same gender relationship?? are you ok, with this?

Hi! Your still wondering why you are being courted by lesbians? simply because your so pretty? they like pretty girls like if I'm a lesbian too i will not hesitate to take granted on you, just joking. Anyway so your here in Philippines. I'm wondering why does so many lesbian out there recently but I'm nothing against with them i have a full respect for other gender guy or lesbians. we cannot blame them for what they are but the sad is they just only people too that needs to love and be lo0ved by opposite person. Just try to entertain them and respect what they will feel for you is not a big deal at all you know your limit and I'm sure your older enough for what to know what is the right things to do. But Honestly if it is this you in picture? Wish i could be a lesbian too :) just joking, Take care and have a nice day ahead. Hope we can see each other sometimes might who.? :) Happy my Lotting Always Arthur :)

Well just tell them that you are not yet ready to face relationship. But I think they must be understanding enough of that concept that you don't like same gender relationship if they are your real friends. Or I hope you are courageous enough to tell the truth that you are not in love with anyone of the lesbians since you are treating them as friends. I mean of course relationship is for the couples who are in love with each other it is not for the couple that the only one is in love. How it will work in the first place unless the other person is just playing around.

It doesn't matter to me, to each it's own. i have lesbian friends and they great. They tried to hook up with me but I wasn't interested so they moved on but we're still friends.

I have yet to ever meet a happy homosexual. Plenty that say they are happy, but not one that really was. Statistically, homosexuals have high rates of domestic violence, low rates of fidelity, and high rates of disease, sickness, and depression. Further, if you have notice biologically, it's difficult to have legitimate children between same gender couples. Further, research suggests that children grow up best in a family with a fatherly role model, and a motherly role model, and a father and mother that love each other. From a very practical level, homosexuality is a bad plan. You will never be as happy in that relationship. From a religious level, I'm a Christian. So I believe that G-d created the natural system of things. Homosexuality is against nature. (back to how the two parts fit together) What is against nature, is against the creator of nature. Which means homosexuality is against G-d. Therefore it is wrong to a Christian. So my answer is of course... no. I would never do that.

I made a discussion just like this a few days ago and there were a lot of people who said that they are okay with it. But in my case, I will stick to what I said in my discussion that its not right cause its a very immoral thing.

:) religion wise i would advice you not to be in it but as a normal individual i would say you'l never know how it will be unless you've been there. i can't say they are better than guys nor i should say guys are better than them when it comes to relationship. they would for a fact take care of you for they know competition is not that easy for them. if you don't see yourself staying in this kind of relationship for good then i advise you don't enter it at all. just keep the friendship. these people are nice and it wouldn't be fair making experiments with their feelings.

What an initial discussion you have here! You did right in venturing away from that friendship. Apparently, your supposed to be circle of friends were not true to you. That is sad. But there are many people more who could be sincere friends. But let it not be said that I am anti-gay. I am not. I respect the fact that they are human beings and it was because of some hormonal imbalance that they've become what they are.

I would never do such a thing. I would never go with the same gender. The opposite gender is the best. Tell me something that you can get from the opposite gender? It is just so hard to imagine that someone would be comfortable in a relationship like that.

I know a lot of couples of the same gender and they seem to be fine but I have never been involved to such relationship. There are good things about it according to them such as having similar interests like shopping, reading romantic novels, watching melodramas etc...but there are downsides as well. Aside from the obvious fact that they will not have the opportunity to be real parent, they are violent when they fight. It is like a high-school-pep-squad kind of fight. All the shouting, slapping, hitting and hair pulling are usual when they fight...although not all of them does those. I have never entertained in my mind having relationship with the same gender much less do it. I do not condemn those who have such relationship , but I do not agree with them as well.

Well everybody is different and that's ok, but if I were in your shoes I don't think that I would do it because for me I am just not interested guys were always appealing even as a little girl I would always watch shows and always look at the guys and thinking how hot they were. Anyway everybody has their tastes and you know I am not really going to hate against anyone.

