when you friends don't like him/her
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
5 responses
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
16 Sep 10
but what if you love him so much that I couldn;t break up with him just because your friends say so..
@MrGold13 (12)
• Bulgaria
17 Sep 10
If you are really in love with him/her than you shouldn't break up just because your friends don't like him/her...
BUT sometimes when you love someone you see him in a different way while your friends see his real sides eighter good or bad
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
17 Sep 10
Yeah, if you really love him, then don't and follow your heart. Your friends judgments may not be correct either... but it's best to find out and form your own opinion yourself. Just remember what they tell you if they are important to you too. Best wishes.
@brean_rhea (176)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
well..its not all the time that your friends is right...for me it will depends on how close we are with my friend....if its coming from my sister like friend, then id rather believe my friend that continue my relationship with my bf...coz i will choose my friend over my bf...
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
17 Sep 10
yea but it's easyer to see certain things from the outside, things that the person involved in that relationship couldn't see.. at the same time is true that we can only learn from our own mistakes
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
Hmmm. I can relate. At present, my friends are against by current bf. Well, one reason is because I broke up with my fiancee of more than 5 years for this new guy. Two because he is an ex of my cousin's bestfriend and that the reason for their break up was due to third party. There are other reasons why they hate him for me and I do not want to put them in detail.
I listen to their advise, I also followed my what my heart desires. It is a big sacrifice because I am torn between, but I took the risk. What I am thankful for with my friends is that they never leave me. They likewise respect my decision.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
It hasn't happened to me yet but i would share my experience as a friend.. I have a friend that we once disapprove of her relationship with his bf. We all know that the guy is not a stick to one lover and has a very bad reputation with regards to having a relationship, so we informed our friend. She knows that we don't approve of her relationship with the guy but she still continue the relationship anyway..who are we to force her to stop the relationship?! She didn't listen to our concern for her that in the end she will get hurt, and yes our worries did happen. The guy was dating another girl and sadly we saw him so sweet to the other girl, my friend then talked to her bf and broke up with him. The learning here is that friends may be there to help you see things that people who are in love doesn't see but they don't force you to do things. Friends will just be there to guide you and be with you when you feel so down and through your happiest moments.
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
although we all know that friends won't leave us astray, it is really difficult to be caught in the middle of such situation. It is better to let your friends know that it is one relationship that only you can decide upon. on the other hand, do find out if there are any good basis for their not wanting that special person you have to be part of your life as well.
