What do you think is the best way to have a good relationship with others?
@luukimlong2000 (658)
Vietnam
September 15, 2010 11:14am CST
Hello everyone,
May I ask something about how to have a good relationship with other people.
What should I do to have it?
What's the best quality to make everyone around you happy and friendly with you?
What kind of relationship we need to avoid?
And, what's your opinion about your relationship?
Is't good enough, or you need to imprve it?
Sharing your ideas, I will response as soon as I can.
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16 responses
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
Good relationship are essential if you want to live your life to the fullest. Good relationship not only help us met our needs but also make our life more fulfilling. One way to build good relationship to our fellow is by learning their characteristics, we will equipped to build good relations in our lives. Treat everyone with courtesy and compassion and you cant go far wrong. Also if you want to maintain good relation with people, learn how to make them feel good about themselves when they around you. Further be honest, as no good relation are built on a falsehood.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I know. I hate cheat people, so I really hate people cheat me.
@davenhearst (327)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
yup right luukimlong200 that kind of people should be avoided maybe they take you for granted only and be careful in knowing different kinds of people we met...happy myloting...God bless
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
You know my friend. There is no secret of having a good relationship. The important things you need to consider is that finding someone that is feared with God.
Another thing also is on your side. Look who you are to enter into a relationship. Are able or responsible enough to handle a relationship? Are capable enough to have a partner? Are a lover? Are you a good person, that never harm any ladies? What qualities are you in a relationship, that you offer to girl that you like?
If your a violent person. No need for you to find a good relationship. But if your a good person and a lover. No need for you to find someone whom to loves you. Because ladies come knocking into your doors and say.."Hello" to you.
Have a great day!
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
Great points, you say something that's so good for me.
Have a nice day too!
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
16 Sep 10
This was the message in the sermon preached by our Pastor this past Sunday. It all boils down to treating others as you would have them treat you. It is not always easy to do that. "Love thy Brother" was the message brought across to us this past weekend. I must admit that it is very hard to do this with everyone. I am often not the most friendly person sooo......... I am still practicing!!
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I am a friendly person, but I still need to practice more.
Try your best, and you can do it.
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
For me the best way to have a good relationship is to have respect for other people. Aside from that you also have to be considerate with what other people feels towards what you say or do. It does not mean however that you need to please everyone. It is impossible. Just be yourself and make sure that you don't harm other people specially their rights while you are exercising your. Have a nice day!
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I agree that, respect is one of the best quality to have a good relationship.
@lovegod123 (1)
• Malaysia
16 Sep 10
hello to. be honest and make people belive for us.. always give them serious answer not sound like children, if u friends got some problem try to become a good friend like listen the problem. for me, try be honestly, and try to become youself... if any idea i will accept that.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
Yes, I agree that. In the relationship you need to be yourself becasue only you and only you know who you are, and if you know that, you will know how to contact with the others. You will use what you have to make a great relationship, not what you hide to make a great relationship.
@adie83 (6)
• Malaysia
16 Sep 10
hello to. be honest and make people belive for us.. always give them serious answer not sound like children, if u friends got some problem try to become a good friend like listen the problem. for me, try be honestly, and try to become youself... if any idea i will accept that.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I think it's a good ideas, listen to your friend whenever they want will help you more important in their thinking, ans if you are important, your relatiosship with your friends will increase. Everyone will think have a good relationship is better than don't have any relationship with anyone. In this life, you can't have no body's care because you can live alone in this earthn.
@GardenGerty (160696)
• United States
15 Sep 10
Listening is a key factor to building friendships and relation ships. That does not just mean to perceive the noise of what someone else says, it also means to look into what they are intending to say. People do not get along well when they just wait for the other person to finish talking so that they can talk again, without referencing what was said to them in the first place.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I agree with you about it.
Listening is one of the best way to share feeling, to make people feel more comfortalbe when they talk with you.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
15 Sep 10
There are lots of ways in starting a good relationship and maintaining a good relationship with others. The methods and practices vary depending on what type or what deep a friendship or relationship you want ot make wiht a person. I think the first and the very important thing in building and maintaining a relationship is to behave in a nice way to others that will tend them to behave in a nice way to you. Hope this is useful.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
Everyone will have his or her way to have a good relationship.
I am always try my best to make my relationship more deeper and deeper with someone I like and love.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
15 Sep 10
I think their are many ways to make a good relationship with others.. but for this you will be serious for making good relationships with other.. and main thing is that never cheat other person..who are very very good relationship with you.. and also trust is the main things which makes any relationships strong..
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
15 Sep 10
Yeah, I think so.
In most relationship, I think sharing ideas also is the way to keep your relationship for a long time.
Bye bye, see you tomorrow.
Now, I go to bed.
Have a nice day with mylot.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
16 Sep 10
As much as possible project it to other people for being friendly and you are someone that they can approach whenever they need your help. Of course cheering or smiling in front of them will be a big help. If you feel discomfort towards the person in the sense that he is having conversation with you that is not consistent it all means that you have to avoid that person already because that is the start of not having a good relationship. You will find out that he is already cheating with you. I'm actually a kind of person who does not interact with people right away. I just have to know them first before I consider them to by my friend.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I hate person who chaet me becasue I hate to cheat people.
I am just a normaly person, and I think so simple, with my friend I never cheat him or her to get the benefit.
@pretty_lexie (74)
• Philippines
16 Sep 10
In order to have good relationship with others you have to be your true self don't pretend coz the more you pretend the more others will have a reason to dislike you. Other thing is that made yourself comfortable with them it is important that the person you are with are those you want to be with. You also have to be aware of others feeling be careful on what you say or the way you act.
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
Thinking before talk sometings is really important too.
I help you avoid say somethings wrong that you never can take back.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I think that we must have a good relationship with our self. When we feel comfortable, we could marry with others.
Then, we should always smile and think about others generously.
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@bingdu2081 (7)
• China
16 Sep 10
I think if you have a good relationship,first you should have a good result of the conduct,the concern surrouding friends and love,sense of humor or good at creating fun,they can be around them and were more likely to trust you so that you meet interpersonal its capability!
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@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
I think people can trust me bacause I always help them whenever they need, sharing and give them ideas about what I think.
@luukimlong2000 (658)
• Vietnam
16 Sep 10
Really, I think the great ideas about to have a good relationship with other is help the others, share you ideas, feeling, friendly, and careful about what you say.
I know if saying something worng, the relationship may get some serous trouble, so I thinking about what I will say carefully before I say it to someone.
It's my opinion about my topic.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
8 Nov 10
To have a good relationship with others, first you must have a good relationship with yourself. Be true to yourself and open and honest. Good relationships will then come to you.
@sledgelhiam (32)
•
19 Sep 10
let me share to you my experience about that question,first u have to advance in evrthing most especailly your behavior attitude etc.it will help you to be closed to other then be friendly share ur feeling to other but not all,always open minded patient maybe try to have all positive manner that will help you to have good relationship,its so good to be true and have more friend..hehehe gudluck lol...........