Love is blind?
By ravalarun
@ravalarun (337)
India
17 responses
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 10
No. Love is not blind, but people is often blinded by love. Sometimes it's not love at all, but desire.
@darkmoon (701)
• India
8 Sep 10
Hello ravalarun ,
The answer of your question is different is each persons,
in me love is not blind because blind love is not a true love it only a fascination.Suitable words to love is some thing dedicated to some body with out any kind of sad.we can also find may answers from our own life journey ...
happy mylotting
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
yes love is blind^^ bcs we cant choose who we can love. i can say this bcs my ex he wasnt that caring and so sweet guy and i fell for him^^ what can i say i always liked bad boys style ahah^^ also people say that bcs sometimes a guy we love is bad to us and we continue loving him^^ like me it was so obvious that a guy wasnt into me and still i couldnt see that bcs we were best friends before and suddenly he started to get away from me and i never knew the reason :( anyway i had to stop talking with him and understand that i wasnt losing nothing bcs i gave all my care to him and this meant nothing to him so. and now im ok :) after cry and be sad for so long im ok now :)
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I guess it is true.. because when you fall for a certain person.. you accept him as a whole.., including his negative aspects.., and you don't notice it at all because what matters most is how you felt for that person.., so that's where you became blind.. blind of the things that normally you dislike..=)
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
I have to say its true based from my own experience. Even though my ex hurt me alot and is still hurting me til now, I can`t help but still love him. I`m still blinded by him.
@junnah25 (55)
• Cavite City, Philippines
8 Sep 10
I also don't believe it's true, technically speaking.
I believe our heart just have their own way of seeing someone they want to love.
Sometimes our mind can affect our hearts also. They just say love is blind not because they can't see any reason why they love that person. But because they see a lot of reason not to. True love, is not blindness but of pure and long lasting love.
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
I don't believe that love is blind, love is a choice we tend to believe that but it is not true, love is a world of acceptance, tolerance, respect and showing love. Love is Blind is often associated with people who don't deserve your love and can often compared with love at first sight. True love means you accept the one you love, you are not blind anymore for possible failings; nobody is perfect everyone has their flaws and every relationship has ups and downs this is part of a relationship process.
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
8 Sep 10
Yep, have definitely heard of this phrase before. Most of the time, I hear it from my television set.
As I am into my fourth year with my partner, I sometimes do have this feeling as well. It is not that I don't love him. I do, in fact still love him very much.
Just that sometimes, I will think why do I like this person next to me? He isn't handsome, isn't tall isn't.... the list goes on.
No one is perfect. All of us would want to love someone perfect. So why, why did we choose to love this guy and be willing to give up anything for him?
@phong1040572 (672)
• Thailand
8 Sep 10
Yes. i think so. many people in love can feel that. even my love is not good but their eyes look their love is the best.
@ivo_shkafov (399)
• Bulgaria
8 Sep 10
Well,I think it's true,because once you fall in love,you don't care about someone s flaws,you see only the good things,even though you know he/she is going to hurt you,so It'd say love definetly is blind :)
@jaijaye (168)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
I guess so love is blind. A lot of people are in love with a person in a different personalities and faces, some are don't think about what they are, where they came from. I just watched a real life story in television that a real couple are so in love with each other. The girl is heavy while the boy was kind of slim, I really been amazed with their love story. So i guess it's an example that love is blind.:)
@Chocoholic (85)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 10
Yeah, I think so. When I love someone I always wanna give everything to him. No matter how he react to me I always hope that he'll love me too.
@asxenon (1440)
• Malaysia
8 Sep 10
Nowadays it is dangerous to fall in love blindly. The society today is no longer safe enough for us to think with our heart. Sometimes, we must experience and see instead of just trust our feelings. Feelings are important in love, but do make sure that the one you try to love is not cheating on you some some other purpose in his/her mind :p
@kartiknaiduk (275)
• India
8 Sep 10
I dont think love is blind. Whenever you fall in love, first you start liking a person, then you gradually you fall in love. You may like any of the qualities of the person, may it be beauty, smartness, etc. It may be possible that the person may be poor or has some kind of drawbacks, but some or the otherthing of that person becomes our liking. So I feel love isn't blind.