard policy in every online forum, to safeguard the members from being spammed by people who are not related to us. If MyLot will allow that every member can receive private message from anyone whether a friend or not, then it will be a "celebration" for spammers! I experienced that in one online community called homebasedbusiness.com. I became a member of that community thinking it will be helpful to me in my journey to success in home-based Internet business. I thought it is a community where I can share ideas and have a support system for our journey. But alas! I found it a haven for the worst spammers in the world! I will never go back there anymore!
@inu1711 (5285)
• Romania
6 Sep 10
Hi bsollace, and welcome to myLot. The FAQs say that you can send a private message to a user only if that user is on your friend list. http://www.mylot.com/o/faq/faq13.aspx. As a new user, you should better find some time to read the FAQs, the discussions guidelines and the photo guidelines. There I found a lot of interesting information. For example, you'll find out that a PM should also be written in English, not only the discussions, the responses and the comments..
• United States
7 Sep 10
thank you all for your input. i had found someone i wanted to just ask a quick question to and wasnt sure if i wanted them as a friend or not.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Sep 10
hi bsollace you have to have friends in yourmylot friends list then you can pm to them. For example if you ask me to add you as friend then you can pm me but otherwise you can send only to people on your friend's list. so ask to be f riends with others here then when you are accepted you can send pms to them.
@o0jopak0o (6394)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
well you can message somebody its the pm part of mylot.
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
i added you as my buddy. pls confirm and pm me if you want hehehe..