how to know that he is lying

Philippines
September 9, 2010 11:14am CST
well i have read tooo many articles and magazines on how to detect if my BF is lying.... i really dont literally see a hint that hes lying to me but my intuition tells me so..=( im always mad and suspicious in everything he do coz im always thinking that he is just lying to me.... hmmmmm what am i gonna do i think im going crazy bout a; these=(
8 responses
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
If you keep on thinking and suspect that your boyfriend is lying on you.., You will not be at peace.., you'll always be bothered over your line of thoughts.., In order for a relationship to work and last.., Love is not the only necessary element.., There should be trust too..=)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
i trusted him but he ruined it and now i have a difficulty bringing back the trust that is why im always suspicious that maybe he is doing it again...=( im becoming so paranoid on things..and i dont like it at all... i wanted to bring bvack the trust to avoid all these hassles but i just cant the past always creeps in my mind....
@babyshei (97)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
i agree with going with your instincts.. i believe that if you really know a person you can readily tell if he's being honest or lying to you through body language..having eye to eye contact works wonders too.it is said that if someone lies, thery cant look you in the eye
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
i really hope it works the eye thing because that is my only chance to know ...yeah o know him and that i can readily say if hes lying that is when we are together but now we have a long distance rel and i believe people can change,,, i hope the change would go to the right direction...
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
It would be very best if you trust your bf..although i know it's very really hard to do so. As for me i already know when my bf is lying maybe because i really observe him when we are together, i know when he tells a lie or when he means every word he says. Even when we are far from each other, i can still feel it when he lies.. even from a single text message i could tell when he is lying. I don't know how i did it but with the 4 years that we are together i just know him so well already. Maybe you have to know your bf more and observe him through the way he says things.. And also ask him to always be open, try not to hide anything from him too so he too will be doing the same to you. Happy mylotting :)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
i hope i can be like you i know him but when he try to talk to me and exolain everything hes words just appease me for a while but still after like 3 days the thoughts will comeback....
@chhetp1 (467)
• India
9 Sep 10
There are millions of question hovering in our mind every single day. Most of them obviously are negative thoughts. Which makes a way for the suspicion to creep in and intuition to be effect with these negative ions, hence we keep drowning into the deepest aura of confusion, fear and restlessness. You might not like the answer I have here for you, but its my honest effort to bring the smallest bits of life to you. Why do we think if the BF or Gf or husband or wife is lying. If we are certain they are lying it is better to find the reasons of lies, rather than the person being a liar. It could be possible that your BF is feeling inferiority complex, maybe he is slowly getting disinterested from your companionship, maybe he has personal issues at his hand which he doesn't want to discuss. There could be end number of possibilities. But the result, without doubt can be a positive relation out of faith and belief or separation. I would say close your eyes deeply and keep telling your conscious mind that you will be able to make him love deeply and be truthful. Dream about your BF sharing every bits of his experience with you honestly. Try this for sometime. You will see a shocking change in the way your BF behaves. The most important thing is your perspective toward him that will make the relationship stay or get disjointed!!
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
ia am definitely gonna try this...its like putting on positive vibes.... i believe that when you do think imagine fervently about things it is most likely that it will be done...=) its like transferring vibes positive vibes...=)some call it magic some call it miracle but i call it strong will....
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
follow your instincts. women's instincts is 99% accurate. but if i were you, talk to your bf.. tell him all about your dilemma.
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
omg so f i follow my intuition its 99% he is lying=( i hope hes not huhuhuh... well i already told him million times that i think he is lying but he just refuse it a lot...=( i dont know how to really see and be sure that he is lying....
• Thailand
10 Sep 10
Just look at his eyes, but i think if you love someone, keep on believing, anyway, hope that people stop deceiving each other. life would be better
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
i really really hope that people stop lying... i hope i can trust and believe again...hope it is that easy,,,any way thanx for the comment..... i love him but i cant just be blind if i see that he is lying in my face....=) hope everything will be alright
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I'm going to teach you how to tell if a person is lying in general. I learned this from all the neuro-linguistic stuff i've been studying. I call this "The Evil Eye" (hmmm, catchy!). All you need is to get him to a position where you can see his iris. Then ask him if he's cheating on you. You can also do this to any person you suspect of lying to you. The only thing you need to do is be direct. Now here's the important part. Most people can say "no" without moving a muscle or showing any signs of lying. All you need to do is to focus on his iris. If it gets smaller than usual, what the person said is a lie. I've proven this several times with simple questions. Works everytime. Try it.
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
thanx for that...=) i really learned from you i would try it when we get together again... coz we are in a long distance relationship....=( so i can probably try this wen we meet again=(
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
You know when your loving someone you should learn how to trust and whatever happens the wrong doer will always reveal himself in no time. God will not let those people to hurt you that way if ever.
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
i know that i should trust him but the problem is that thr thoughts are uncontrollable.....bad thoughts keep on creeping my mind=(