Career or your love one?

@DenverLC (1143)
Philippines
September 7, 2010 1:01am CST
If you are required to select only ONE from your current career or your love one what will you choose and why?
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14 responses
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
Love cant feed your hungry stomach, money cant buy happiness, so why you need to choose?? If your partner loves you he/she wont let you choose because you need it both or we need it both right???
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Both are very important but what if you have to choose only one from the two? Will you still choose two of them when what is required is choosing only one from the two equally important things in your life?
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Yah we all know your point.. But for purposes of discussion you need to balance and choose ONE.. Thanks anyway although you did not hit the target.
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
You cannot balance it if both are very important in your life..
• United States
7 Sep 10
No matter what, I would choose my significant other over my job because my job isn't worth it. There are always jobs and opportunities out there, but the person I love is a one time only deal. I would choose him over my career any day.
• United States
15 Sep 10
It is great to get ahead in life, but you don't have someone to share it with, what's it all worth?
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Your absolutely in love or you will be an absolute perfect lover..
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@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
That's true, I also believe in that. I hope you will have both sooner or later. Nice hearing from you. Take care
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
7 Sep 10
If I could imagine I am at Miss Universe contest or if this is a debate well I have chosen to decide ONE for this categorical question. I would rather choose my LOVE ONE! Why? If you have chosen the man that is right for you who is willing to love, care, of course other good personality and traits must be included such as sense of responsibility, humility, a man with pride and dignity then one thing for sure we would establish a good relationship and from there we can help each other to accomplish our career or if not in career at least I am sure that we will be also helping each other on how to be stable in our lives especially in terms of finances. If I am going to choose career but without love ones, then I am not that sure if how could I tolerate myself to be alone that no one gives inspiration in my life. I mean being an achiever or financially stable wouldn't mean that you are totally happy. We must remember that there is no such thing as perfect.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Hmmm.. You sound to be so romantically in love men! Thanks for your response, I simply agree, sort of it.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
My boyfriend is also a nurse like me.. But both of us are having difficulty finding ourselves a job.. and if I will have to choose a career for him.., I would have liked him to involved with computers.. like in IT jobs perhaps.. He also thinks the same..=)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
ooooopsss... one big mistake for me..hahaha..I have misread the title of this discussion..I thought the title was career for your loved ones instead of "or" tsk tsk.. i'm so sorry.., to answer your question.., I will choose my love one over my career,..=)
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
That's the reason why you don't have jobs yet, because both you are in love with each other not with your career.. haha joke you will find job later or sooner.
@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
I will choose CALOVE.haha that is the mixture of both of it. Really, I don't know how to answer this. My mind keeps saying to choose love first, so I choose LOVE. You should have love first because how can you love your work if you don't have it! lol
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Love first to be inspired to continue your career might be your point of view. Thanks
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
the love one should always understand. but that would still depend on the circumstances. if you have a partner you should also compromise. you have to also weigh your priorities. talk to your love one make compromises and there should be no choosing to be done.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Thanks but hit the target next time..
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
i would say it depends. if i am married, i have to choose love, or my family over career because i would expect my husband to care for the family. if i am single and my bf asks me to resign from work, he will have to give me valid reasons, like we will be having a business of our own. but definitely for no reason at all, career would be priority at the moment because i would of course need my career, salary, money to pay for the bills.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 10
That's a tough question, but I will try my sarcastic answer here. I will prefer career because we cannot live only with love. Besides, if we've got good career it will be easier for us to find love. Better savings, better properties, better chance!
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
I find your answer not sarcastic but rather realistic..
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 10
I think, I would choose the career because a career is a opportunity that might not come for a second time while the love, can come at any time and will quickly come easier when you're at the peak of career
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Nice point dude! Thanks
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
7 Sep 10
Well, I think If I have to chose I will go for career.Because Love can and is getable at any stage of life according to me. If You have no career , One day Your love will also leave you. Have a nice day
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Really its "According to you" hahaha. Thanks good point.
@joyce318 (139)
• China
7 Sep 10
It all depends. If the person really like me very much and regard me as his only. I will choose the love one. If not, I will prefer to my career. of course, it is better to have both ^_^.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Conditional decision hahaha..Thanks
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
Well it really depends. If Im going to choose between boyfriend and career, I will choose my career. But if I have to choose between my husband and my career, I will surely choose my husband.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
You can't choose in your case because you both need your husband as your partner and your career to survive with your family. Thanks.
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
7 Sep 10
It is really difficult to say when you are not in the situation. But for me, I would say I will choose my loved one over my career because once you have found the person you want to live with the rest of your life, it is simply irreplaceable.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Thanks for your good point of view. I agree.
@len1415 (195)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
If you'd say between my husband and my career, i'd choose my husband...but a boyfriend over my career, i'd pick my career...definitely!
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
No choice than to love your husband but I won't let you choose this time bacause both love and career are important for a committed person like you, a married one. Thanks