AS For me, i will not agree to have a relationship with the same gender.. for me, it is a big sin..because God created only man and woman..and to make change of our gender is not good., first it will make a big insult to our creator who made us..God make us boy or girl for a purpose..God Bless!

I think it's not a good idea to have a boyfriend or girlfriend with the same gender. I really hate to see that kind of situation because I know at the end there will be no happy ending. May be for some people it may happen. If in case this will happen to me, I will just say sorry, if he is my true friend I know he understand that but if not it's not my problem even it may end up our friendship.

I'm not against it, I'm actually open minded about that kind of stuff. I think you fall in love with the person not with his or her gender. So if we like each other why not?

If were in your place, i won't allow myself to have a relationship with a lesbian.Whatever changes they do in their appearance,they are still a girl like us.And what if you would really fall for that lesbian and then time came that she will realized that she's really a girl and turn her love for the boys?...it hurts. .

Doesn't bother me. If it's not shoved in my face, let them be. I know some hate seeing them display it in public, this is something that doesn't bother me. I just don't want it rubbing in my face or directly near me. I say the same for a normal couple, I hate seeing people shove their tongues inside each others mouths in other peoples view. (Directly in-front I mean)

Hi melodizachavez, First of all, let me say clearly that there is nothing wrong with homosexuality. People are born with an attraction for those of the same gender and we have to understand that. Second, I would say that if your friend was a true friend, she would not insist that you become involved in a relationship that you had no interest in. I have known gay men for most of my life, yet no one ever hit on me because they knew I was attracted to women. Of course you did the right thing, it was your friend that was in the wrong. Blessings.

You make it sound like some kind of disease. Do you think that gay people like that they are gay? Most of them would prefer they weren't, it isn't usually a life they choose. They don't like people looking at them and making fun or laughing or feeling digust. They don't like people to think of them as being different than us. I have a step daughter that came out when she turned 20. She dated boys all her teens but never stuck to one for very long. She tried to be straight because she knew how dissappointed her dad would be in her, and the rest of the world. But it wasn't her. She couldn't do it for the rest of her life. She felt like she was meant to be a boy and she was in a girl's body. Do you know what kind of struggle that must have been for her all her life. To feel like a boy in your mind but have the body of a girl. Doing girly things not because she liked it but because she had to, as a kid. I always had thoughts of her being a lesbian as she grew up, I say all the signs, but I never said anything to her dad about it, because I knew it would make him very angry. He has a problem with gay people and when it did come out he didn't talk to his daughter for over a year. I finally made him sit down with her and talk about it. He has finally accepted it after 8 years but he still doesn't like it and I know she feels that when she sees him. She has been living with her partner for 8 years and he still isn't all that nice to her partner. He's polite but that's it. He won't talk to her when he visits unless he has to, if she talks to him. I think he is being unfair and one day he is going to regret it. So I think you are too harsh about this subject and you need to open your eyes and accept that it is part of life and society now and you should never judge anyone for the way they choose to live. We only get to live our life once and we should live it the best of our abilities and be happy, no matter of our choice of partner to live it with. My opinion only my friend. Cheers and have a good day my friend, Chris

Hello melodi, well, you know in the Philippines that gays and lesbians are mostly exposed now and they are everywhere. it's either you're not open-minded to them or simply you're not into them at all. you can't blame them if you're pretty, am sure of it. but of course, you have to understand that a lot of women were probably attracted to you. that's your choice. but it's a good thing you ignore them too.you're honest with yourself. I am a guy so i don't know and i don't think i can get into that situation. lucky me

well it depends on the situation, i think you should talk to them that you really do not like that kind of relationship and better be off as friends, it is just a matter of how you explain things

i have nothing against lesbian but i think it's just so abnormal. they might shower you with lot's of love and tenderness but it's not the same cause no matter what they do they're still like us..women..girls..ladies.. if the friendship you had with her really matters to her she wouldn't let it go to waste..